Question Posted Saturday February 26 2005, 11:24 am
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my cousin who is like one of my best friends is a little theift...she steals from my sister and me all the time she got caught stealing from walmart...well this girl(we'll call her bob) bob thought my cousin was her friend...but that night my cousin was at her cousins b'day and she took bobs cell phone and took it apart and hid it in her cousins bathroom...she told me and i thoguht how could she do something like that! so like to weeks later, last night i was on the internet and so was bob...and if ur cell was stolen and taken apart wouldnt you like to no where it is... well i told bob where it was and bob told my cousins cousin who told my cousins brother whose dad was looking at my cuzs bros ims and saw what it said and so now my cousin is pissed at me...should i say sorry for doing the right thing!!!plzz help me
LexybelNLisa answered Saturday February 26 2005, 4:51 pm: Im kind of confused with the whole cousins cousins bob cousins thing lol haha but NO i would not, because you did the right thing. She shouldnt have done it to start with , so why should you apoligize? Anyways, I hope she stops stealing, be careful, YOU dont wanna be in the wrong place at the wrong time, dont go shopping with her! [ LexybelNLisa's advice column | Ask LexybelNLisa A Question ]
pinkpanther01 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 4:14 pm: well she did sumtin really bad if i wer u i wouldnt talk to her becuz i dont like people who steal my things and other peoples things.who wants a theif as a friend? she got whats she deserved and thats all that matters. if she is a true friend she will stop stealing and get over what you did.
XSugarPieX77 answered Saturday February 26 2005, 1:57 pm: You absolutely should NOT apologize. It is wrong what your cousin did. You need to like get her help so that she stops stealing. Dont go with her to ne store cuz if she steals something she could blame it on you.
~Brina~ [ XSugarPieX77's advice column | Ask XSugarPieX77 A Question ]
S_C answered Saturday February 26 2005, 1:17 pm: You shouldn't have to apologize. Your cousin had no right to do what she did. And you were just trying to help someone out. I mean if I had a cell phone that mysteriously went missing I'd like to be informed about it's whereabouts. That sounds weird the way I put it, but your cousin should be the one apologizing not you. You should NEVER apologize for doing the right thing. You should also (though this doesn't really relate to your question) Never apologize for saying how you feel ('cause that'd be like apologizing for being real) You should seriously never ever apologize for doing the right thing. I mean you just wanted to help someone out. [ S_C's advice column | Ask S_C A Question ]
FunkyHoMoSapien answered Saturday February 26 2005, 12:28 pm: heck no! you cuz is is really mest up. it's not your fault she steals and breaks crap. she would of been caught anyways. so you got no reason to give her your any comfort or nethin like that or she'll do it again. srry if i sound like inraged, but she got no right and or reason to be doin that crap. [ FunkyHoMoSapien's advice column | Ask FunkyHoMoSapien A Question ]
XxRockon answered Saturday February 26 2005, 12:15 pm: you definaelay did the right thing! Your cousin shouldn't be stealing someone else's possessions, let alone ruining them! She/He needs help and should realize what she is doing is very wrong, you did the right thing by telling your friend where her fone was :) [ XxRockon's advice column | Ask XxRockon A Question ]
gcfreakadoodle answered Saturday February 26 2005, 12:12 pm: You did the right thing....it isnt right for your cousin to steal other peoples things. I dont believe you should say sorry but if you wanted to you could say like "Im sorry but it was something i had to do".... [ gcfreakadoodle's advice column | Ask gcfreakadoodle A Question ]
Karen answered Saturday February 26 2005, 12:11 pm: You don't have to apologize for this because you just wanted to help "Bob" by telling her where her cell phone was. Your cousin shouldn't steal and do all of this that you have mentioned that she does. You did the right thing it now your cousin has to face the consequences of getting in trouble by her parents. If she steals, it's alright for you to tell because it isn't right. Don't worry, you did the right thing and you don't need to apologize if you don't want to.
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