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Crush at camp
There was this really hot dude at camp and he would always give me this really cute smile and he would keep looking at me like he was intrested....my friend asked him if he liked me but she said he said he doesnt know....maybe maybe not....but he constantly is making jokes and asking me to hang with him and his friends at the pool......but when i asked him if he liked me he said he doessnt know...and that it doesnt matter because camp was only a week but we arranged to got to camp at the same time next summer ......does it sounds like he likes me or is he just being friendly.....anyone with advice or experience please help!!!!!!
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He said he doesn't know if he likes you. So he most likely doesn't know if he likes you.
If he's shy and doesn't want to admit it, then he probably likes you.
Either way, if he does like you or doesn't know if he likes you then it's a good sign. He is interested in you though. He's most likely attracted to you and is just getting to know you.
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No body not even adults can know if somebody is going to end up liking them just because they looked at each other. Thats only initial attraction of being attracted to someones appearance.
First comes visual attraction. This does not let either person know yet if they will "like" the other.
Second comes approaching the person and starting up a conversation and seeing if it flows easily or you can't find things to talk about. At this point you decide whether or not to become friends...not a dating couple.
Third as friends you take time to get to know each other better and if you both decide you are not just attracted to their looks but their personality too, you both decide to be in a committed dating relationship.
Dating is more serious than friendship because now it is more intense as to what you are learning about each other because you spend alot more time together. Older people might begin living together at this point. There are some things easy to hide about a personality flaw in a friendship but once spending lots of time together it is easier to begin to see the flaws.
As a young person the goal in dating is to write a list or make a mental list of the flaws you wont tolerate in a guy and what things you do like about a guy. When either of you discover something about the other that is personally not good for you, you break it off and move on to the next to learn some new things.
Last step, dating can lead to making a life time commit to a person to love them and grow old together. Too many people skip some steps and thats how they run into trouble in relationships. Or once they discover they have no attraction to or nothing in common with, they don't leave the person.
It doesn't matter that you wont see him but a camp. Use this as an experience on how to approach and talk to a guy, nothing more. You may become FB buddies but he won't be a good prospect to go any further and become a real in person friend or dating prospect. Go for the learning opportunity. Right now you are at visual attraction stage. You can experience the conversation stage with him but nothing more.
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I think he may like you! All good strong relationships usually start off as friends first. So my first piece of advice would be to get closer. If you have anyway to contact him I would do so. Try to get closer and if possible hangout. If you don't have his number or can't contact him at camp next time ask him calmly for his number and try hanging out. Sometimes when a guy says I don't know when they are asked if they like a girl it could either mean they really don't know or they are just embarrassed or too shy to say something. Most likely embarrassed. Just be yourself and be friendly. If he seems to be flirting with you, flirt back lightly at first. I hope this helped and Good luck!
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