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i cheated =[
I cheated on my boyfriend, Trey about a week ago. I am absolutley in love with him but we got into a huge argument and he said some really mean things so I went off and hooked up with this one kid that he totally HATES just to make him mad. Well, he didn't end up finding out and the night before last he called me and apologized and sent me a totally sweet email, and so I felt like I had to tell him the truth so I did and he started crying and then I started crying and I felt soooo bad.
the email said..
"You know that feeling you get when you’re about to do something like go on a big roller coaster and you’re scared out of your mind because its so high up but yet you still can’t wait? Or when you’re on an airplane and you’re going to see someone you haven’t seen in a really long time and you’re about to land and you absolutely can’t wait and you’re so happy and you feel like you could just fly, like if you fell out of the airplane right then it wouldn’t matter because you could do anything… that’s how I feel when I talk to you. Its like, nothing bad could ever happen as long as I’m talking to you and even though we fight constantly I’d rather be arguing with you then doing anything with anyone else. I’m so sorry for what I said and I’d be lost without you." yeah so basically i'm in love with him and I feel like shit for making him upset. He said he forgave me and that he loves me no matter what and I believe him but I still feel absolutley terrible for it and I want to find some way to make it up to him. Does anybody have any ideas???
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if anybody gave you in advice you cant go by it. with some like this it needs to come straight from your heart. i can tell you to get him some flowers and a card but it deep to be from your heart just like his email was from his heart.
i hope it work out for the best
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iVE CHEATED ON A GUY THAT i LOVED TOO AND HE FORGAVE ME BUT i DiDNT MAKE iT UHP TO HiM AND WE BROKE UHP 2 WEEKS LATER..i WOULD HAVE TO SAY YOOH NEED TO REPLY WiTH ONLY YOUR TRUEST FEELiNG TO HiM AND MAYBE EVEN SOME ROSES...GUYS LiKE FLOWERS EVEN THOUGH THEY DENY iT...DONT TRY TO BRiBE YOUR WAY OUT OF iT THOUGH JUST MAKE SURE HE KNOWS THAT YOU WERE HURT AND HOW SORRY YOU ARE. YOU MiGHT WANT TO MENTiON THAT YOU DiD iT BECAUSE YOU WERE SO HURT BECUASE YOU LOVED HiM SO MUCH AND WANTED TO HURT HiM LiKE HE HURT YOU THEN BE SWEET.
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Wow, first of all, let me tell you how lucky you are. Most people would have an extremely different reaction if their girlfriend/boyfriend cheated on them. There would be a LOT more anger in most cases. So you should definitely THANK him for forgiving you.
Now.. making it up to him. You have a lot to do now. I think that you should tell him how you feel, making sure that he knows how much you care about him (and hopefully he will trust you a little more). You can do this in a letter, a poem, or just plain talking to him.
Of course, it might be a good idea to buy him something nice as well. It shows him that you still love him enough to spend your money on him. ;)
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Well, if you want to make it up to him, you should probably break up with him for HIS sake. Just because you get into a fight does not give you the right to have a spiteful hook up.
But just because you're in an arguement does not give him the right to say whatever he did to make you want to spite him. Correct this, and your morals.
You're probably just going to ignore that whole part, or give me a 1, so I'll go in a different direction:
Be as nice and sweet to him as you can.
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These things happen and once they are done they cannot be undone. You did a horrible thing and now you feel guilty. You are very lucky that your boyfriend has forgiven you and is prepared to give you another chance. All you can really do to prove how sorry you are is to remain faithful to him. He will need constant reassurance and for you to continue to tell him how much you love him. Quite possibly if you have another argument he will throw up the betrayal in your face - you will have to take it because it is true. However, you can only go on apologising for so long before you have had enough. If you are meant to be together then you will know in your heart how you can make him feel secure. I hope that someone can come up with some good, practical ways in which you can prove your fidelity and sorrow. I wish you all the very best and good luck.
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You can make it up to him by never doing it again you dont want to be materialistic and give him stuff just tell him that you love him and you'll never do it again =)
-I hope that helped good luck =)
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