Q: i tried out for dance team with my relle good friend and i found out i made it but she didnt i was relle upset and liek couldnt relle be happy formyself the next period she was mad at me becuase i made the team and she didnt nd i tried to talk to her about it but we got over it but still she also liek hits me liek shes joking but she relle hurts me so i hit her backl nd she gets all pissed but i dont let people jsut hit me without me doing anything how should i deal with her??

Q: Hi, my friend from church is 18 and shes pregnant. She started going out with a non-christian guy and my youth group thought it wouldent be a good idea. She wont come to church, shes too ashamed. But my church + pastor has told her many times that we wont think of her differently. Because we dont! We love her so much and we wanna help her get through this. I miss her so much, I havent seen her in 2 months. :( She doesnt really like to talk to anyone from church. She only talks to her mom dad & siblings...I want to call her, but im scared cuz her bf might not lemme talk to her..or she might not talk to me..and i wouldent know what to say!! plz help in any way you can:)

Q: Im 16 and madly in love with my boyfriend. We have been dating for over a year. The only thing is that he doesnt know that im in love with him. He does know that i care about him soo much.I have been wanting to tell him for the longest time that im in love wit him but i just dont know how. We can be jokin around and he will say sumthing and then i will say yea love ya to. and he just says you dont love me. His cuz even told me that he said he loved me but he wont tell me. I just want to kno how i can tell him b.c i want him to know. plz help!

Q: well i have this friends and she is 13 like me and shes had sex already and might even get married already because her parents dont give a crap about her im really worried about her and i dont want this guy to be with her..wut should i tlel her

Q: ok well ive been goin out with my boyfriend for 3months then we broke up and got back togther 3weeks later...well i juss saw him friday and i need to kno whats a good way to be comfortable with him..like him holdin me and things i mean im confortable in his arms but my best friend (his cuz) was and is always around and im really self cautious..and i have a lil belly and he says it "sexy" and a "turn-on" for him and he likes to touch it and after a while i was comfortable but it just takes me a lil to get that way...what should i do..???

PS: he asked if he could hav a kiss but his whole family was watchin us from a distance and my BFF was sittin right there and she was (lip talkin) ..."kiss him" and so when he did i moved my head to where he kissed my cheek..he knows i love him but he knows im a lil uncomfortable at 1st but i want that to change..plz help!!

Q: might be confusing? im sorry if it is, but please read.

so i like this guy named Vick. and he likes me, but he also likes some other girls. and he said that he would ask me out, but his friend Bob likes me. and Bob would kill him if he asks me out. i told Bob that i dont like him like that, just as a friend.

Vick also doesnt think i like him, because i wasnt too touchy feely with him when i hung out with him earlier. however, im never that touchy feely anyways, and i think i was pretty damn flirty. and two of my friends made it very clear to him that i do like him. which is good, i suppose.

i dont know what i should do, i mean, i want him to ask me out, but...i dont know if i should say something to him, or just wait.

what would you do? and if a guy answers this, what would you want the girl to do?

Q: Hey i need big help with my buddy4u profile!! The writing in there has changed. If you could look at my info on my sn. xbr0kenheart77x and look in my profile where it says."profile" and tell me what to do. that'd be a big help!!

Q: well im 13/f n since i was abut hmm 8 or 9 years old i've liked guys n since that way young i've always gotten hurt in someway or another when i was 8 i liked this guy who was like 11 or 12 n now hes 17 or 16 n he hurt me n then so did some other kid whose 15 now n then a bunch of other guys i liked..n now im scared to get hurt again..my heart cant handle it ne more i just want a nice guy but dont wanna get hurt..is that too much to ask??

Q: Well me and this guy lets say him name is bob well bob has like me since the first day of 9th grade... And we were best friends since the 6th grade... Well i found out he liked me and i was shocked cause his my best friend... So we went out and i didnt feel right and i broke up with him... I was so sad cause i hurt him... Well me and bob barely started talking acouple of months ago and he had a girlfriend... and they broke up and he still has feelings for her... Well me and my friends were hanging out in my house and chris called and i went down stairs and they talked and he was like so do u like *me* and he was like ya ill always like her and then she asked do u like *her* and he said ya... Then she was like so who do u choose... And he said i dunno... And by the way me and *her* got into a fist fight at school... Cause we hate each other... But ya what should i do?

Q: Ok me and this guy went out in 7th grade i went out with him not cause i liked him cause my friend wanted me to go out with him... Well we went out for like a week and i broke up with him... Well now 10th grade... And i have the biggest crush on him and he likes me too... But he said he doesnt want to go out with me till the middle of the year cause he liked this girl.. (thats now going out with his close friend) But my friend is going to hook us up...Should i go out with him or no

Q: my friend is still inlove with her ex who now has a new girlfriend and we all in job corp so we see eachother all day. She follows them around tries like hell to get them in-trouble and everything. How do i get her to stop. I have talk to her so many times and it NEVER works. But i need her because she is my friend and i'm pergnant now and i just need her with me, but i think she's going nuts. i'm always there for her it's just she's never there for me anymore.

Q: Hey, I'm 14 and I'm trying to search information on the internet about majoring in Criminal Justice. I wanna find out how long its gonna take, and what are the steps to reach my goal. I searched online, but all I'm finding is how to get your degree online. But thats not what I'm looking for. If any of you have family members that are cops, or detectives can you please answer my questions. I want to be a detective really bad!

1. How long does it take?
2. Do you have to be a cop before being a detective? If so, for how long?
3. Do I go to a certain college to major in criminal justice or should I go to a 4 year university?

Thanks so much! I will rate!

Q: ok I put a new b-ground on my adivce column but like my questions-answers didn't come up? and like I've tried anything..does anyone know where they went? did they delete? did I delete them? how? please help! and my feedback went away?! what happened? paaalease help!!

Q: Okay, I have this friend, and he's a boy, I'm a girl. I just want to be good friends, but I know (well I guess I don't really know, but I strongly think)that he wants to be more than just friends. And I can't take that. I mean, what would happen if he asked me out and I'd have to say no? What would that do to our friendship....? Do you think I'm leading him on my being his friend? Please, I need help!

Q: okay well i was at my friends house lets call her julie, and my other best friend lets call him joe, well joe invited me and julie to his house to play flashlight tag, and we did and julie got tagged and well we were running to our hiding spot and he was like remeber that day i said i would give you kissing lessons? [he said he would because i have never kissed before] i was like yeah.. and he was like you still want them? i was like um yeah i guess and he was like you want them tonight? i was like yeah um sure so it was hiding time so me him and julie went by a bush and like all of a sudden his tounge was on my lips not on my mouth because i wasnt ready just like there and i was freaked out and he was like umm... then it was time to go, so we started walking back and he didnt talk to me AT ALL i mean i liked the kiss.. but like was it more then just a kiss?? i mean he asked me randomly PLEASE HELP!!!

Q: You know how you can make your own "Style" for your Advice Column? Well I have no clue how to do it, and I REALLY want to learn. Does anyone know how and can teach me, or is their a tutorial somewhere? I don't want to take a long time learning it, so is their a faster way? Thanks so much!

Q: Ok, well theres this guy that likes me...he sits behind me in math and he is the play that i'm doing for Drama Class. He always looks at me and smiles and he's kinda weird and I dont like him at all. I mean as a friend, ya, but not as anything more. How can i get him off my back?!

Q: I don't even know where to start. I am so overwhelmed right now and really mad and upset. First, I have been working at my job for three years now. The past couple of months I have noticed and I admit, I have been struggling, trying to stay motivated but it has been hard. I have not gotten a raise for quite a while and recently more work has been plopped on me. I attend school part time and work full time. I have to work. I actually don't mind working, I just know that what I am doing now is not what I want to be doing for the rest of my life. I have not missed work in over two years. In the past few months I have been late numerous times, but lately I have been doing much better. First, I was romantically involved with a guy who is one of my co-workers. The relationship fizzled out last year around this time of year. I wanted a relationship, he wanted just sex. It took some time to figure that out, but once I did, it ended. He never wanted to do anything together, and whenever there was any talk about doing anything together, he would complain about money, and how that is all women want from him. Bear in mind, there was no relationship and I never asked anything of him, it fizzled out about three months later, the usual time it seems that if things go sour, they go sour. Anyway, it hurt for a good couple of weeks and I thought I had come to terms with it until about a week ago. There had been rumours spreading that he was involved with another one of the women I work with, a women who works,often times, with me. He even came in one day and even told me that rumors were spreading, he did not deny it, or admit to anything. I didn't say much, I figured he was possibly trying to get a rise out of me and I played it really cool. Sometimes I can be a really good actress. Anyway, a couple of days ago, he is working on one of the computers in the back office. He is on the internet and is copying stuff off of his email site. He leaves the copies at this public computer at the desk. I was collecting my work and accidently grabbed the paperwork. It was a note from the women to him, saying that she loved him. Now, my brain says, who cares? So why did my heart sink? Why did he leave that around. This is affecting my work. How do I come to terms with this? I thought that even though things did not work out between us, and we have to work together, we could be friends, but now I think he is just a scum bucket. Part 2 is next.

Q: Ok... My mother and father r separated, I live with my mom and visit my dad every other weekend. And everytime i visit we have fun until i do something small and it pisses him off. and i HATE IT! He throws fits over the smallest things. I've thought about calling my mom to pick me up whenever he does tht but i dont have the nerve b/c he'll get into a fight with my mom and i hate it. Plus when he gets mad he doesnt talk to me, he just sits there in a bad mood and if its time for me to go he just says bye and gives me a hug when usually he hugs me says he loves me and kisses me. and i need k=to know what to do b/c i'm over it! please help me.

Q: I live in this small town and everyone is all in everyone's buisness(well the adults are). Anyway, I have big dreams and I really like to accomplish those things. I'm a little smart and people seem to detest me at my school because, I don't get on my hands and knees to try to please them. I have a rule for myself and that rule is to trust my instincts and I really stick to that rule at times. I'm content with who I am , and I am independent . Last year I was friends with a guy and he had a girlfriend . He told me the most ridiculous things about his family, and the thing is that I always stuck with it (although I am in doubt). I support my friends. Last year, I liked this guy, and we used to look at each other and court other people to make each other jealous, but he did that the most. He became popular and became a jock and all, and he's really good at manipulating situations, I guess because we both play chess . Anyways, he goes with another girl and when I saw them together, it stung . It hurt and there's days that I feel as if I'm over him . Recently , I've been wearing make-up and that friend with the most ridiculous things to say- says I needed to take it off but others just stared and gawked at me . Everywhere I went eyes followed and the guy I like looks at me just when I have my head turned . I saw him do this in a mirror . I need tips on how to get over this dude, and why people don't like me . I'm not stuck up. Also, why's my guyfriend acting like a jerk towards me and why can't he be happy for me ? He has a girlfriend . My friend said it was because, he couldn't keep his eyes off of me . Should I stop the make-up thing to save our relationship ? Well, thanks and by .

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