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Q: how do I get chuncks of black eyeliner out my BRAND NEW beige carpet? its like smeared in my carpet... in 3 spots, and ive already made it worse! help

OH! this is a eazy one pour nail polish remover on the carpet...dont worry about the color of the n/p remover cuz it goes away...and scrubin circles or up and down...or do the obvious and use eye makeup remover and wipe in circles dont smear wipe cuz it might get worse

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x3-Janee

Q: Well today I had a fight with 3 of my friends, It was about them saying I am tooo bossy and annoying. Well me and 1 of them are friends again, and another one is almost back to being my friend, but 1 just wont say sorry or anything, she is just acting like a b!tch!How can I be friends with her again, or should I just leve her bee?

Don't waste ur time on ur dont beg her to be your friend either if she doesnt wanna be your friend then leave that bitch alone she wants YOU to beg her thats why shes being so stubborn.

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Q: ok..i stole a bottle of perfume,earings,keychain,lipgloss,2 rings, (this was formyself) i also helped out my friend steal her stuff and she helped me steal mine. I never stole anything before..and im kinda feeling bad now. the stuff i took was probably worth $15 or $20 altogether. is there a way i can make myself feel better and get rid of he guilt..besides returning it. And is it true that people steal stuf until they get caught? because ii dont want to make a habitt out of this. have any of you stolen anything before?

Well,
I stole things but i dont feel bad and you need to wake-up. stealing things is no big deal you're probably some goodie 2 shoes who is like perfect and thats why you caer so much I mean noone I know cares about when they steal its just another thing in your closet and stuff.Who gives a shit.

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Q: I told my boyfriend that I'd never kissed anyone and that I wanted him to be my first kiss. He said he wanted to kiss me, too. But that was about a month ago and nothing has happened. I told him I wouldn't make the move. I'm too shy. I don't know what I'm scared of since I know he wants to. I'm just scared I'll do something wrong, I guess. Any advice?

Well I think that a kiss is well . . . a kiss i mean seriously your first time having sex is supposed to be special your first kiss can be too but its not something to obsess over just kiss him and make sure u kiss good here are some tips:
1.Massage the guys tongue with yours

2.Occaisonally softly and gently suck the guys tongue.

3.Grab the boy and get super close to him while you're kissing him for ex:like wrap your arms around him and press your body against his then y'all will develop a more deeper steamier passion for each other.

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Q: yea what up janee' i like yo site but any ways i think my cuzin is avoiding me usually when i call ha we talk fa hours but na she rush me off the phone and thats only when she pic up i don't know what i could have did to make ha mad and it is buggin me cause i want to take ha to the movies withn me but i can't if she won't talk to me.
Halla back

Lemme tell you . . .
first dont stress it, dont be stuntin her just dont talk to her for like 2 or 3 days and then call her.I think she must have met a nigga or she on punishment and her mom be coming around the corner or something i dont think she stopped liking u unless you got smart with her or something.I'm sure shell talk to you eventually cuz soon dat nigga gon piss her off or get on her nerves
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Q: okayy. me and my boyfriend have been dating for 3 weeks now and we dated twice over the summer for about a week each. i really really love him and dont wanna lose him luckly he feel's the same way. but see the one problems is i get really shy around the guy that i like bc i dont wanna make or say the wrong thing to lose him. so normally i dont say to much in person or on the phone juss online well im trying to break my shyness and he really wants me to also. but another thing is he is older then me so i dont know. im not very experienced and he is so i dont want him to think iim bad at like makeing out and stuff but he said he wouldnt make fun of me and junk. but i know how do i break my shyness i get really nervous around him bc i dont wanna lose him. and he's my first true love and i dont really know how to hand becomeing not shy around him. iv never really been in a serious relationship like this before. please help me. you can talk to me on aim anyone. my sn is [[ yourmyy badhabit ]] hopeee you like it . than x.

HEY!
well the most advice I can give you is just relax
be yourself,and think of him as one of your friends when you talk 2 him and I'm sure you know what the super stupid things are that you can do to scare him off . . . .AVOID THEM AS MUCH AS POSSBLE!Like snorting falling or saying stupid things and like just calm down when your around him constantly think I'm not gonna mess up that bad.Just think of the thing that makes you the most happiness . . . and another way to break your shyness is FLIRTING!!!! flirting is the cure to everything so like smile at him alot and laugh at everything that he says (things that are meant to be funny only) but dont laugh too hard just giggle. and about the phone thing . . .well start off normally like ask him what is he oing what did he do today and then when he tells you what he did ask questions about what he did like was it boring was it fun stuff like that.OH! and talk about sex too but try not to be a tease boys dont like that.and talk about tattoos like ask him if hes gonna get any and if he says yea ask him whats he gonna get if he says no ask him why not and just talk about ranom stuff like what you did toay or music or T.V or people that are ur enemies and why u dont like them and stuff.

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Q: 14 female
im still in love with my ex boyfriend and he now goes out with the girl he tolde me he fancied when we were together.we broke up because of her. we talk on msn all the time, he talks about his current girlfriend andd i almost cry because i love him so much!i want hime back!
what should i do?

Ok well
First of all STOP CRYING! it's not going to help anything.And dont let him know you're crying over him cuz then he'll get all big headed and he'll think he has you in check.If you want him back go after him, but if he knows you like him he may not like you.But if you stop liking him or atleast act like you dont like him around him he'll want you soooo bad cuz me and my ex boyfriend had a similar situation except he messed around with his ex that i kinda stole him from.all 8 times that we went out he messed around with her and now i am over him and now he is flirting more than ever and asking me to go out with him and stuff.Just remember he's gonna miss you when you're gone so you know teach him that and practice it and don't act as liking around him.and when he asks you out dont say yes right off the bat. Tell him you'll think about it, then say yes.Then when yall go out fancy around with some guy and turn the tables on him. I guarantee you this will work its called chain reaction or karma what goes around comes around.He'll catch it one day.I guarantee it.

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Q: Is it uncommon for the inner lips to hang out and be all floppy, because its really long and the inner lips are really...hanging out all the time. i dont know what to do, its just so big, long, and floppy. Also its kind of wrinkly.. Is this normal, is there any creams i can use to make it go smaller and more normal??? Ive never been sexually active if that helps; and i want to be sexually active but im embarased!!! Any advice please!?

something is wrong wit your shit, you got that old lady pussy.I bet its dry too

Q: 15/f
Ok here it goes well I'm still in love w/ my ex and he goes out with his g/f that he went out w/ b4 he went w/ me like i knew he loved her but i liked him and now im all in love for like nothing because he doesnt love me anymore and i know i have to get over him but i dont want to.but i know i have to so what can i do to get over him???

OH MY GOSH!!!! thats like the exact same situation i used to be in but now over him i got a new man and its all good.

here are the ways:
1.remind yourself of what he did to you and how much he should pay.
2.Think aout how much he's gonna want you when ur over him.
3.get a new boyfriend or flirt buddy
4.make limits for yourself like dont talk to him more than once or twice a day for 10 -30 mins at a time.
5.tel urself that you're over him.

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Q: OK so my BFF's little brother is completely discusting!!! He acts very preverted even to me! It's sooo gross. He does things that are well REALLY inapropriate! Oh man when ever my friend and I try to tell him to stop, he will just ignore us and tell me I am sexy. Ya it's that weird for peet sakes hes only nine! How do I get him to stop?!

You need to lay down the line and say Look bitch(or kid) I dont appreciate you touching me ur a little boy and i have a b/f so fuck off!!!it doesnt really work unless you be mean.

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Q: Okay, so I'm 14 f. About a year ago my breasts had a growth spurt and now I have stretch marks! I can't wear anything slightly low cut or you see ugly red lines. I'm not a slut or anything, but going to the beach I need to show a little... anybody know what to do?

use palmers stretch mark formula everyday for like amonth and your skin will get toned and everything
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Q: Age: 13 Gender: Chick [girl]

Ok, I have this problem and like it involes this dude that I truely like. But like, we went out for like 10 to 11 days and then we broke up. I did something like so fucking stupid to get his attention and now like we don't talk a lot but we're still "friends." I really love him and like he keeps asking me if I do and I know that he suspects that I still do. Then, he already has this other chick under his arm and it's not me. But like I know why we broke up and everything. But like on a note he sent me he wrote that no matter what we will try to make this relationship work and last long even if we have to marry each other! Like, I knew he was going to take back those words. But like, he made feel so freaking retarded and like now, I just think he's like such a dork for confusing me! Like, should I forget about him and move on and just stay friends or should I like still continue to kill myself this way? Because everyday I cry for him to come back to me and like I also "cut" and like I'm like always depressed because of him. Help me please, what should I do?

The Loner, loser, Lover...your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]

Uuuhhhh . . .
I had a similar situation where my boyfriend kept on breaking up w/ me and we kept getting back together and now hes back w/ his ex and I have a new boyfriend who treats me right and now I'm HAPPIER THAN EVER!!!And were stil friends.But i say yall should stay friends and u should move on too like theres no use of waiting for something thats never gonna happen or waiting for something thats not gonna happen soon.I'm not sayin that yall will never be together ever again.I'm just saying while you wait atleast use your waiting time and go out with other guys to explore your possibillities and hopefully you'll find the right person.

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Q: im really shy around guys and i get tounge tied and dont know what to say. Does anyone have any ideas of what i can talk about?

Well I cant say that I have the same problem because I don't but I am very comfortable around boys.Just think of them as one of the girls like talk about the things you talk about with your girlfriends to the boys except for make-up other boys and your period.Oh and ask questions . . .Questions keep things going on FOREVER!!! AND U MUST MUST MUST TALK ABOUT SPORTS!!!

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Q: How can you tell who a major flirt likes? Does he show them more attention or less? Because I have a friend that is a major flirt and he's been following me around in the mornings before school, he's also suddenly starting to eat lunch with me, and always wants to be my partner in Drama. Why the sudden change is another question?

uhm . . .
well if he's a flirt doesnt he like everyone to some extent?But maybe he like you more if he always wants to be with you.Ya KNOW?

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Q: What is meterosexual, and is that a bad thing for a female who is trying to date one?

A metrosexual is a strait boy who does all the things like a homo like if he arches his eyebrows or gets pedicures or goes to spas or dresses in tight clothes.I don't consider it a problem if a female goes out with him like hes a boy but people might think hes gay and then talk about yall relationship and yall and stuff.

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Q: i have this friend and we are really good friends. I am a 15 year old guy and she is a 14 year old girl. She wants me but i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards. I dont want that to happen. How can i tell her this without hurting her feelings?

OH MY GOSH TELL HERT HOW U JUST TOLD US DUH!!!LOL. simply say . . ."i feel if we go out and something happens between us that we might not be friends afterwards and I dont want that to happen."

Q: I really want to buy a vibrator... but I don't know where to go. I am 16 years old, and do not want one shipped to me, I want to go to a store. I was wondering, do I have to go to a sex store or are there any other stores that sell them?

~Kristin

Well as far as I know u can only buy them at adult toy stores like Starship or Kinky's or Bud's Big Time store.But if you don't want it shipped to you then there's only one solution and that is if you have a friend over 18 then you can give them the money and he or she can go and buy it for you

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Q: this friend of mine, Lizzy*, is in a serious relationship with my other friend, Seth*. Lizzy adores Seth, but I know that he has stopped liking her...even though I am not supposed to know, and Lizzy does not know. The problem is, I adore Seth, and he might like me, but I don't know what to do. If I ask Seth if he likes me at all and he says no it would be really akward, but I can't imagine being happy as just his friend much longer...help?!

Uhm . . .
Don't u think thats a little shallow?If she's your friend and thats her boyfriend whyy would you even think of trying to get him.I mean seriously.I have 1 question to ask you I think its pretty simple to answer. Who's more important your Lizzy(your friend) or Seth(your friends boyfriend) Are you sure you want to lose your boyfriend over something like this?

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Q: WEll, today I found out by the guy I love he loves me back. I was so happy and then he made me tell him who I liked and I couldn't lie and say another person so I told him the truth I liked him I also told him I liked someone else. Well, our families are really close but I like him alot. He is not really the going out type but I do not know what to do. Oh and by the way I have a boyfriend already and he is soo sweet and I love him alot but I love this other more because I have known him my whole life and we are like best friends what do I do??
Sincerely,
Lost in which love

Well there are 3 options:
1:Go for the one that you truly love more
2:Stay with your boyfriend cuz you were with him first
3:Pimp-Cheat-If you cant make up your mind just take both

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Q: my frend been acting like a totel cow the last few weeks in school just leaving us and dropping us,talking bout us behind our back.i had a go at her and she just turned on the tears and made the people who she was hangng round her go against me now i dont know what i can do cos when her mate hugged her when she was crying she smirked at me.what can i do.?plse reply swn xx

Well,
I think you should tell her about herself.Tell her that she's fake nad about how much she needs to stop being so childish and she needs to get a life and stop talking shit about people.And then just let her be and find someone new to hang out with.

-HOPE I HELPED!!!:)