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2 boys
I'm a female/15
I have a boyfriend that I've been going out with for about 9 months now and things have been kind of crappy lately 1. our relationship isn't sexually exiteing enough that kind of sounds bad but out of nine months of going out I've been fingered once and I've given him hand jobs countless amounts of time and was thinking about giving him head 2. we've been fighting ALLL THE TIME over really stupid things he will piss me off i get mad then he makes fun of me being mad and BAM EXPLOSION * we got in a huge fight yesterday and I was like how come you always have to make me feel like crap (his sense of humor him "joking around" is kinda aggravating me lately) I told him about it before and i told him its getting worse and I'm sick of fighting with him all the time .. we cant even talk on the phone anymore without getting in an arguement (btw WE NEVER USED TO FIGHT BEFORE) but on the other hand he's always there for me and when i'm upset he's always there to help me feel better but i'm sick of fighting and i can't like change who is his because his sense of humor that aggravates me is basically who he is; i'm losing patience with him..
AND I'm kind of really attracted to another guy and he's becoming more appealing to me lately
what should i do.. should i breakup with him?
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Relationships have their ups and downs. You just happen to be in what I like to call a "Dating Rut" It is however, the couple's responsibility to work through these hard times. If you have a good relationship with this boy, don't throw it all away because you've been fighting a little. Give it time, see if things get better. Unfortunately though, things won't get better on their own. You both have to put in a little effort to figure out what's making you fight all the time. Sometimes it takes almost losing someone to realize what a great thing you both had. Maybe take some time apart. Don't spend as much time together and see how things fair out. As for this other guy, you may be attracted to him, but attraction is purely physical. Think of it this way, if things end up not working out between you and your current boy; then think about him. Until then, don't dwell on it to much.
To answer your question: I don't think you should break up with him right away. Give it time to see how thing are going. If things don't get any better, then yes. Do break up with him. Don't stay in a relationship if you aren't happy in it.
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If you don't want to be with him, break up with him.
The details don't matter just answer that question.
Do you want to be with your boyfriend anymore?
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if someone makes you should leave them to be with someone that makes you happy are risk being unhappy for happy for a long
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