Hi :). 14/F. So I like this guy and I think he likes me 2...* • I asked him if I could have his jersy and he gave it to me • He's allways touching my hand by mistaked. • He just want to hit any guy who hirts me. • He names me baby* • We talk like non-stop..* he allways writes me letters. • His frends and my friends says he likes me!* • He's allways around me and sits with us at break. • His friends asked him if he was going to kiss me and then he smiled* but do you think he likes me?* anD iF he doEs what do I do ? Because he seems very shy?* THX!* :)
kittenlover2000 answered Wednesday June 5 2013, 9:46 am: You've only asked this question because you know he likes you, and you want someone else to tell you because it will make you feel high.
As you already suspect, he does like you. Very Shy? I don't think his previous actions sound that way.
And it depends what you want to do. From the way you have remembered and bullet pointed EVERYTHING he has done, to the way you use the smiley faces, I'm guessing you want him to like you?
Ask him if he does? [ kittenlover2000's advice column | Ask kittenlover2000 A Question ]
Dragonflymagic answered Sunday June 2 2013, 8:13 pm: Of course he likes you!! I can see that from what you wrote. But I realize you need the reassurance that it is so.
How can you be sure? Easy! Think of a guy you have absolutely no interest in. In fact he kind of creeps you out. Now picture yourself asking him for his jersy and you find opportunities to accidently touch his hand, you talk non stop with him, you hate when other girls look at him, you hang around him, sit at break and maybe even walk home with him.
I'll bet you have a hard time seeing yourself doing that right? And why is that? Because you don't like him and are not attracted to him.. If he is the shy type, maybe he is content going at this slower pace. HIs friends know of his interest and figure that he is going to want to kiss you soon. The fact he smiled shows he likes that idea. If he is that shy, it might be a while before he makes the first move and kisses you. If you don't care who initiates the kiss, then there is no reason why you can not do that.
Wait for a time when you both have some privacy.
When two people are really attracted to each other, sometimes the intensity of what we see in each others eyes causes us to look away. When the gaze is held, we begin to be able to see things in the other persons eyes. Mainly the eyes seem to darken because the pupils dilate when a person is attracted to the other or sexually aroused. If you hold eye contact steady with him, you should be able to see this in him when the mood hits for kissing. And he should be able to see it in you as long as you are very close to him and keep eye contact. My example, a hot day and my shirt is sticking to me and i am pulling it away and fanning myself to cool down. I notice eyes on me and look around to notice my husband watching me and his pupils have dilated. He is thinking right then how beautiful and attractive I am. I might approach him and step into his arms to take advantage of the moment of this feeling of desire and we spend some time kissing and just hugging and holding each other. Start watching for the clues and try to hold eye contact longer. A guy who calls you baby and communicates lots and must hang around you is just the teeniest step away from adding kissing to that list. You kissing him first would not be a mistake at all. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
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