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Im Adri. Im 14 and my friends say im the go to person when they need help. So. I decided to make a advice thingy and see how that works. I go to WBHS and im in 9th Grade. Ask Me ANYTHING you need to know

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Hey, sorry if this is in the wrong category, but I wasn't sure what to put it in.
Well, to start things off, I'm very self conscious. I think I am fat & ugly & just not a cool person.
Last night, I was at the pool & I was wearing a bikini. There were two of my guy friends there & one of my girl friends. I started feeling really self-conscious & I sat on the step of the pool [still in the water] hugging my knees. My two guy friends asked my friend what was wrong with me, so she came over & talked to me. They found out that I thought that I was fat & started rambling on about how I wasn't fat & how if I was any skinnier that I'd be anorexic...etc. It helped a bit but I still feel so self-conscious.
Now, for the guys on this site, do ya'll think really confident girls are attractive? or the more humble quiet ones?
& How do i get to feeling better about myself? I hate being the party pooper when it comes to swimming & such. Anyone got any good advice?

I rate high for thought-out answers.

Ohk. I get really self concious too. Im super skinny, so if your skinny like the guys say you have nothing to worry about. Just think about having fun! Apperences are important, but dont put yourself down. Im not a guy, but what guy would want a girl telling them shes fat all the time. Personally i think a guy would like a more confident girl! Wear whatever you want to wear, wear whatever bikini you want to wear. Who cares what people think of you? As long as your happy with yourself

hope this helps :)

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hey everyone! this may sound gross but im 13/f and my arm hairs are like very dark brown and almost black. its not like its a little hair, its a ton! it looks gross and its very dark. i do not want to take on waxing/shaving or any type of hair removal. i just was wondeirng if i bleached it blonde would yu still be able to see teh large amount of hair? also it is worth my time? what are the pros and cons of it? this question is especially directed to this who have experience wiht this type of thing. cait♥

i have arm hair too. and i hate it. im 14 so yeah i understand. dont mess with it shaving and stuff ive learned that from experiance. but if you want to like dye it i see no problems with that. but all it will do is make it lighter. and it wont make less of it.
so if your willing to have to dye it all the time then go ahead.
if i were you i would just deal with it, no one looks at your arm hair anyways :)

hope this helps

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Does anyone know of any good websites for girls..

I already know-
myjellybean.com
seventeen.com
beinggirl.com

Thanks! I'll rate!

well. depends on your age.
when i was younger i went on a site called:

gurlz.com
i think thats what it was, you might be able to search on it for google or somthing.

hope this helps :)

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when me and my boyfriend are on the phone we can never think of anything to talk about. can anyone give me some things that would start a conversation with me and him? thank you ill rate and comment

ok. you can talk about the most random things.

just talk about anything! heres some ideas:
school
friends
family
summer
sports
eachother
anything that will get you talking.

hope this helps :]

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Hi i was wondering if anbody new any sites where I could meet new people && stuff.. IM 15 f ... Please help!

Theres always myspace, livejournal and advicenators!
Although im not sure you should be meeting people online, because you dont know who they are. Maybe you should go to your local mall, rollaidium or places that 14 and 15 year olds hang out. To much bad things happen online to teenagers.

hope this helps :)

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columnists--

how do you get a pic small enough to fit???
and how do you get a code toput icons as a background?
thnx.

You can go to photobucket, and re-size or go to small pic and upload it there.

photobucket - www.photobucket.com
or
small pic - www.smallpic.com

hopes this helps :)

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i really just want to commit suicide. i just can't stand my life anymore. i just feel like i would be better in heaven where i would have no worries. someone please help. i can only take so much. i don't know how to cope. i'm just going to end up killing myself. i know i am. i have no reason to live.

If you really feel that strong about this all. Then you need to call somone, or talk to somone about this. If you think you dont have a reason to live, you need to look at the people around you. Think about how diffrent their lifes would be with you gone.


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i'm doing a dance piece and i love the song dangerously in love by beyonce but i don't know what type of dance would be best for it because it has an R&B feel, but it's pretty slow. my options are ballet tap jazz lyrical and hip-hop. please help! thanks!

Ok. Your best bet would be jazz or hip hop. Its more of a up beat song, and its like very danceable to.

Hope this helps :)

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my friend ALWAYS copies me. like if i put something on my profile she puts that up too if i put something on my myspace she does that too. if i buya pair of shorts, she will buy them too. i know people say copying is a way of flattery but sometimes its just annoying. i like to be my own person. should i say something to her? if i should, what should i say?

Ok. Tell her "I know your my best friend, and we do alot of the same things but, you copying me this much needs to stop". Just tell her that you want to be your own person and that she should be too. Dont be mean about it. But dont leave the subject be. If it bothers you, take notice

:] Hope This Helps

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does anyone have any good things i could talk about with my boyfriend...we're both shy so its always quiet! i rate high!
13/f

~thanks~

Ok. With me and my boyfriend, we can talk about the most random things and be on the fone for HOURS at night just talking and talking. Your conversations dont even have to have direction. Talk about anything. Summer, School, Sports, Friends, Movies. Just start up a conversation.

Hope This Helps :]

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