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Hey im an high school graduate and live in New Jersey where i give advice to all my friends and other people. I give great advice and i wiling to hlp all of you in your time of need. so if you need help remeber: Jazzy Got Da AnswerJazzy**
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Well I've known this girl for about a year now and we're really good friends, but I'm starting to like her more than a friend (if you know what I mean.) The only problem is I don't know if I should ask her out or not. If I do and she says "yes", then great, but if she said "no", that would just be really awkward and it would be wierd every time I see her again. So...what should I do?
i can tell you what to do thats a chance that you have to take it's up to you to decide if you wanna be a risk taker
Jazzy**
I'm so confused about my boyfriend, I mean he's the nicest guy, but he's so shy. He's forgetful too so he doesn't call all that often. The only things I seem to focus on about him anymore are his faults. I really do love him but sometimes I just get the feeling that he doesn't know what he's doing. Yet sometimes he does cute things (like grabs my hand which guys don't seem to enjoy) but usually only when were around my friends that are couples (I'm guessing he just copies what they do?) When were alone it's completely different, we talk about everything and nothing yet it still seems awkward; We don't go to the same school so that can account for being a bit awkward around each other since we don't see hangout as often. I want a bond with him like all my friends have where they play fight with each other, talk about their relationship and call each other just to say "Hi"
I don't know how to show him that I'm really into him and want to step it up a bit. Any advice?
first he dont read minds you need to tell him. comuncation is the key to any good long lasting relationships. btu it only been two months you have time to buid your relationship
Jazzy**
I cheated on my boyfriend, Trey about a week ago. I am absolutley in love with him but we got into a huge argument and he said some really mean things so I went off and hooked up with this one kid that he totally HATES just to make him mad. Well, he didn't end up finding out and the night before last he called me and apologized and sent me a totally sweet email, and so I felt like I had to tell him the truth so I did and he started crying and then I started crying and I felt soooo bad.
the email said..
"You know that feeling you get when you’re about to do something like go on a big roller coaster and you’re scared out of your mind because its so high up but yet you still can’t wait? Or when you’re on an airplane and you’re going to see someone you haven’t seen in a really long time and you’re about to land and you absolutely can’t wait and you’re so happy and you feel like you could just fly, like if you fell out of the airplane right then it wouldn’t matter because you could do anything… that’s how I feel when I talk to you. Its like, nothing bad could ever happen as long as I’m talking to you and even though we fight constantly I’d rather be arguing with you then doing anything with anyone else. I’m so sorry for what I said and I’d be lost without you." yeah so basically i'm in love with him and I feel like shit for making him upset. He said he forgave me and that he loves me no matter what and I believe him but I still feel absolutley terrible for it and I want to find some way to make it up to him. Does anybody have any ideas???
if anybody gave you in advice you cant go by it. with some like this it needs to come straight from your heart. i can tell you to get him some flowers and a card but it deep to be from your heart just like his email was from his heart.
i hope it work out for the best
Okay so my best friend (of 10 years) was going out with 2 guys (wesley and rafi) and rafi had a feeling my friend liked someone else..so i told rafi that my friend was cheating on him with wesley...am i wrong for doing that? i dont think i am because it's not like she was going to marry wesley or rafi so i dont know why she is getting all worked up over it...but what do yall think? did i do the wrong thing?
you may have thought that, that was the right thing to do but there are rules to have a bestfriend and you broke it. as a friend you was supposed to keep her secert event though she was wrong.
i know your not liking what im say but im just keepin it real.
Jazzy***
I have been with my b/f for about a yr and a half now. We have definitely had our ups and downs. Last year i was at a friends house and one of my b/f's good friends showed up. He asked if i wanted to hang out. Went to his house and he put the moves on me. I refused to have sexual contact with him. Even though i had the urge to. He told me that he was sorry and that he couldnt help but wonder why i was with this other guy and that he thought i was pretty.
Ever since that time, he always makes comments to my b/f about how my b/f doesnt treat me right. Or he will joke around about how im his type. We live in a tight-knit town where everyone knows everyone. I see this guy everyday and he always smiles or stares and then looks away.
My major problem is that im finding more and more that im not in-love with my bf anymore as he has become physically violent.
My sister-in-law thinks that i should leave my bf and go with this guy. I am quite tempted as he and i have so much in common and he knows how to treat a lady. I also have a medical condition where i cannot have children. And this guy has full custody of his little girl. Every time i see him with her i melt because he is such a good father.
Am i wrong for wanting to try and have a relationship with this other guy?
And do you think he would be interested in trying to have a relationship?
Hey no i dont think your wrong for thinkging we all wonder " what would it would be like" to be with some one else. i think he want a relationship with you. i thnk tou should go for it if your man b/f isnt acting right.
Let me know what you decide and how it works out
Jazzy***
What is the age that guys usually bring their girlfriends to their house to like, meet their parents and have dinner and stuff?
it depends but i would say around 16 0r seventeen because thats when the relationship may be getting serious and not just puppy love
Okay, so theres this girl. Lets call her "M" And personally, I don't like her.
M is claiming to be my friend sean's "favorite" according to his profile. And seriously, I'm thinking to myself, "he's YOUR favorite?" and he's been my friend for a while now. that girl is just mezmorising the boy. She can't really like him, he's my friend.
So, the thing is that I get mad&jealous everytime a girl calls him her "favorite" it's not like a like him or anything, because i have a boyfriend and stuff. But these girls need to leave him alone. Maybe I should get over my jealousy. Please help?
why do they need to leave him alone and why are ou getting jealous. you sure you dont like him maybe you need to rethink that whole idea because it might be some type of feeling there
hi,
well i hadnt got my periods for quiet some time.. and i was then told to take the home pregnancy test.. i did that..and the result was negative.. i actually landed up getting my periods after 15days ...
all i wanted to know is.... should i try the test again after my periods are over...
and what time should i take it..i had taken the first test early morning..coz ive heard the early morning urine is the best... well can i take it any time of the day or so? do lemme know..
thanks
you can take it anytime of the day and i would take it again to be on the safe side
hope it works out for the best
Alright. Well I was involved with this guy, we'll call him B, and me and B were together about 3 months and I was madly in love with him. I ended up lieing to him.. alot.. in the beginning of the relationship. And I slowly started confessing. The last time I confessed the last lie to him he took a tantrum fit and called me a liar. He broke up with me. He said he'd never take me back. Now he's sending me texts from his phone saying he loves me. Now. I'm with a guy.. moving on from B.. we'll call him T. He was my first ever love, and we decided to get back together after me and B broke up. T doesn't know about B and his text messages.. but everytime I talk to B, it makes me want to get back with him and leave T.. I don't wanna hurt T, however.. and I love them both so much. And B keeps saying he loves me yet he doesn't think we'd work out. I don't know what to do because I love T so much until B starts sending text messages and calling me.. then it makes me forget ALL about T and want B back. Then once B goes poof, I want T back. If your not confused.. try to give me some advice on what I should do. I can't just stop talking to B, and I can't just break up with T.
you may not agree because you love oth of them but i would leave both of them alone. and get someone else because you dont want to hurt both b and t any you already hurt b so let them both go
hope i helped
my ipod nano screen is frozen.. what should i do?
let the battery die it will reset it self and it wouldnt be froze or hook it up to the computer
Well me and boyfriend have been going out for a year and 8 months, going to be 9 soon. We are like best friends and spend alot of time together, but its always at my house or at the movies. I have only been to his house twice and once was because his sister invited me, the other cause his dad did. Today me and his family were supposed to go snorkeling but the weather was bad so he didnt go and didnt call me either. Now he says that he is staying at his house with his family. I wanted him to invite me so bad!!! But he didnt. His brother has a girlfriend and she is always over there. I have talked to him before, but still he has never invited me over. I am trying to call him now and he wont pick up his phone =(. OH what do I do, and why is he like this?
umm this is kind of weird. because usually guys would try in excuse to get you to their house. all i cansay is maybe talk to him again because thats the only way your going to get an answer.
Jazzy**
ok well im a 15/f and my bf is a 16/m. we have been together for over a year now and i know what people are going to say your 15 sex can wait and i know it can. i mean i want to wait until later on in life but yet i sometimes feel like im ready to do it with him.. i mean me and him have talked about it before and he says he thinks hes ready but it all depends on me. i mean i love him to death and never felt this way about a guy before..he tells me he loves me alot and wouldnt make me do anything i wouldnt want to..hes told me that hes never felt this way and wouldnt know what to do if he lost me. but i mean when i say i want to i know for a fact ill chicken out because im so self conscience and like because of pain and possible bleeding. we talked about it last night and like when he wants to and stuff but he told me its up to me. like how do i know if im ready? how bad does it hurt? and like would i bleed alot? like i dont want to screw up and stuff like im scared to do it how do i get over it?
sorry its so long
thanks
(i rate)
if your second guessing yourself like this than maybe your really not ready. your only ready because you want to please him ( been their ) im noot gon lie it hurt and you may not bleed if your active . do whats BEST FOR YOU> DONT DO SOMETHING YOUR GONNA REGRET LATER>
hope it works out for the best
Jazzy**
my name is Rachel and iam a 17 year old high school special ed student and my verbal skills brought my iq up really high,but they still put me in special ed for english and I don't understand that.I asked my mom about it and she got really mad she said if I asked her about it again she'd make me quit school,but I still think I could do regular ed english,but she dosn't belive me what should I do?
talk to a guidance counsleor or a teacher and tell them that you can do this. tell them to give a chance. you keep beleivin in you if nobody else will.
Ive seen this girl I like. How do I go about asking her out on a date? What are the steps and how do I do it?
Im a 15/m nearly 16. Please help, I rate 5's for great advice.
calm down lover boy. just take it slow watch her find out things she like use that to your advantage and when the time is right put those things into action by find out what she like you wont go wrong.
JAzzy**
i have this friend called Matt who i've been mates with for a couple of years now. he confessed he liked me early last year, then got a girlfriend and we just stayed friends. they broke up last year. well a few months ago, we were in his room and kissed. now we're basically together, seeing each other constantly. i really, really like him and have ever since we met.
problem is.. there's this other guy online, named Pete. i live in the USA and hes in france. we're sorta in a internet relationship. however, i'm not getting to see him until earlyish next year when he flies out. i haven't told him about my "friend" because quite frankly, i'm not sure what to say.
i feel like i'm stringing two guys along. everyone tells me i'm not doing anything wrong because my online guy is so far away. but i still feel guilty. i'm not going out with matt officially but we do act like it.
i don't want to "break up" with pete because hes spending all this money to see me, and i feel that would be unfair. however, i really like matt and it would be perfect if it wasn't for the timing.
i just would like some opinions on this situation. should I just continue what I'm doing? am i a cheater? i never intended for things to get like this, and it's depressing me to think of what i could be doing. i wish things weren't so complicated.
thankyou. 5's for everyone.
first internet relationship sounds kind of iffy. i wouldnt play to close to it. I wolud more of my time and energy in worrying about matt. beacuse when you see your "online buddy" he has to go back and his he really going to keep spending all that money to come to the usa from france. weigh your options think of the good and the bad.
Jazzy***
is talking to yourself healthy or is it a sign of a mental illness? Because i talk to myself a lot. is it healthy
if talking to yourself was a mental illness this world would be downhill. sometimes it's better to tlak to yourself because you get your inner thoughts out on surface.
I talk to myself all the time if it make you feel better
Jazzy**
she's such a bitch! ever since like 8th grade, she's been the worst friend ever!
she leaves every summer on vacation and she actually planned a suprise party for herself.. but she didn't want anybody to know that she planned a suprise party for herself so she got my cell phone and started text messaging everyone telling them that I planned the suprise party.. and i was fine w/ that because i could understand that she doesn't want to tell anyone she planned it for herself. it wasnt actually a party party but it was like going to dinner and movies with a whole bunch of people. but, i got bitten by a red ant and i'm SUPER allergic so my foot looks like a big red balloon and i couldn't go because i had to go to the doctor and i was under heavy medication because the swelling was so bad. so she goes and has her stupid little party putting on her stupid fake smile and actually goes out with everybody having a good time while i'm at the hospital! and calls me to brag about it after... i'm sorry but that is SUPER bitchy of her to do. they almost had to hospitalize me! i'm so mad at her and i don't want to take her to a party tonight! what can i tell her not to take her... and how could i stop being friends with her because i don't want to be friends someone like her anymore! this isnt the first time and her mother always talks bad about people and started talking bad about me when i was just dancing with some guy and didn't say anything about her stupid daughter that was making out on the floor!
she is a bitch bad enough you didnt go but did she really have to brag. if i was you u have to be a bitch to treat a bitch .
so i would either hang out with people she dont like. or hang out with ohter friends but dont invite her but if you really wanted to be bitchy tell her straight out. i know these things are mean but she's mean so what the hell
hope i helped
Jazzy**
Okay. 14/F. I have really low self esteem. I can't stand the way I look. I just completely hate myself. I hate my looks, I hate my personality, I just hate everything about me! I've thought about cutting SO many times, and I was actually ready to one day, but my friend stopped me. Honestly, I feel like she's the only person who cares whether I do it or not. I guess my question is, What can I do to feel better about myself?
you have to look within yourself and find something that you like about yourself and work off of that. i go though this everyday. were all special in our own way find yours
Jazzy**
My mum told me I'm fat today and I know I am but the way she said it made me feel like I should be anerexic.
She was petit in high school and when she had me she was still relly small. When she had my brother she got ffat but I feel alot of pressure to be thin. This summer I want to go gym like everyday but I don't know how to lay off me...she really bothers me abut my weigh and I will lose it...but in time!!!!!
She makes me feel bad...she actually makes me want to eat!!
i had this problem tell your mothe rwhat she doin i know you may not want to. but she cant stop doin somethin she dont know she's doin
Jazzy**
Me and my bf make out all the time but i always have my hands just like to myself idk what to do with them..... anybody have any ideas of what i can do?
put them around him or grab his face it helps it makes them think your really into it