Ever since I was little, I always loved talking to my family about their problems. I love being able to help people. I maybe young but I am very good at giving advice on Love life. I am very mature for my 14 years of age and I want to help people with their questions and problems. SO if you have a question, don't hesitate to ask because of my age
I am also a huge Band Geek/Color Guard person, and I love music and writing. So if you also have questions on those I could help you out!
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So I've had a lot of boyfriends.
but with most of them, I've never done anything like sex or oral.
just kissing or making out.
some of them I didn't do anything.
and yeah. most of them I said yes to because I felt bad saying no :( others, because I actually liked them.
but I would always end my relationships. idk why.
A lot of people say I flirt with EVERY guy I talk to, which is not true.
like to me, I see them as a friend, but people think I'm flirting when I'm really not.
that's my personality. really giggly, funny, chill, likes to make people laugh (boy or girl) always smiling, jokester. you get the picture
so yeah.
I'm a freshmen.
I'm still a virgin & not planning to lose it anytime soon.
I've NEVER even seen you know, a penis in real life.
I've NEVER gotten or gave a hickie(s)
I don't let boys touch me or my butt or boobs or anything.
not even if they're my boyfriend.
but yet, a lot of people in middle school called me a hoe and that I flirt w/ everyone!
so since everyone is saying it, I guess I am.
so how do I stop being a hoe? or stop flirting w/ almost every guy I talk to?
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I have heard this onlin before and i belive this applies to here "Some people mistake being polite for flirting" I honestly don't think you are a "hoe" I am your age and to be honest you don't sound like one. Alo a big point of what you said is that you are stilla virgin. Good keep that, I am your age and I pan on staying a virgin for a LONG LONG time. And from what you've said is that you have respect for yourself. I'd say you are not a hoe, just beacuse you like to make guys and girls laugh. You are fine. I hope this helped or at least assured you. Good Luck :)
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Ive heard sooo much if you break a mirror its 7 years of bad luck. Is this really true? If it is please tell me (link)
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It's a superstition. It's not real. You're fine.
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I just got hired at my job about three weeks ago. One of my trainers was a cute boy. He was very nice and taught me a lot, let me do things on the register that other trainers did not. We cracked jokes, got to know each other and everything. That was my first day. I'm now done with training and am able to be alone on a register. However, I did learn register faster than self checkout. My boss said he would keep me after one night to run me through everything. So, when I got assigned to self checkout and my cute trainer saw it, he said there's no time to wait and he will teach me how to do self checkout. So, we went down, he even took a late break to help me learn everything and even when he did take his break, he took it up front in case I had any questions. I am not in my third week of working there. He has no come to be more himself around me. He'll come over and help me if he sees me look confused or a customer seems a little angry. He was finished his break and was assigned to the self checkout that I was at so before he started, he got my baskets to put away, he stacked them up and started to walk over but he ran into me jokingly and said "you were in my way" and then went to put them away. But, I've noticed that he kinda has a rude sense of humor but only to me. Like, when he took over self checkout after taking my baskets back, he said "geez, log out already, nobody wants you here!" but he did chuckle a little and I told him it wouldn't hurt to be a little nicer and he said "did you happen to notice that I'm only mean to you?" Now, my boss is someone that I went to school with, he is twenty and I've had a crush on him ever since high school. So, as a joke with my friend, I call my boss "hot face number one" and my cute trainer "hot face number two." I was working self checkout tonight, my trainer walked over and said "I can't believe you think I'm number two! I'm not two, I'm number one." Then walked away. So, obviously he found out about that. I'm just asking this question to get other people's opinions on him. Do you think he is mean to me because he likes me? Do you think he said that about being number two because he really was offended that I think someone else is cuter? Or is he sarcastically mean to me and only me because he doesn't like me? Thanks! (link)
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I honestly think he may like you. Boys of all ages can either be: Super sweet or kind of mean to the girls they like. He also seems to be teasing you, even if he has a rude sense of humor. On the Number One- Number Two thing, he might be offended that you think another guy is cuter and may feel threaten. I hope this helped! Good Luck :)
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i need to know what the age limit is for babysitting I rly want to do this and make money so I can get extra stuff for school and im only 12. (link)
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Honestly I think it depends on maturity and responsibility. I think early, middle teens is a good time for babysitting cause you'll be a little older and have a little more responsibility. Twelve is really young to be a babysitter. You could try other ways to get money like walking dogs, and other methods. Ask your mom. I hope this helped!
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So there is this guy who I like and i'm not sure if he likes me. We are strangers but we see each other almost everyday and everytime we look at each other, we look into each other's eye and only the eye.
Twice we looked at each other in the eye on different days and it lasted for quite a while.
Does it mean anything? (link)
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Last year, during practice I would turn around and always see one guy staring at me and it ended up that he liked me at the time, it might mean something. You should go up to him and say hi! I hope this helped, Good Luck! :)
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how do you get your chin to stop twitching?
and what does "stfu" stand for? (link)
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"Stfu" stands for Shut the F*uck up.
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My boyfriend asked how u feel about him what' should I say I'm lost of words?? (link)
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I have been asked this before (Not by a boyfriend but a guy I liked) I think he wants to see if You say something like "I like you" or "I love you" Have you guys already said your "I love you's"? If not that makes sense. I hope this helped to an extent, Good Luck!
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I have a neighbor the same age as me, 13, and he used to be my best friend when we were three. I am a girl and when I was little I never minded the gender difference. We always used to be together since we are neighbors. Flash forward about two years. We were in kindergarden together, but then he switched schools. Over the years we talked less and less and around seven or eight stopped completely. Flash forward again to sixth grade. I met my best friend. Seventh grade she met my old best friend, and became best friends with him and started crushing on him. I tried to become friends with him again, but it never worked. I didn't have any classes with him so I never talked to him. I hope to have some with him next year, but I'm curious because according to my friend he said he wants to be friends with me again too. I'm just scared and puzzled because the weird thing is I feel I have to protect him because he was like my brother. Should I let it go or try to befriend him again? And if it helps with a solution, I'm pretty good friends with a lot of his friends. Thanks! (link)
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I would try and befriend him. It's summer! A lot of time to think about it. I can tell you really want this friendship to rekindle. If so, Then Make it happen! I wish the best for you, I know what it's like to have friendship problems. If you think he might want to be friends again then act on it. If you're shy take it slow. It would be good to do just that, so you can get back into the grooves of being friends. If you have a lot of mutual friends, you could find out what he likes and try to use that to your advantage. I hop I helped, Good Luck! :)
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In sixth grade over the summer I took saxophone lessons with my current music teacher. I never ended up playing in school because I didn't know much at all. I wanted to keep practicing at home with the borrowed school saxophone, but my teacher wouldn't allow me to practice at home with it. My dad said it would be good if I tried again, but I'm too scared because my music teacher is harsh and might yell at me because I didn't practice the last time he taught me. My family doesn't have much money either so we can't afford an effective teacher. I hate being in a room alone with someone I barely know so no private lessons and my teacher was never that open to me. I would want my mother to come to my lessons and not my dad because my father's side is full of very successful musicians and I feel under pressure with him there, but he said he would want to go and would go no matter what I said. I'm really frustrated so please help! (link)
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I can totally relate on having a harsh music teacher. You could go to one of your friends who plays music (If you have one) and ask them for help. I've been playing for about 6 years now, and I'm able to help students with instruments even I don't play! (i.e I play flute and French Horn, but I have helped a person with trumpet and another with Euphonium) SO I would ask a friend who is really skilled/into music. You could always grab a book and teach yourself too. Hope this helped! From one musician to another! :)
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Im really into music and i like to update my music pretty often so i was wondering if anyone had any ideas for me. Here's a list of what i like: I have a wide range of music.
Evanescence
Skrillex
John Mayor
Jack Jonson
Florence and the machine
Lil Wyane
Brokencyde
Thank you for your time and Happy New Years!! (link)
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Linkin Park, Breaking Benjamin, Hawthorne Heights, Skillet, Adele, Blue October and Imagine Dragons.
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Right So I'm 13 and I've just had my first kiss well.. Snog really and after it I couldn't look at him again and I don't know wherethr it was because I was shy or embarrased!! We hugged afterwards and I just cudnt look him in the eye (he's 13 aswell) please help wats wrong with me (link)
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It's your first time kissing. You're probably just embarrassed and shy like you said. It makes sense. I would be too. You'll get over it. Don't worry
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Hi I'm a 13 year old girl and my crush is moving away! I live in America and i met this guy around last September/October time. We have grown to e close friends and I like him a lot, a few of my friends think he like me. Should I tell him I like him before he leaves to get closure? I am really confused and i really like him! Please help (link)
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I totally understand this (I went through this too) After he moved I admitted my feelings officially because I wanted closure and he officially admitted it too (we both kind of knew we liked each other but I wanted to actually say it) and I stay in contact with him. You will have to move on but you can stay friends. If you have any other questions about this, You can ask me :) I would love to help. It can be hard, but it will be ok.
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i like this boy called daniel, but i dont know what to do! today in PE my friends were saying, lets call lauren's (my) crush daz, as a code name. as in daniel (they have these sad code names for the boys they fancy). i didn't tell them that i fancied him, but they must know, and plus in art, one of them asked if i fancied dan. i shook my head but i was smiling a bit so i guess they knew =( i'm really scared they'll tell him! he said he liked my drawing in art, and that it was better than his, and he kept touching my foot with his foot under the desk too. i'm real shy + ugly lol so i dont know what to do! id love to go out with him but i'm scared my friends would laugh. and plus he probably doesnt even like me =/ please help? thanks =) (link)
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Okay. On the part about being afraid your friends are going to tell him, I would say you tell them not to tell him and to keep your secret. Friends keep friends secrets and they should do that for you! Also on the part about being scared your friends would laugh. Your friends should support you in your relationships (from crushes to boyfriends) and you need to have them promise they won't make fun of you. Plus i doubt your ugly. You are beautiful just the way you are :) and have a little more faith in yourself. I hope this helped, and Good Luck!
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Eyyy. 14/F. So me and my bf have been togheter for a month and a few weeks. I love him a lot. But I also love my friend. He is kind and he plan to kiss me ( my friend) me and my bf havend kiSsed yet!.....* I need help..* what should I do? (link)
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Well you should have sometime to think it over. Your friend should not think about kissing you if you are in a relationship right now. I would try making a list of traits you like in both of them. Think about if you can see a future with them, and if not how come? And you didn't say how long you and your boyfriend where dating. Sometimes it takes couples longer than others to kiss, some it takes less time. You need to pick, I hope this helped. Good Luck!
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Hi :). 14/F. So I like this guy and I think he likes me 2...* • I asked him if I could have his jersy and he gave it to me • He's allways touching my hand by mistaked. • He just want to hit any guy who hirts me. • He names me baby* • We talk like non-stop..* he allways writes me letters. • His frends and my friends says he likes me!* • He's allways around me and sits with us at break. • His friends asked him if he was going to kiss me and then he smiled* but do you think he likes me?* anD iF he doEs what do I do ? Because he seems very shy?* THX!* :) (link)
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He totally likes you! A big sign is that his friends say he likes you. If he's always around you and 'mistakenly'touching your hand he must like you. If he flirts with you flirt back! But if he's shy like you say he is, take it very lightly at first. Good luck I hope this helped!
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I like this boy and I was wondering how can i make him figure out that I like him please help.? (link)
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You could just come out and say you like him. But if you don't have the guts to do that right now that is totally understandable. If you don't want to tell him straight out you could trying just talking to him a little more, give him a light compliment(make sure it's not to heavy or you do it much cause that might scare him away!)and just be friendly at first. You could flirt but make sure to tread lightly! Good luck I hope this helped!
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There was this really hot dude at camp and he would always give me this really cute smile and he would keep looking at me like he was intrested....my friend asked him if he liked me but she said he said he doesnt know....maybe maybe not....but he constantly is making jokes and asking me to hang with him and his friends at the pool......but when i asked him if he liked me he said he doessnt know...and that it doesnt matter because camp was only a week but we arranged to got to camp at the same time next summer ......does it sounds like he likes me or is he just being friendly.....anyone with advice or experience please help!!!!!! (link)
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I think he may like you! All good strong relationships usually start off as friends first. So my first piece of advice would be to get closer. If you have anyway to contact him I would do so. Try to get closer and if possible hangout. If you don't have his number or can't contact him at camp next time ask him calmly for his number and try hanging out. Sometimes when a guy says I don't know when they are asked if they like a girl it could either mean they really don't know or they are just embarrassed or too shy to say something. Most likely embarrassed. Just be yourself and be friendly. If he seems to be flirting with you, flirt back lightly at first. I hope this helped and Good luck!
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Well im thirteen and ive lived in fayetteville my whole life but know im moving to kentucky....im not sad abot moving but i am worried about what people are gona be like there....ive never had problems with making new friends but theres a first for everything :( (link)
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I think you will be fine. This is your first time moving, and it's perfectly normal to feel a little nervous. If you have been good at making friends before, it won't stop just because you're moving. Just be friendly and yourself and you will be fine!
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