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inlove WitH 2 GuyS
Eyyy. 14/F. So me and my bf have been togheter for a month and a few weeks. I love him a lot. But I also love my friend. He is kind and he plan to kiss me ( my friend) me and my bf havend kiSsed yet!.....* I need help..* what should I do?
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Well you should have sometime to think it over. Your friend should not think about kissing you if you are in a relationship right now. I would try making a list of traits you like in both of them. Think about if you can see a future with them, and if not how come? And you didn't say how long you and your boyfriend where dating. Sometimes it takes couples longer than others to kiss, some it takes less time. You need to pick, I hope this helped. Good Luck!
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Well,I think that you should give yourself time away from the both of them to think it over.Ask yourself such questions as : Which one do I like more?Which one do I love?Why do I love him? Could I see myself in the future with him?If not,why not?
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The purpose of dating is to learn from dating relationships. You learn what you like and don't like in a guy so you can make best decision when you're older as to who you marry or make your long term mate. You haven't had any amount of time with either guy to be able to learn anything from either one. So far you basing your decisions on how you feel when they are around and their looks. At your age btw, relationships last an average of 5-6 months. So when one relationship, ends, you go on to the next.
And what do you need to learn and experience for adult relationships?
1. Does he say I love you, you're awesome, I adore you or something of the sort
2 Does he make you a priority in his life. Guys have several priorities and will never single out a gal to be the only one. School and a job might be the others. So You must be a priority just not the only one
3 Does he tell his friends and family about you? Does he like to show you off? If he doesn't he's hiding something...either a fear of teasing, peer pressure or maybe another girl
4. What do your friends and family think of him? While you're looking thru rose colored glasses, they will be the best judge of his character, whether he will treat you right
5. Does he respect and encourage you?
And there is more when it progresses to a sexual intimacy too. There is plenty time to learn. No rush here. So date the one guy and tell the other you are dating right now but if you ever do break it off and he is still available and not dating at the time then go for it. Do not date two at once unless you have proposed the idea to both and they both are ok with it.
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Have you watched twlight its the same thing you are torn between two guys like bella was you have to choose who you want to be with.
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