about

After break that lasted like a year, I'm back.


Um yeah, anyways.
My name is Amanda.
I am 16.
I will try to answer your questions to the best of my ability, but be warned, I am brutally honest.
So I might come off as being mean, but sometimes the truth hurts.
I'm not saying that to be mean, because I'm really a nice person.

And if you plan on sending me a question in my inbox, please use proper English.
I probably will not respond if you type LyKe DiS or IN ALL CAPS or if y00 cnt spl if yur lyfe dpended on it.

Have a nice day! :D

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Omg school is coming up so soon!! I want to be in style like everyone else but i dunno what to wear!! I want the whole preppy look!!I really think its cute but i dunno if that is really in style this year??If so then like what should i wear to look preppy?? i mean like should i wear hooped earings and lil blue jean skirts with the lil holes in them?? i dunno pleaze help!! I want answers fast and i rate 5z!!

I honestly don't see why all you people are trying to be preppy and "in style"...I think it's just stupid..But if you must know..

Yeah you should wear those skimpy little skirts and those tight little shirts like everyone else if you really wanna be preppy..

X_Amanda_X

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I'm not allowed to have a boyfriend until im 14 or 15. is this fair? why?

Well..Since your friend is 11 I can understand their parents point of veiw. Her\his parents don't want them to rush into a relationship and being lead to do things they don't want to do..As for me..I am 13 and I get boyfriends every once in a while. I try not to let my parents know because they will make fun of me(whoopee)..

X_Amanda_X

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okay, my goal this year in school, is to get really popular. Can anyone help me accomplish that? Can someone give hints to getting into popularity? I really need it, alot. If anyone can help, Ill rate a 5 for useful information.

ex oh

not-so-popular


P.s- please don't tell me to be myself, I already am, and people don't like who I am.

Well if people don't like you and accept you for who you are..SCREW EM! Don't change to get popular because people will think you are a poser!

X_Amanda_X

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can anyone tell me how to give yourself an abortion?

I don't think you can do it on your own. You have to go see a doctor.

X_Amanda_X

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The song that goes "dont ya wish your girlfriend was hot like me dont ya wish your girlfriend was a freak like me?"....anyone know who sings it or the name of it?

Its Dont Cha by Pussycat Dolls

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My boyfriend just came over and I gave him head and he cumed and a little later I lost my virginity to him but he didn't use a condom. I'm scared I could be pregnate. Is there any chance I could be?

Since you didnt use a condom there is a definate chance. If you aren't ready for a baby then you shouldn't have had sex without condoms in the first place.

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0k wat do u like in a girl? do you like there eyes? body,boobs,personality?
what do you want your gf to be like?
plz answer my question!
i rate high!
btw im 13 and oh yeah whats like the age range or w.e that you pick a girl in?
thankz

I'm not a guy but knowing all my guy friends.......all normal guys look at body and boobs because they are so perverted

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Does anyone know where to get all the old green day cds? i cant find them anywhere

some are...
Dookie
39 smooth
Kerplunk
Insomniac

Thanks Bundles!

Perhaps you can look on Amazon or look for them on E-bay. If those don't work, search for them on nearby store websites.

OR

You can ask someone you know if they have them. If they do, you can ask if you can borrow them and burn them.=)

X_Amanda_X


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My boyfriend and I have been having sex since late June. Last night he asked me if i got it yet ( i got it june 30th, after we first started to) and i said no but im not worried about it im going to wait a few days because my comes so randomly. and it never comes on the same date. he is yelling at me about he knows he asked girls, but i think i know mmy fuckin period and a bunch of girls periods come different times and late. he is really stressing me out, should i go to a clinic to see or buy a test now?

First off, it seems as if your boyfriend is too into the sex than worrying about how you feel. You should just tell him straight up that he's stressing you out! Just because he seems to know the period times of other girls dosn't mean that you are the same. All girls are different for their period cycles.

As for having sex with him..If you used condoms you wouldn't have to worry about being pregnant in the first place. So you shouldn't take risks like that if you are worried about becoming pregnant.

And for getting the test..If you are really that worried about being pregnant, the best thing to do is to get a test.

I hope this helped!

X_Amanda_X

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ok, my pubic hair is growing like outside my bikini line and it's really gross... what do i do to get rid of it besides waxing...??? please help me because it's really embaressing.

1 word..shave

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I just started having my period i've had like 4 or 5. this one month it didn't come.(that whole week i spent it at the beach)is it normal to skip periods when you first have them? please help and no smart ass stuff i'll give 5's!!

Yeah that's normal. When you first start, the first year is all akward because your hormones are raging. So yes this is perfectly normal.

X_Amanda_X

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After about 10 minutes into a shower i'll start to get dizzy, my head will hurt, my vision fades, and i seriously feel like im gonna be sick. this has happened to me a few times in the past off and on but now its becoming ritual (and its only when i shower). its so bad that i'm not even able to finish showering. does anyone know what's going on and does this happen to anyone else? i've tryed opening windows and changing my products but nothing helps. i'm at the point where i'm seriously afraid to shower lol... i'll take any advice i can get, thanks

If I were you, I would ask a parent to take you to a doctor?

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hey

my ex and i have gone through a lot and well i love him but he says im wasting my time trying i dont know what to do.should i just give up or should i keep trying

I would just move on. He obviously has. Don't waste all your life going after one guy or you will never meet the right one.

X_Amanda_X

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I'm 14/f
I think im fat and I wanna lose weight. I don't eat breakfast or lunch and barely dinner. All my friends are worried about me and try to get me to eat but I just say i'm not hungry. My question is, is this that serious and that unhealthy? Thanks!

Yes that is unhealthy. Especially the fact that you skip breakfast. You get all your energy for the day from breakfast. I've read that if you skip at least 1 meal a day, you are on your way to an eating disorder.

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uhh it makes me so mad. i have lost almost 10 pounds and ALL of it went from my boobs.i normally have a full D and now i can hardly even fill up my D! is there anyway i can lose fat in other places? please please help. thanks in advance

Well, If you have flab in your stomach, do ab workouts to get rid of that. If its in your legs, you can ride your bike or something like that.

X_Amanda_X

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I've been cutting for a while, and i have tried to kill myself before.And its all over a boy whos name is aaron and i think i'n in love with him. And the only time he notices me is when he wants something like sexual and then he goes to another girl when hes done with me and when hes done with the he comes back. And i wanted to know if you knew anything that might help me stop.Because everything i try doesnt work.

1 word! Counseling! I used to be the same way that you were. But I used to cut myself over a break up..I didn't go to counseling but I read a book and it really showed how badly suicidal ideas can get. It was Chicken Soup for the Teenage Soul on Tough Stuff.

X_Amanda_X

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I need some help do you think that I guy should like you for who you are or what you look like

I personally think it should be for who you are. Because some guy can find a girl that's really pretty but she can be a total snob and the relationship won't work out.

X_Amanda_X

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I would like to find a hair straightener.Not those cheap ones,that don't even work,but those that leave the hair shiny and healthy.And can yall tell me the name of the store that i would find it in? Oh, and please tell the truth don't just invent. THANXSS!

The one that works really well for my hair is a Gold Ceramic straightener by Conair.

X_Amanda_X

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ok.. so i want to get a new pet.. but i cant decide what to get. i wanted a snake but my mommy said no. And now im thinking of maybe a turtle.. any sugestions?.. Ok here are the rules.. No rodents (moms rule) No cats.. (blech i hate them) No Snake (:-() No dogs (already have the best one ever) and no birds (they suck) oo ya and no fish (boooring!)
Thanks for your suggestions!
Oh.. and no rocks either.. i already have one :-)

Hmm...Well you can get a turtle like you said, a frog, a lizard, stuff like that.

I hope this helped

X_Amanda_X

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Yesterday, I was searching for web pages about the human muscles. When I came to 1, it wouldn't load all the way, and it froze my computer. I Ctrl Alt Deleted the thing and it worked as it always does. When I went back into Internet Explorer, every letter was about 3 times the regular size. I don't know how this happened, and it's like that with the page that usually comes up (yahoo.com), and with google, and probably others.


How do I fix this? Thanks.

Just restart your computer. That should work =D

X_Amanda_X

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