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Hey guys im Michelle!! Some people think im annoying, some people think im crazy.. but who knows im just ME!! I bite my nails, i know its a habbit i have to stop. I love getting my nails done, its my obsession. My goal in life is to become famous, but who doesnt wanna be? Im mean to people if they're mean to me first, otherwise whats the reason to be mean to someone? I dont understand life.. although it can be fun sometimes. I love the color pink, and when i say that people automatically think im a girly girl. I love to dance and sing, although i dont see myself doing it when i get older..

advice

Me and my bff(girls and both 14) are sexual, but my friend is so worried about what everyone else will say. My family kids around and calls us lovers and stuff and their just jokin'. She takes it way over the top. She feels that we don't feel like bff anymore. She doesn't even wanna consider us being together, but wants to cover up the real deal and sugar code it by naming how we desire each other in a inoccent and "straight" name. I want to try more things with her like fingering, food activies and all that good stuff. I read that other girls are more comfortable then us. I just believe if you wanna get physical making out won't cut it.We had a serious conversation before and i said that when i look at other girls i feel nothing for them, but i make a very big exceptional when i'm with my bff. What do i tell her for us to actually be together and feel comfortable about what we do. Can anyone tell us what we could above the belt like kissing nevking, ect. Plz any suggestions say now!! Help me plz i rate high!!

Well i mean you said you want to finger her so do it.. kiss her neck and stuff and like may be you can even have sex if you are ready. YOu can give her orgasms and stuff. Give her a bl for a girl.
have fun!
♥ Michelle

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is it normal for a guy to be exhausted after having sex for the first time?

well i have never had sex.. but yes it is normal..
♥ Michelle
ps.. he might have ashmah

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I'll be swimming everyday now for swim team. I was wondering, what shampoo's can I use to protect my already dry/damaged hair from clhorine? I've tried Garnier Fruites, Treseme, and Pantene and non of them work. I'll rate :)

Use soy products such as soy milk shampoos and stuff...
♥ Michelle

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I really like this boy that i've known for a long time now and ever since ive met him ive liked him A LOT. so we went out then we broke up..then went out again and broke up again. I still like him SO much and ive tried to talk to other guys but i still cant get him out of my head and id do ANYTHING to not like him anymore because he has a girlfriend. I want him to realize how much still like him but he goes and tells his girlfriend that I'm friends with. I really need help fast! I usually get over a guy really quick but this boys somehow a different story! Ill rate 5's for GOOD answers! THX!

Hey, I think he still likes you very much and is trying to make you jelous. Try not to think of him that much. If you suddenly do think of him sing your fav song.
♥ Michelle

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if you shave "down there" and you go to the doctors for a checkup or somethin then what will they say to you? can you get in trouble?

No. my doctor is fine with it.
♥ Michelle

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i have this one friend who steals guys. first she steals my friend jackies friend who was about to ask her out and she liked him back. then my friend ashlie has a boyfriend and she told him she likes him. now my friend and i like the same guy (and we have no problem about that) and now she said that she`s starting to like him. and she promised she wouldn`t. this guy i like i don`t exactly know and he doesn`t know that i like him and i don`t see him a lot. so what should i do about her?? not in just my situation, but in other things that she does. she`s just that kind of flirt person. any suggestions or thoughts?

Well.. i suggest that you talk to her and tell her your true feelings.. dont hold back because then she will contine you doing it.
♥ Michelle

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ok, I'm about 5'2 & weaigh 115. & I'm 14/M

well, I want to have abs, just like a 6 pack, & my stomach be flat (I'm strested & thats where it goes). & I wanted to know a diet & a work-out routine that would work.

Thanks So Much!

DONT GO ON A DIET to crunches EVERYNIGHT and i mean EVERYNIGHT and you should be abkle to get a 6 pac is no time and your stomach will become flat to!!
♥ Michelle

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heyy i have 2 problems...plz help me with both of them!

1) im 15 and i need a job..what can i do that does not "attract" kids my age cuz i dont like bein around popular high schoolers..weird i know but yeah plz help!

2) i just got my permit. my mom was like "ok drive home" and i was like "what!? i just got my permit!" and she was like "drive home or i wont help you" so i did it and the whole time she was yelling "SLOW DOWN! NO! TURN LEFT!" then at home she was like "i didnt appreciate that driving" well hello! i dont appreciate the pressure or yelling! what should i do?

THANKS!

1) Babysitting or a stupid hangout spot no one goes to

2) Talk to her be like mom please stop your yelling at me and putting so much pressure on me so im driving bad calk down a little..

♥ Michelle

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i just started dating this guy yesturday and i'm already regreting it. he's a real sweetheart and i know he's just shy because it's only been one day but everyone is already in our business and it gets on my nerves. i feel so unloyal because i'm kind of embarassed about it too, i never dated the guy that's always the one his group picks on and who never 'gets the girls' and i know me saying yes to him was a shock to everyone. they thought i was going to go out with this other guy and i still do want to go out with the other guy but he lied to me and i think that got me so mad i said yes to my current boyfriend but i still like the other guy and i don't want to be a bitch and break up with my boyfriend after one day and hurt him. i mean who knows, maybe he'll actually become a great boyfriend. what should i do?

If i were you, i would stay with him untill somthing went wrong and totally messed the relationship up you know?
♥ Michelle

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okay so i am veggie, and i really dont eat all that much. and when i do it is mostly fat free.. calorrie free.. or w/e.
i am really obb. about my weight, and the way my body looks.
even though every one says i have a perfect body.. mice size boobs, good curves in my stomache then a nice booty that all the boys look at.. but thats not good enough for me. i work out 5 times a week for 1 and 1/2 hours a day.
my ribs are getting to the point were they stick out, and they feel really thin.
whats going on with me.. i cant even get my self to sit down and eat like fatty food.. or like . watch tv.. and its even hard for me to sit here. i always have to be moving, and working out .. and i just feel like im running out of steam.
some one please help me.
oh also i am animic and a 13/f
whats going on with me? why cant i eat? whats going on with my ribs and body? whats the real damage thats being done?
thanks a lot.

Hey dont get mad at me for the answer i am going to give to you because it is ture.
You might have ADD and need to get tested, you might be anerexic and your body isnt used to eating the amount of food intake. You should see a counsler so she can help you or go to a doctor.
♥ Michelle

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i think i am way fat. everyone tells me i am skinny, but seirously, i am 5'3" and 112 pounds. my friends think that just cause i m going on a diet, i will be anorexic. help!!!!!!!!!!!!
i give high ratings

You are not fat.. if you want to go on a diet you can but know that you are hearting yourself. If you really really want to go on a diet then just eat healthy food and make sure you eat somthing..
♥ Michelle

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Okay, my friend wants to try to publish 3 books that go in a series. She want to find a publisher that doesn't ask for money to publish it and will give her a big percentage (of the money earned) back. Do you know any publishing companys like that?

I'll rate 5 for good answers.
Thank You!

Well ask her what her favorite book is and on the book copyright page there is the publisher adress send it to that publisher!!
♥ Michelle

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i have naturally curly hair. i always straighten it, but lately it's been a hassle and it's ruining my hair. the only thing i don't like about my hair being curly is it's always so frizzy and the curls are way to small and it makes me look like an idiot. i'd like to have big, SOFT, NON FRIZZY curls. how can i achieve this without damaging my hair more?

I have the same hair as you.. i use soy shampoo and then put my hair up after in a towel and then bring it out after 15 min or 10 min... and that should work.
♥ Michelle

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okay since the last person i gave head to.. i have been getting bumps in my mouth.. like one bump a day and it would go away.. and a few days later another bump would come but at another spot.. i am really scared! the bumps hurt also.. and please dont tell me to go to the doctors because i will someday but i just need help NOW ..okay thanks

They might be cancore soars!! You cant do much about cancore soars.. And i know you dont want to hear this but.. you should go to the doctor and if you want to keep the blow job part personal then just say i have been getting cancore soars on my mouth is there a cream or somthing that will help it.
♥ Michelle

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okay i like this guy and i just talked to him and he said he could see me as a potential girlfriend, but i have no diea what that means. He aslo just got out of a dirty breakup (they were goin out for 8 months) so what is he trying to tell me?? please please help!!

He likes you!! LOLOL
♥ Michelle

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ok here it is. i love this guy alot and me and him dated but i broke it off with him b/c he kissed another girl. now i think i might have sex with this guy. i don't know. i really want to but who knows if i am emotionally ready for this. i need help A.S.A.P!!!

Hey it seems to me that you dont know if you are ready.
ready means: Mentally disposed; willing although it also means:
Likely or about to do something
so in my opinian you are ready and are WILLING to do it but you aarnt emotionally and mentally ready.. wait for the right guy to come and it will happen for itself.. you know? Sorry im not much help but that is my advice
♥ Michelle

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ok so this may be a dumb question anyways...i broke up with my boyfriend a while ago n my friend asked him if he still likes me n he goes dont ask me that...could this mean he may still like me..what do u guys think? i told u it was dumb

Hey i know you dont want to hear the truth, but he has mixed feelings.. he doesnt know if he likes you but yet there is somthing about yo uthat he is drawn to and still likes
♥ Michelle

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okay me and my boyfriend usually use a condom but about three weeks ago we just used the withdrawal method i wasnt ovulating(i know this becasue ive always had a perfect 28 day cycle) i took a pregnancy test two weeks after which came back negative. i havent missed my period nor do i have any of the symptoms but i am a worry wart i dont think im pregnant but i need a second opion????what do you think?

Nope you arent pregnant!!
♥ Michelle

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will squats make me get a bigger, bubblier butt ? if so, when will i see results and how much should i do a day ?

No, it makes it smaller and less bubblier lol.. there isnt really an excersice that makes a butt bigger.. lol sorry
♥ Michelle

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ok everyone. i need help on some outfits. i just got rid of 3/4 of my clothes. i don't know what kind of "in style" clothes i should get for the summer. i need some help.

Well wite beaters and stuff and layering is alays cute ((get diff color wite beaters and layer them)) sun dresses, short skirts, board shorts, vintage look.. anything you like will work too!!
♥ Michelle

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