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I love him, but ...ughhh.
I'm 14 and a girl in the 9th grade. Ok, so I like this guy and I've liked him for a longgg time. Everyone alwyas says we're giong to get married, becasue we're best friends and were always together. I never told my girl best friend that i liked him though, because I kind of always thought she did too, and i really dnt like to talk about guys with anyone. But just recently, she told me she lked him, and wanted me to ask him to homecomeing for her. well, I did, and he said that he had thought that he might would ask me. and I told him that I couldnt do that to her, and told him he should just go with her.so he said yes, and i've been ttrying to kind of stay out of it, but now he doesnt thik I like him anymore, and things have gotten weird between us. I miss us being close, and I dont know what to do. Any help?
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i think you should tell "guy" that you dont wanna ruin your freindship with her because its really important to you ;; and staight up tell him that you liked him for a long time ;; i know its hard but i had the same kind of thing "a friend i liked for a lonnnggg time and everybody said actually still says we are gonna get married" and when i liked him i like never told him until it was kindof too late .. just do it in a casual way so its not so awkward and serious tell him straight up cuz he'll admire your confidence and tell him that you want to wait a little while to see if your friend will get over him and talk to her.. if she told you recently that she liked him tell her that you have feelings for him too at soooon.(i know thats tough too but if you end up dating him the situation will be less scummy) things may have gotten weird because he's trying to get over you cuz he thinks you dont like him .. dont wait things out to much!!
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its soo funny i was in the exact same situation last year actually its kinda creepy ahah!
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Confront your friend first. Tell her your feelings and how you really care for this boy a lot. If she gives you her blessing, great. If she doesn't you can't help that. If you honestly love that boy don't give up on him.
Then explain the situation to him. Who knows, this could turn into a great relationship.
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you tell him you value the friendship and you still like him but you dont wont to hurt your friend
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