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I am a hoe and a flirt. People say I am, so I must be, right?
So I've had a lot of boyfriends.
but with most of them, I've never done anything like sex or oral.
just kissing or making out.
some of them I didn't do anything.
and yeah. most of them I said yes to because I felt bad saying no :( others, because I actually liked them.
but I would always end my relationships. idk why.
A lot of people say I flirt with EVERY guy I talk to, which is not true.
like to me, I see them as a friend, but people think I'm flirting when I'm really not.
that's my personality. really giggly, funny, chill, likes to make people laugh (boy or girl) always smiling, jokester. you get the picture
so yeah.
I'm a freshmen.
I'm still a virgin & not planning to lose it anytime soon.
I've NEVER even seen you know, a penis in real life.
I've NEVER gotten or gave a hickie(s)
I don't let boys touch me or my butt or boobs or anything.
not even if they're my boyfriend.
but yet, a lot of people in middle school called me a hoe and that I flirt w/ everyone!
so since everyone is saying it, I guess I am.
so how do I stop being a hoe? or stop flirting w/ almost every guy I talk to?
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Hey! Im your age so i understand. Just watch what you say and you should be fine!
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You think because people say things about you it makes it true?
People are mean. If anyone calls you anything like that, it's most likely because they are jealous.
I have one friend who is really friendly with guys. When they talk to her, she'll be all giggly and laugh at anything they say. People don't really like her because she leads guys on.
You said a lot of people say you flirt with every guy you talk to, and said it wasn't true. But then you asked how to stop flirting with almost every guy you talk to.
So I'm confused. But if you do think you are flirting, you watch what you say and watch your body language. You don't want to lead guys on that you only see as friends.
Most people would say a hoe is someone who is a promiscuous woman. You haven't even had sex once, why would you believe it?
Honey, you can't be one of the girls who hear a rumor and automatically believes it.
People don't know you. They gossip, they spread rumors about lots of people, it doesn't mean it's true.
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Girl you are not a hoe...if you are then I must have been in High School and I was a virgin all the way until I was 19. You are just a very nice person who happens to attract a lot of guys....Nothing wrong with that. If you know what people are saying about you isn't true, that's all that matters. There is also your true friends who will believe you over what other people say about you. Sounds to me like those people are just jealous or just looking for trouble. Stay a virgin until you find the love of your life. It's very much worth time and wait and is unlike any feeling you will ever imagine. If you touch guys in a flirty way, avoid touching and or do side hugs to avoid giving out the wrong idea to the guy. Always mention that they are a good friend to let them know that you just wanna be friends...when guy's hear that coming from a girl that they like they get the idea and usually understand that you're not interested and just wanna be friends and they're usually cool with it, but not always. Anyways, if you have any other questions please feel free to ask me.
Sincerely, ASK-LACEY
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I have heard this onlin before and i belive this applies to here "Some people mistake being polite for flirting" I honestly don't think you are a "hoe" I am your age and to be honest you don't sound like one. Alo a big point of what you said is that you are stilla virgin. Good keep that, I am your age and I pan on staying a virgin for a LONG LONG time. And from what you've said is that you have respect for yourself. I'd say you are not a hoe, just beacuse you like to make guys and girls laugh. You are fine. I hope this helped or at least assured you. Good Luck :)
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Hello Lovely!(:
Your only a freshman, you have four years to turn this around! Dont be boy crazy, or your reputation will continue. No one likes the girl who always needs a guy! Your high school years will be miserable because no one wants to hangout with "the chick who cant keep her legs closed" or "the loose one" your name will be irrelevant to others and mean, ungodly things will be what you hear. We need more classy people in this world! Theres nothing wrong with being intimate with your boyfriend especially if you two have been together for a while! That’s natural, but don’t go throwing your cat at every guy that you think is attractive. Its not worth it. If your not a relationship type of person and just want maybe a one time thing that’s cool too, as long as you don’t make a habit of it. Hook up buddies are perfect, because its nothing serious! Its all just fun and its only ONE guy. So that does not make you a whore. Just watch out with what kind of people you talk to about that kind of thing: rumors happen fast and easy!
Basically: let me break it down
Tease: A girl who's all talk no action. Shows it off but never gives it up. Don’t be her shes annoying and no one likes her.
Skank: A step up from a tease, dresses kinda slutty, but has actually had some sexual experience. (not much, but enough to earn her the name)
Slut: A girl who is just plain trashy. Pretty much has a new hook up every weekend. Cleavage/ ass shots on facebook and every other social network
Whore: This is the worst, especially if you have been called this or have heard someone be called this and its not even true. This is a girl with ZERO class. All of the above^^ with the addition of actually sleeping around. Just dirty.
Stay classy and know your boundaries! but it is okay to have a little fun, but not too the point where your classified as any of these.
Sounds like the people your dealing with are pretty judgemental! As long as you have close friends that know whats true, dont worry about what other people think, lifes much easier when you dont care(:
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