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boy drama
k, so theres this boy in my gym class that i really like, and i can kinda tell he likes me. so heres where it gets complicated. Hes i guess what you call "popular" and im just kinda of a floater. i mean i have popular friends but i wouldnt consider myself popular, and hes like really outgoing and loud and stuff and im more reserved, im mean im not like that quiet girl in the corner, but I dont make an effort to have all the attention on me. so hes used of girls like throwing themsevles at him and im just not like that so its hard for us to like make a good convo and stuff, because like right now its just like 5 second talks. So anyway does anyone have any ideas to help me talk to him more and flirt more, im really not like this with boys but he is just like amazing! oh yea and did i mention the only time i really talk to him is in my gym clothes!, haha any ideas on what i should wear to gym, haha. thanks so much, sry this is so long
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try talking 2 him outside of gym class and make conversation
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One thing i noticed was that you said a lot of girls throw theirselves at him, but you wouldnt do that. thats perfect, because guys dont really love that. they like a bit of a challenge. don't start playing hard(er) to get, but dont go easy either. do exactly what youre doing now, and it will draw him to you.
But go up to him in the hallway once or twice and ask him something. He's only in your gym class, right? otherwise, id tell you to ask him about a class, but theres not much you can say about gym. maybe be like, "do we have gym today?" or something, and he'll probably just respond yes or no so you'll have to say something else. (if you don't like gym) be like, "ughh i hate floor hockey(or w/e)." if he doesn't really respond, stop talking. you'll make a fool out of yourself if you keep talking to him. he'll see you as sort of coming on to him, and you don't really want that yet. You could also ask about something else like that. something pretty casual, and not to personal, you know?
also, you said you were friend with popular girls and he's popular. so in most cases, your friends would be his friends. so next time you do a group thing together, like go to the movies or something like that(if you have an amuesment park nearby, try to go there; it's perfect) be like, "we should invite some guys." if they agree, then when you put together the list of guys, mention the guy you like. unless they all hate him, theyll probably be pretty cool with it. and unless your friends aren't really great with things like that, them knowing that you like him might not be such a bad idea. You know your friends; if they'd tell him or make fun of you(badly, not just jokingly), then dont tell them. but if they know you like him, theyll probably flirt with him less, and maybe invite him along when you go somewhere/invite you when they go somewhere with him.
and about the gym clothes:
do you have uniforms? because if you do, you can roll the shorts up or tie the shirt with a hair thing, but thats about it. if you can, then maybe cut into the shirt collar, you know so it makes a v thing. (if you dont know what im talking about, dont do it).
if you don't, then wear a cute pair of sweats and a tank top, or something else you know you look good in. also, a loose t shirt, one you might get from a camp or a show or something, looks really cute if you have a biggish chest. like, on the bigger side of an a-cup(almost b) and bigger. wear one that's too short, and put a long tank top that matches underneath. tie the tshirt to make it tight at the bottom. it looks great.
hope i helped!
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