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HEY!! U can call me Nikki
Im from that little water state. Im fifteen and a sophmore. I can connect with most teens and their problems but also i think older people need to be open to advice from younger minds as well..so give us a chance. =] I like helping people and giving advice is the one the best ways to help. Ask me anything, i may not always have an answer but ill try. I put in thought and time on the question being asked, something id like people to also do for me. So tell me little pieces of your life and ill see if i can try and put them back together. ;]

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ohkay so i was talking to my boyfriend on the phone just a minute ago. and i told him that i missed him already ( i seen him yesturday ) && he told me that i`m sprung & he likes that. what exactly does that mean. and he also said that he was gettin there with me as well. i`m so confused. what`s it mean when he said that he is almost sprung with me too ? and what does sprung mean.

i`m female - 16
he`s male - 19

It means you like that person. Your sprung.. over the person. Your happy and in love. wether its for a long time or not.

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I made a site dedicated in remembrance to my girl Shaina who commited suicide last march... How can i get people to add the profile and express how much she means and how much she will be remembered. I know if she were still a live she would love it.

this is the site..

www.myspace.com/shaina_xx

hey sorry about your friend.
she was young and thats such a horrible way to go out. God Bless

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Fuck! I made a bet with this guy in my class that I would go on this ride when I go to Great Adventure (northeast) like a week from now, for my orchestra concert. Its to go on Superman. Now.. I'm a 13 year old girl in seventh grade, who is afraid of heights at times, and doesnt "love" rollercoasters that much. heck i was even afraid on the wild mouse! i've never been on a ride with loops and stuff and the superman doesnt have that.. but i saw like on youtube how high you drop at first.. howly freaking crap. is there anyone like me who has gone on this ride at great adventure (or anywhere else if they are the same) and how does it feel? my cousin also said it was hella awesome.. but.. i mean i wanna go on it but can i get hurt on it? i dont have a bad heart or anything but on rollercoasters i feel like my stomach or heart will pop right outta my mouth! if i have no heart conditions and im like 5'5 so im above the height thingy.. will i be okay (though hella scared) on it? also where should i sit. front, middle or back? which is better?

lastly is it okay that i get a note from my mom to give the health people so that i get a wheelchair or whatever they give you so you can skip all the lines? me and my friends wanna do that.. or just butt through people talking on cellphones like we're really important haha. any rides to reccomend for me, too? i love water rides.. im not too afraid of the really high ones.. but for roller coasters.. eh.. idk give me ones you'd think i'd like! thanks a bunches! :]

me again. well i dont think it would be bad to cutt people in line, they might get agitated, but dont let them see you. lol. I was in the front for superman..i hated it. I say go in the middle.. the end is scary because you'll want to look back. Anyways, just have fun.

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did anyone else but me notice that brooke's boobs got huge since the real world ended? no i'm not a pervert or anything but i think that it's strange that they got bigger, did she get plastic surgery or something?

yeah she did actually. she needed it to boost her self esteem supposedly.

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i got my first ever period yesterday and it was a 'regular' flow i guess, and when i went to bed last night i put on a pad just incase and when i checked this morning there was no blood. is this normal to only have your period for 1 day?

Well its not strange. You might not get your period at night anyway, for some people at night it stops. You probably have no clue how to use a tampon, but i suggest that you do use one even though people say you should for at least a year of having it. I'd say after like your second time having it then your fine to use it. Especially during school, going to the bathroom a lot can get annoying. hope i helped.

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i'm so paranoid about keeping a tampon in for more than 1 hour. i don't know why, but i feel like i'm gonna get TSS or something if i keep it in for like 2 hours or something. yesterday i put one in and i took it out after 30 minutes! what should i do about this?

30 minutes ! you have to keep it for longer than that. Your wasting it if you dont. You can safely keep it in for 4-6 hours. As long as you have it in right and dont already have any problems down there then you'll be fine. If you want then look up information on TSS.

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I'm 15 years old and I can't swallow pills. :(
I can swallow pasta whole and recently I swallowed a vitamin that was coated in something that made it slippery so it was easier to swallow but not everything comes like that, of course. And I don't remember how I did that. It's really annoying because I just got these pills but I CANNOT swallow them. I've practiced with tic tacs but even they don't go down. I try putting it in my mouth then gulping water and tilting my head back but it doesn't work. What's wrong with meee?!

I had/have the same problem. Before I would throw up everytime i tried swallowing pills. I have to get multiple glasses of water just to swallow one. Try taking the pill, and putting it as far back as you can in your mouth. Then swallow some water. Or you know how you can do a hard gulp,like where you can actually hear it. Well do that with the pill and water.. it should definitely go down.

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ok this is me with my current hair:

http://i131.photobucket.com/albums/p289/dionnespicy/CIMG2611.jpg

i want to change it because ive had it the same for a year now. short or long? i dunnno what to do to it. i want a new unique style that describes me. i want to dye the tips black. the actual color of my hair now is auburn. graduation is coming up and i want it to look awesome, i have until june 2nd to decide what to do to it. and btw im not girly im more like a sweatshirt and jeans kinda person so that might help a little. im wiling to make a drastic change so be creative haha. please any suggestions would be great thanx.

i say dye your hair black and some color blonde for the tips. or dye ur whole head more of an orangish color. Im pretty sure you already have bangs, i say side bangs one side. And if u want a really different look, not just the hair, then get contacts. For you I'd say a nice green would look good. And some makeup, even if you aren't girly, you should give it a try to see how you like it. Guys will probably like it :)

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This is one of those patheic I still love him questions but please help me.

On Friday I asked out my ex who is now one of my best friends and he said I don't know. So today me and my bff (she also went out with him before) spent the day with him. (were all best friends now) and I asked him if he had his answer yet. At first he said I don't know. and then right before I had to go home I asked him if he had his answer and he said his answer was no. So I pretened not to care and when I leave and he is walking my bff home he holds her hand and I know he wants to go out with her. But I don't want to let him go, again. I don't really know how to put it when I say let him go.. I mean that last time he and my bff went out I had to watch them holding hands, and kissing goodbye, and all that and that really hurt my feelings and so know I don't want that to happen again. I don't know what to do at all. Do I somehow ignore them or avoid them or what? Please. Help.

Your best friend is horrible for dating the guy you liked. Wether you said you were over him or not, its just not right. Tell her how you feel. Cuss her out if you have to. Also, the guy is no good. If he is going to date your best friend then hold hands right after you ask him out, then one..he doesnt like you and two.. he's rude and mean and inconsiderate of your feelings. Which means.. you dont need him. Give your best friend another chance though. hope i helped.

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i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..

alright well..

one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.

i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.

i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.

i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?

thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice.

Hehe.. I hide my too. Funny thing is, I just told my dad today. He seen me go on the website and asked and I always feel like I can tell him the truth, so I told him. Mine is private though. Try telling your parents that yours is private, or make it private. I wouldn't of deleted it, because then they will wonder what was on it that you felt like you had to delete it. I dont think having one is such a big deal as long as it is private. Well good luck. P.S. I'm not sure if my dad will tell my mom, but I trust that he wont. Try to tell one of your parents, the more understanding one. Bye and hope I helped.

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when people drink blood or suck on it, does it do anything to your body, good or bad?

It shouldn't do anything if it's your own blood. Your blood is in your body,so drinking or sucking on it wont do anything it, besides gross people out. If its a paper cut sucking on it is no big deal. If it's someone else's blood it could be infected like have a disease, so putting it into your body isn't a good idea, you'll get a disease. If your blood has stuff in it, like dirt or something, thats still not a good idea,because why would you want that in your mouth. Overall if its yours with a disease or not, you'll be fine.

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how much money is minimum wage?

It used to be like 5.15 but they just recently raised it to 7.25 Thats what I'm talking about, because young people need money too, you know. - Pk

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Me and my sister are both teenage girls, 15 and 16. We butt heads on a daily basis. We fight at least twice a day, and by fight I mean physically and definitely emotionally. We've physcially fought so badly that we leave bruises, marks and scratches on each other. Emotionally is the worst though. She has no idea that everything she says to me/calls me hurts me so badly. As my older sister everyone expects us to fight, but this type of fighting is over the line. We fight twice a day, at least!
We're past the point of working it out, our parents have tried everything. And honestly I'm sick of crying everyday.
Our fighting is literally making my parents life hell and tearing their marriage apart. Not only that but it's making my life hell too.
What do I do? And please don't say ignore her, that NEVER works.

To work a problem with someone I always try to spend as much time with them as possible. So spending time with your sister and only her will make you guys have more of a connection. For example, go shopping, go out to eat, go to a carnival or a festival. Or just simply try to talk to her and tell her everything and how you feel.

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