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Does this boy like me more than a friend
I only ever see him at my local starbucks
Also he seems quite a confident guy around his other workmates/friends that come in. But sometimes seems a bit shy/different when i'm around.
He does stare quite a lot for about 40secs at a time, should I stare back.
We also talk when ever we see each other but only about generally stuff/fav tv shows.
Also on two different occasions he gave me a compliment saying I was polite, I wasn't sure how to respond/was a bit shocked so just said thanks.
He's also made a point of remembering my coffee order, he's the only one there that has.
He talks to other girls that he knows who come in but he never stares at/flirts with them. only me.
I do like him
we both know each other's names
I know that he's single and has been for a few years.
I'm not the most confident person so really don't want to be the one to ask him out.
This started just before christmas I know people say that if he did like me he would have asked me out by know, but if he didn't like me why would he do the whole staring/flirting/acting different around me
ALSO I WENT THEIR AGAIN TONIGHT WITH MY PARENTS, WE SAT DOWN AND LIKE 30SECS LATER HE COMES OUT WITH TWO CUPS OF WATER AND OUR FREE WIFI PASSES AND SAYS OUR ORDER TO US AND THEN SAYS I'LL GO AND GET THE OTHER TO MAKE IT FOR YOU. BEFORE I'VE EVEN PAID, SO I GO INSIDE TO PAY AND HE HAS IT READY ON A TRAY AND EVERYTHING LIKE HE WAS GOING TO BRING IT OUT TO US.
ALSO I KNOW IT'S PART OF CUSTOMER SERVICE TO BE FRIENDLY, BUT ISN'T STARING AT SOMEONE FOR 40SECS AT A TIME AND MAKING THE POINT OF COMING OUT WITH THE WATER/WIFI PASSES AND CHECKING OUR ORDER BEING A BIT OVER FRIENDLY.
AS NORMALLY YOU JUST GO IN AND ORDER AND HAVE TO STAND AND WAIT FOR IT AS IT'S STARBUCKS.
ALSO THE OTHER STAFF ARE NICE/FRIENDLY BUT NONE OF THEM GO ABOVE AND BEYOND AND DO ALL THAT.
ALSO I'VE NEVER SEE HIM DO THAT WITH ANY OTHER CUSTOMERS. IT'S ALMOST LIKE HE WAS TRYING TO IMPRESS ME/MY PARENTS OR SOMETHING
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Yes he does, but of course that's exactly what you want to here.
I think it probably did just start of as customer service. The thing is, once you get that 'liking' thought into your head, you over analyse every little thing he does.
I think, to be blunt, if he doesn't make a move soon e.g: give you his number, then don't bother with him. Its harmless fun, but it could easily take over your life-and that's not fair on the people who're trying to have a decent coffee with you!
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Yes Honey, those are signs that he is very interested in you. Because you haven't given the right clues back yet he hasn't made any move. Some of the sweetest, nicest guys are the ones who are initially quiet and shy but warm up and become confident once they know you.
No matter how shy you are too, you need to do something. He is looking at you hoping you will look back and hold his gaze. Peoples eyes are friendlier when interested in you. If very attracted to, or sexually aroused, the eyes pupils will dilate making the eyes appear darker. You haven't stared back at him long enough for him to see your interest. At least at this level, its just interest. And he is working so he can not be anything other than an acquaintence. Seeing him regularly because he works there and you visit that location Starbucks does not make you friends but if one of you invites the other to get together away from where he works, you will at least have a chance to discover if you have enough in common to want to become friends in activities not connected to his job.
He also may be the type of guy who allows the female to make the first move. If you're too chicken to say anything to his face and in front of his co-workers, buy a notecard and in it say something about how you enjoy seeing him at Starbucks and it seems to you that he has a particular interest in you above other customers. So if he's really interested, here's my number, give me a call. Wait until he has handed you your drink, then slip him the envelope with his name on it and leave quickly if you don't want to wait to see his reaction if he opens it right away. Be sure to smile at him nicely and hold eye contact as you hand him the card.
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