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i get really horny sometimes. do you know a really good porn site thats free? (link)
no sry im not realy into that stuff..tryin googling certain things mabe


im 15/m and i really wanna make out with a girl. i havent hooked up with anybody since november and if i dont sometime soon, i think im gunna go crazy. please help! (link)
aww! go to places where there are lots of girls and maybe you can meet one, get to know her and eventually hookup! Otherise ill can really sugegest is playing some hookup games with ur friends if u really wanna..and then there is not much else i can help you with unfortaunatley..every person feels that way at one point tho :-/


as stupid as it sounds, i don't care! i just need help! im 13 and have been going through puberty SLOWLY. its so annoying, but my cousin is a bit older than me and is telling me when your breasts grow while your going through puberty-they hurt! and now im noticing it! my right breast is starting to hurt and grow a little more. but my left breast isn't doing anything! im getting worried that ill look like a freak because my right breast will grow faster and not gradually with the right one! i don't feel comfortable talking to my mom about it... is this normal???

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completely normal..everyone has uneven breasts..if when you are done growing completely and they are still very uneven and it bothers you, you could have them surgically altered if you wanted.


ok, so im writing a story and i think its pretty good so far!!! i was wondering that if i threw in something where someone got raped it would ruin the story...(i wouldn't describe it i would just mention it) (link)
depends what kind of story you are writing. If it seems to fit in with your plot, then sure why not..if its kinda random and out there then u shud prolly keep it out


I am 14 years old and me and my friend were ''playing'' around w/ this guy and after my friend gave him a blow job he fingered me. I would like to know how many days until I can take a pregnancy test and what are my chances of being pregnant. I am very worried because I am very skinny from anorexia and I'm afraid I will die if I am pregnant. (link)
you can't get pregnant from him fingring you , dont worry hun.


What can you use to get rid of stretch marks/ and or scars? Thanks in advance!
I rate 5's (link)
cocoa nut butter or just go to ur drug store and find some creme to remove stretch marks


i found a note that my sisters boyfriend wrote that was saying that he wanted to give her a jollyrancher. what does jollyrancher mean?

* i ask you b/c i think that you give good advice (link)
hey im not really sure, im sry..i aksed around and no one knew..maybe try askin sum of ur friends..im guessing a hickey mabe? sry


Okay, so! I'm 15/female and I met this guy last week and he seems pretty cool. He likes me and all, and I like him too. It's just that, I dont like him like boyfriend/girlfriend. He's a great person and all, and I'd be happy with being friends but other than that, I'm confused. See.. I'm not hott or anything, I'm average, but he sees me as beautiful. And I desperatley want a boyfriend because I havent had one in over a year and I'm getting lonely. But I dont want to go out with this guy for the wrong reasons. Should I go out with him once and see what happens or what? (link)
hey i'm in the same position as you are..maybe you can go on a date or few with him and see how you like him when you guys hang out one and one and if maybe you start to like him more..Maybe give him a chance and see how you and him both feel..and if u dont think it would work then u shud tell him


How do you get vaseline out of your hair? (link)
mmh..I think just washing your hair thouroughly should do it..if you don't want to shower maybe you can just rub some water on it and comb it out.


i have been going out with my boyfriend for alomst a month. I'm 15 and were really close. We always makeout and cuddle a lot. Do you think it would be too early to go down his pants? (link)
hmm, that is really a personal decision if you feel ready for it and want to then go for it..if yo think you want to wait for alittle while til you're more comfortable then you can do that too. just don't let him force you into doing anyting you dont feel comfortable w ith.


1 of my friendz who is a guy really likes me and he told me and asked who i liked and i said him so we are going out but i dont really like him that much because i like a different guy but him and the guy im going out with are friends.so if i ask the other guy out and dump the guy i am going out with he'll be really upset so what should i do??????? (link)
hmm..thats a toughy..well the right thing to do is to break up with this guy..because its not good to lead him on because he will just get more hurt if he finds out the hard way that you neer really had feelings for him. Break up woith him, give it a week or so and then maybe you can start talking to the other guy and see if he een has feelings for you. Then if he does, move on from there. The guy might be hurt at first but he will be happy that you didn't go out with the other guy right away atleast.


Ok i have athletics every morning and of course i sweat. Now i am begginging to get these red dots-bumps(they sorta look like tiny pimples i guess) in the middle of my chest or boobs. Does any one else have them? are they normal?? how do you get rid of them?? Its about to be time to wear a bathing suit and i dont want these things!! please help me! (link)
i think that those are just regular pimples. I think they came from your sweat and they mixed with dirt in the air to cause them. There is an acne body wash by..clean and claer i tihnk it is..you could try that and they should clear them right up. if tha doesnt' work..check with your doctor about a more thorough cleanser.


i like to wear my hair up in a bun or pony tail but my mom is soooo annoying about it. she says that i hav beautiful hair and i should wear it down. i keep telling her wen i wear my hair down i get really hot (like today i got out of the shower and i felt sick i was so hot). any suggetions?

please help. i rate! (link)
haha that same exact thing happens between me and my mom too...just try and disreagard her and do what you want..its your hair and you can do what ou want with it..if she keeps bothering you just say i know but i like it this way.and somtimes ill wear it down if i want to.


I want to get fit. I'm currently thin but i'd like a flatter stomach and nicer thighs. I already know what workout routine i want to follow but i have a hard time following it. I just can't get motivated. What are good ways to motivate yourself and exercise everyday? (link)
ooh im in the same boat as u..What im doing is just thinkingn about how happy ill be when i am more fit and thinking of my results..and that motivates me more. Hope this helps :)


I really didn't know what category to but this under but here is the question does anyone have any GOOD fundraising ideas to help raise money for the American Cancer Society? Thanks for all your help I need as many ideas as I can get. (link)
hey..one time i raised money for the national brain tumor society..by making hemp jewlery and selling it..it was a big hit! So maybe you could make a craft..people love when you make it yourself. You could make like..magnets, pictureframes, candles, jewlery, cookies/cupcakes..pins, keychains..Hope this helped, and good luck with your fundraiser!


if u give good advice right now ill rate you five!

my cousin who is like one of my best friends is a little theift...she steals from my sister and me all the time she got caught stealing from walmart...well this girl(we'll call her bob) bob thought my cousin was her friend...but that night my cousin was at her cousins b'day and she took bobs cell phone and took it apart and hid it in her cousins bathroom...she told me and i thoguht how could she do something like that! so like to weeks later, last night i was on the internet and so was bob...and if ur cell was stolen and taken apart wouldnt you like to no where it is... well i told bob where it was and bob told my cousins cousin who told my cousins brother whose dad was looking at my cuzs bros ims and saw what it said and so now my cousin is pissed at me...should i say sorry for doing the right thing!!!plzz help me (link)
you definaelay did the right thing! Your cousin shouldn't be stealing someone else's possessions, let alone ruining them! She/He needs help and should realize what she is doing is very wrong, you did the right thing by telling your friend where her fone was :)


sorry i didnt no what this went under, so i put it under friendship.

anyways, im going to my friends sleepover tonight and if i stay up most of the night/all night then i get a headache, but the thing is, i think everyone is going 2 stay up all night and i dont want to be the only one asleep, while everone is having fun.

has anyone got anything i could do to help me not get headaches??

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drink a lot of water..bring some advil or tylenol..and take a nap before you go so you're not tired..:)


how can you tell that a guy wants to kiss you? thanks (link)
he'll look at you and maybe he'll lean in or keep like fidgeting around or..keep looking at you or like licking his lips or something..hope this helps


If a guy kisses you, does it mean he's attracted 2 u?
im not talkn bout drunk or nething, if he kisses you sober an does makes out w/ u alot does that mean nething? (link)
it could, or he could just want some ass..somtimes its hard to tell..if he seems really into it and wants to acually hang and spoend time wit u then he mite like u


i know this is a stupid question, but what kind of music is emo? (link)
emo is short for emotional so emo music is music that really expresses feelings and sometimes it sounds depressing and it usually has a certain sound to it, if u want to hear some good emo bands..just drop one in t he inbox




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