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My name is alix. I'm fourteen &i live just moved to massachusets. i love all of my closer friends; theyre my life. i like cats, and my favorite food is soanish rice. i like going to the movies with all my friends; we do it every friday. it's a routine. i love giving advice about guys, but what i really love are questions from guys about girls. im really opinionated, but im usually not very harsh when i answer things. advice
sorry if its sort of long.
alright so im a sophmore n he's a freshman. i met him like 3 weeks ago n we've been talking ever since. He always im's me first n always flirts with me n always like talks to me in the halls. But the problem is... he has a girlfriend (a sophmore also. we're not really friends just aquaintences) ok. so the other night he was saying how im really pretty/hott n stuff.. and then randomly he brought up who i like n i didnt want to tell him so i sorta worked my way around it.. n then he's like well "who says i wont break up with my g.f. and sweep you off your feet" and i was like now theres a thought haha. n he was like now i cant have you falling for me n i was like ha i never said i was. but YOU said that YOU would sweep ME off my feet and its like damn. it was a joke. and then i said haha i know n i had to leave.. but is that a sign that he likes me? or him just being a flirt?
He was probably just flirting, but he definitely thinks youre pretty and all. He might like you a little, and wanted to see how you'd respond. But he definitely still likes his girlfriend, so I wouldn't try to break them up or anything. I'd let things be, don't fall too hard for him and don't flirt too much, just let time take its course. If they stay together for a really long time, then I'd try and move on, but hey, it's a high school relationship. How long will it last? Probably not very long at all. So wait it out.
hey :] 15/f
okay. well im 110 pounds and 5'4. im not fat but i dont like the way i look. i dont eat a lot at all, and i eat no junk food.
ex. today i had a cup of low fat yogurt for breakfast and for lunch im having a few crackers (like 5) and a piece of cheese. I never really eat dinner b.c im not hungry. I workout everyday, i do atleast 3 hours of pilates, crunches, leg lifts etc. I guess i kinda do starve myself, but i hate feeling full. Is all of this really that bad?
any tips on how to "safely" lose like 5-10 pouns in like 2 weeks ?
thanks :]
OK.
You suffer from anorexia nervosa, and you should probably get treatment.
It's a really terrible disease, and you need to get help.
You can work out regularly still. I'd say lower the time though.
But please, please get treatment, or at least tell a family member.
Ok, I have a lot of cute shirts & I dress pretty girly, but my problem is it is absolutely freezing in school. I am cold all the time. I end up wearing a hoodie every day because I can't concentrate otherwise. What are some cute ideas to make myself look more girly? I usually do a messy bun with earrings, but any other ideas? Thanks
You could get some cute sweaters; they almost always make you look girlier.
If you wear contacts, try switching to a really cute pair of glasses. A thick-rimmed pair looks amazing with a messy bun and danglyish earrings.
You can wear really cute shoes. Anything that's not sneakers is great... wedges, estrapedilles, ballet flats...
hi, i need help with a project Im doing. I need to find 10 pictures from magazines or from the internet that represent ten characters from Romeo and Juliet
I think its supposed to be objects.. like the sun would represent Juliet because Romeo calls her that in the balcony scene.
So any help? characters like Romeo, Juliet, Lady Capulet, Lord Capulet, Tybalt, Mercutio, Benvolio, Friar Laurence, The Prince, The Nurse, Count Paris, Lord Montague, Lady Montague, Balthazar, Rosaline, ect. I need all your ideas. Even if you only have an idea for one character.
thanks!
For Rosaline, you can do a cross, or a nun's habit(the thing they wear on their heads), or something else religious because she swore to be chaste.
For Benvolio you could do something like a peace sign because he tries to keep the peace. Like in the first scene when he tries to stop the fight.
For Tybalt, you could do a sword, a gun, or maybe like, a stampede of animals because he's violent and aggressive.
okayy. so at lunch i was walking past the table of popular guys and some of them im KINDA freindly with and there like ohh max likes you and come and talk to him and i just kinda blow him off because there is no way that max likes me. i mean. hes not hott or anything but just were friends you know. so i walk to my table and what ever. and at gym "steve" who was there was like ohh max likes you and stuff and im like ohhh yeahh sure. and then i started bugging him about who he likes/liked. and then max comes over and is like ohh yeah dont believe them or anything. i was like i kno kno i believe you. and then he told me the reason they said that ( all the guys at the table) was that max was like to this kid kevin oh you like wendy (who like has friends and everything and isnt like a nerd but not like popular and not the PRETTIEST but yeah) and then so kevin was like oh you like (me) samantha. and then yeah. so like were they making fun of me? like i have friends okay. im not like friendless. and im friendly with some popular people you know. and like trust me im not UGLY. im actually sorta pretty. im not being like concited but i can be really pretty. =] haha. so yeah where they? i already told me friend (ryan whos like kinda popular) to go yall at keven =] ha.
I dont think they were making fun of you
They just chose you because you were kinda a good choice, you know like it wasnt unbelievable because youre not a hideous loser, but youre not the most popular girl in the school either, so its not tooo believeable.
They might have been making fun of you a tinyyy bit, but in a friendly way, not a mean one.
Also, there might be a grain of truth in this. I'm not saying he likes you, but he probaly has said, oh samanthas kinda cute, or maybe he used to like you. But you really can't be sure, so don't assume that he does or anything.
tomorrow night is this carazzyyy dance. everyone goes crazy when they are there you are supposed to get way crazy and have the time of your life. i really like this one kid(joe) alot. this other kid(dan). well dan is going to the dance tm. he really wants to hook up with me but the only reason why i would is cause i like to hook up with people and i would just do it for fun. i have NO feelings for dan though and i really don't want joe to find out. should i hook up with him or with other guys? or not at all?
You shouldnt really worry about getting labeled or anything, everyones gonna be like that
but would joe like, care? if he understood that there was nothing more than a hookup, would it affect him? or is he the kind of guy who understands that? cause if he'd understand, then go for it. and dont hook up with other guys and not dan.. if thats what you meant in your last sentence. if youre gonna hook up then go all out.
why are some people making a big deal about tomorrow.... whats tomorrow?
4/20 is "pot day" so there are going to be a lot of people high.
it's also the anniversary of the Colombine shootings and Hitler's birthday.
how can i relax whenim with a guy like i mean hooking up...i hve avoid every relationship becuase i dont know ow to make out !!! even kiss!!!
(If you don't think this is too sluttly) let your next hookups be with people who you don't really want to go out with and who wouldn't tell everyone you knew that you were a bad kisser(camp friends, friends of friends, etc.) You can practice on them, and just kinda feel good because you know that nothing bad can happen.
my brother had this little tiny paper bag in his car which is now my car, the little container paper bag, is all different colors and it has like indian? writing printed on it, and all different colors, at first i thought it was a fire work, but i opened it, and it had a whole bunch of rolled sticks, kind of like joints but pretty small, but instead of like white paper there wrapped in like a dry green leaf, and i can feel something inside them, are they joints? or something else? , please only answer if you know what your talking about, or have messed with drugs before?
Just so you know, it's definitely not incense. It's pretty likely that it's some drug or another. They sound like it, but i have a few ideas running through my head so i can't tell you which kind for sure. So
1. Take it out of your car ASAP. if the police happened to pull you over and found it, you'd be in a lot of trouble.
and
2. Confront your brother. I'm not saying that you should be like, "I know you have drugs in my car." Maybe act really naive and innocent and be like, "Hey matt, what are these?" If he says theyre not drugs and seems like he's lying, they probably are. If he insists that theyre not, then you could say, "alright, then can I have one?" if he says no, ask where he got them so you can go get some. if he seems like he's hesitating, then theyre definitely drugs.
hi im a guy 13, i was wondering how to go out with a girl without ur parents relizing. I could always use the im going with my best friend to the cinema excuse but if I wanted to be alone it would sound pretty suspicious "mom can i go to the mall by myself?" where i live there shopping malls are all close together so i could take a taxi but if my mom found out i would be screwed... so any advice?
Yeah, you could always do that.
But as for places that are far away, here are a few things.
1. Go with a group of friends, and you and your gf could branch off together.
2. Just have her drop you off, and tell her that your friends must not be there yet.
3. If some place is close enough to walk to, then do that. If you really like your gf, then it would be a good time to spend with her. I'd say this would work for up to like, 2 miles.
I wouldn't take a taxi, just because her finding out would be really bad. She'd lose trust in you, and it would be harder to get away with things.
16m,
I'm gay and I dated a 14m that has a brother that goes to my school. It got really complicated and I think I fell in love with him. My problem is this, I am moving in two months and I kinda told him that I wish nothing ever happened between us and that it was over and that I never wanted to see him again.
Please help. My columnist name is Ilovehippies. Check "My Questions" and look at "Love Problems" before you answer this. That's the full story. Please dont bother answering unless you read it all because I truly need help.
Thank you,
---Brandon---
If you were in love with him, you can't let anything come between you. you have to work it out.
You need to have a talk with him. Just you two, somewhere private.
Call him up; you don't have to act like you're into him, and you don't have to act like you're not. Just tell him that you have to talk to him, and give a time and a place.
Don't be too forward, but don't beat around the bush either. Just tell him how you really feel. And make sure you tell him everything, except maybe that you love him.. it could scare him away or put too much pressure on him. Just tell him what you want, and how you feel. Then, see what he says. Stay calm; don't yell or anything.
But seriously, it's a really big deal.
I know this wasnt a great answer, and im sorry. If you need anything though, leave me one in my inbox.
I really hope it works out for you.
I heard from someone that If You are 15 or 16 years of Age Then your breasts will probably not grow more or They might stay the same size..Is that trueE?? i do not belive its true because i think its the age where they Just start to develope and i dont belive it cuts off at those ages..I hope not because i think my need growing lol
Thats not true
They usually arent fully developed until youre about 21.
so i bought wax so i could do my own eyebrows. So anyway everytime i put the hot wax on my eye brows and then get a piece of wax paper to pull it off the wax doesnt come off with the wax paper. What am i doing wrong?
You might be putting oo much on. you need to make sure that theres only a very thin layer.
plus what the other columnists said
alright, this might be kind of a stupid question, but i just need advice.
i`m not comfortable wearing tampons, i don`t know why. i`ve tried, and i just don`t like it. eventually, it`ll be practical, sure, but for right now, i`m sticking with pads. i got my period in 6th grade, when i was 12, in december. i`m not in 7th grade and 13.
last summer, i didn`t go to the pool or anything when i was swimming, but i had my period when my whole family went to a waterpark, so i wore a tampon that day, but i didn`t like it, and it didn`t even do anything because my period stopped that day. so i don`t even know how well a tampon works for me, or if it would work well enough while swimming.
anyways, i hate having people ask me to go to the pool when i have my period and won`t go. so, if i wore a tampon, would i be able to go? or would it still be a good idea to just stay out of the water for that day? what if i`m going to a waterpark or something when i have it, should i wear a tampon then?
these might seem like stupid questions, but i wasn`t really sure. thanks in advance :D
Yeah, you could wear a tampon in the water. same with a waterpark. thats one of the best things about them.
but heres a tip: id change them more often if youre going to be in the water for a while. it's not likely, but its possible that water will make its way up to the tampon and it will make the blood diffuse out. it happened to me once in the bath and it was pretty bad. i mean if it happened, im sure you could cover it up by kind of mixing the water around and running to a bathroom w a towel around your waist. it's really not a huge deal at all, but i'd take these steps to be careful.
but all in all, its definitely worth it.
Dreadlocks - my latest 'craving', you could say. There's this girl in my uni who has it and it looks amazing on her.
I was just wondering how it's done...I know someone who'll do it and stuff but I wanna know how. Also, will I be able to wash my hair? And after how long will it start to get all loose and weird? And are there any negative consequences (like the 1.5 million different fleas found in Bob Marley's hair)?...
I admit I'm a hygiene freak (must wash my hair before 24 hours are over between each wash)and I just want to make sure I won't do something I will regret.
Thanks for your time.
=)
Hey, i just noticed everyone saying you can't wash them.
thats not totally true.
you can get them washed, but not so often and all.
Also, some people said that you just don't wash it and you frizz it...
not true either.
my guy friend tried this and all he got were these matts. Like, if youve ever seen a matted dog? that's what he looked like.
It's a pretty detailed procedure. I can't tell you exactly how to go about doing them, but i know that basically you separate small pievess of hair, a little less thick than you want your dreds, and you twist them. then, you rub your fingers up and down them. you can get them done, too.
and if you do them right and get them relatively thin, then theyre not that unhygenic. You can still be a clean freak everywhere else, and ill admit theyll be dirty, but theyre not going to be full of bugs like the one person said.
if you like the idea, go for it. don't let hygene stop you. theyre not as unsanitary as most people think.
k, so theres this boy in my gym class that i really like, and i can kinda tell he likes me. so heres where it gets complicated. Hes i guess what you call "popular" and im just kinda of a floater. i mean i have popular friends but i wouldnt consider myself popular, and hes like really outgoing and loud and stuff and im more reserved, im mean im not like that quiet girl in the corner, but I dont make an effort to have all the attention on me. so hes used of girls like throwing themsevles at him and im just not like that so its hard for us to like make a good convo and stuff, because like right now its just like 5 second talks. So anyway does anyone have any ideas to help me talk to him more and flirt more, im really not like this with boys but he is just like amazing! oh yea and did i mention the only time i really talk to him is in my gym clothes!, haha any ideas on what i should wear to gym, haha. thanks so much, sry this is so long
One thing i noticed was that you said a lot of girls throw theirselves at him, but you wouldnt do that. thats perfect, because guys dont really love that. they like a bit of a challenge. don't start playing hard(er) to get, but dont go easy either. do exactly what youre doing now, and it will draw him to you.
But go up to him in the hallway once or twice and ask him something. He's only in your gym class, right? otherwise, id tell you to ask him about a class, but theres not much you can say about gym. maybe be like, "do we have gym today?" or something, and he'll probably just respond yes or no so you'll have to say something else. (if you don't like gym) be like, "ughh i hate floor hockey(or w/e)." if he doesn't really respond, stop talking. you'll make a fool out of yourself if you keep talking to him. he'll see you as sort of coming on to him, and you don't really want that yet. You could also ask about something else like that. something pretty casual, and not to personal, you know?
also, you said you were friend with popular girls and he's popular. so in most cases, your friends would be his friends. so next time you do a group thing together, like go to the movies or something like that(if you have an amuesment park nearby, try to go there; it's perfect) be like, "we should invite some guys." if they agree, then when you put together the list of guys, mention the guy you like. unless they all hate him, theyll probably be pretty cool with it. and unless your friends aren't really great with things like that, them knowing that you like him might not be such a bad idea. You know your friends; if they'd tell him or make fun of you(badly, not just jokingly), then dont tell them. but if they know you like him, theyll probably flirt with him less, and maybe invite him along when you go somewhere/invite you when they go somewhere with him.
and about the gym clothes:
do you have uniforms? because if you do, you can roll the shorts up or tie the shirt with a hair thing, but thats about it. if you can, then maybe cut into the shirt collar, you know so it makes a v thing. (if you dont know what im talking about, dont do it).
if you don't, then wear a cute pair of sweats and a tank top, or something else you know you look good in. also, a loose t shirt, one you might get from a camp or a show or something, looks really cute if you have a biggish chest. like, on the bigger side of an a-cup(almost b) and bigger. wear one that's too short, and put a long tank top that matches underneath. tie the tshirt to make it tight at the bottom. it looks great.
hope i helped!
i dont get this quote can someone plz translate it
O, beware, my lord, of jealousy!
It is the green-eyed monster which doth mock
The meat it feeds on. (by shakespeare)
thanks^_^
Oh beware, my lord: he's telling the person who he is talking to(his lord) to beware.
of jealousy: what to beware of
It is the green eyed monster: have you heard the phrase green-eyed monster? it's pretty much a word for a jealous person. I don't know the context of the quote, but he is either saying to beware of jealousy or of a jealous person; which ever makes more sense. If he is saying "beware of jealousy," then he is describing jealousy as a monster.
which doth mock the meat it feeds on: doth means does. So the speaker is comparing a monster eating meat to jealousy consuming a person. and as it consumes a person, it "mocks" them, or it makes them appear to be a fool.
so in short:
Beware, my lord, of jealousy!
It is a monster which makes those who it consumes appear a fool.
hope i helped! i love shakespear; id happily help with anymore you have.
is there nayway someone can be in love with someone if they were never together?
or how about if they broke up? but only one loves the other?
or does it have to be both?
Yeah, you can be in love with someone who doesn't return the feeling.
If you're really close, then it's almost as easy to fall in love as if you were in a relationship.
so yes to all the questions.
oh my goodness. my period keeps flowing so fast, it wont stop. I have to keep changing the pads. does anyone know any ways to make it stop or go slower.??? I heard eating chocolate does i think? Is that true, or are there other ways?
That's not true. There aren't any ways. You can't do anything, unless you take certin medicines to alter it. Sorry, though.
13/f. hey i get manicures alott, (french) and i was wondering how to make them last longer?
When you dry them in the machine thing, dry them for longer. Even if it doesnt seem necessary to do more cycles, it is. the longer you do it, the longer it lasts. I typically do 5 or six cycles, but even ten would be great.