Question Posted Sunday September 26 2004, 10:12 pm
might be confusing? im sorry if it is, but please read.
so i like this guy named Vick. and he likes me, but he also likes some other girls. and he said that he would ask me out, but his friend Bob likes me. and Bob would kill him if he asks me out. i told Bob that i dont like him like that, just as a friend.
Vick also doesnt think i like him, because i wasnt too touchy feely with him when i hung out with him earlier. however, im never that touchy feely anyways, and i think i was pretty damn flirty. and two of my friends made it very clear to him that i do like him. which is good, i suppose.
i dont know what i should do, i mean, i want him to ask me out, but...i dont know if i should say something to him, or just wait.
what would you do? and if a guy answers this, what would you want the girl to do?
TrUtH_hUrTs_1 answered Monday September 27 2004, 9:19 am: First, i would go up to Bob and be like: 'So, do u think you can hook me up with Vick? Cause ie liked him for a while and i'd really like to go out with him.' By doing that, you let him know that you dont like him. You like Vick. And then, you'll be free to ask him out, and when he says 'What about Bob?' then you can say that he knows about how you guys feel about each other!
Hope things work out for you! =)
storageanddisposal answered Sunday September 26 2004, 11:06 pm: I don't understand girls who absolutely refuse to ask guys out. Why don't you ask him out? If you wait around trying to throw hints at him it'll probably never happen. Guys are terrible at reading hints, trust me. If you wait it will never happen and chances are he'll give up and find someone else. Also, guys almost never take the word of a girl's friend. I am a guy, and all I ask from a girl is honesty. Tell him how you feel, or it may never happen. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
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