Hey My name's gen. :] My goal in life is not to have an average of a 5 rating all the time.
I'm an overrall nice person, but when it comes to advice, I will be blunt if necessary. I will be harsh if necessary. Just because I can't stand being mean to someone but the fact that I don't know who you are, I can be mean with the answer if I want to. :)
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What makes you happy the most? (link)
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Photo albums. Looking back into memories that were too amazing to even explain.. My dad. My best friends. Friends in general. My boyfriend[who's also one of my bestfriends really]. Movies that make you think about life and makes you appreciate life more. Movies from my childhood. Dancing. Songs that make you think. Childhood songs like Aaron Carter.. Lmao.
A simple phone call can make me happy as well. =)
Hehehe. I guess a lot can make me happy..
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How can i get my boyfriend to kiss me? (link)
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You should go to your room, be alone, of course, and have The Little Mermaid's "Kiss The Girl" on. That should throw a big hint, hahaha! =)
Kidding. >_>
That'd be cute though :))
Hmm.. Just look into his eyes, he should
get the temptation or urge.
If he doesn't, then he's stupid.
And you should kiss the mofo yo'self :))))
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PS: I still think you should go with my first suggestion ;)
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Stories always seem to have happy ending, so why isn't real life the same?
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We are the authors of our life, babe.
We write in pen so we can't erase the mistakes.
Sure, we don't always get the most handsome prince. Or we may, not all look as beautiful as Cinderella, Jasmine, Ariel, or Belle. But that's the thing about reality, sweetie. Life's not fairytale. You can't always expect it to live up the expectations of a 5-star movie. Those movies are just there to help you escape the reality when you're in that movie theatre. You live in the life of the girl when you're in that movie theatre. But the second you step out, it's gone.
But it'd be boring as hell if everything was perfect all the time, too.. You HAVE to have some bad, so you can appreciate the good more, right? I dunno. Basically, life's shit too. Deal with it.
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If you had to go back in time and change one thing, if you HAD to, even if you have "no regrets" what would you change? (link)
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1) I'd wish I would tell the people I love, that I loved them. Every single person who meaned the least bit to me, I wish I could show them how much I really cared about them. Whenever I felt like saying "I love you" to anyone[especially in person], but didn't have the courage to say it, I wish I would have.
2)Stop people from doing things. Especially my mom. I wish I told her how I really felt, instead of keeping it bottled up inside.
3)To when my parents were together. Again, I wish I told them how I felt about the whole situation. It was so unfair, I don't even remember them telling me they were going to split..
I don't regret anything anymore.
But if I had the chance, there would be things I would change about the past. As much as I hate when people think about the past and the "shit" they went through.
Good question..
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If the world would be more openminded and more
apologetic then we would finally have peace for once? (link)
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I do think that if people were more open about things and less narrow-minded that the world would most defently be a better place. Without a doubt, it would be.
There would be less crimes overrall, less hate, less unecessary violence, less anger.
But nonetheless, you can't change the mind of every person in the world in one day. A lot of people can't help the way they think. Think about it. Gays say they didn't CHOOSE to be gay. You don't get to CHOOSE your skin color/gender either. At the same time, some people can't CHOOSE to be homophobic, racist, sexist, etc. It goes both ways, honestly. People are ignorant, needy, selfish, and hateful. We have wars. Apologies can mean the world to one person, but not necessarily all. Apologies can only go so far.. I don't think the world will ever reach world peace, however. I love saying "anythings possible" but world peace? Seems highly impossible with the way everything is. Meh..
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Would you rather be told the truth that could potentially destroy your life and change everything you know, or a lie that would save you from the truths?
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I'd rather be told the ugly truth than a pretty lie. You can fix things with the truth, or at least attempt to.
When you tell the smallest lie, it has the potential to build into the biggest lie and it'll just fuck you over in the end. I've learned this from others mistakes. And kindof my own. People will ALWAYS find out the lie in the end [Unless youre a damn good liar.] and it'll really just end up hurting the person more. It's a horrible feeling knowing you have been lied to. It just feels like you're not even worthy of the truth.
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whats the point of letting someone in your life if they just gonna walk out of your life eventually? why do people always have to leave? (link)
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Fuck them.
Forget them and move on.
I'm sorry but if people leave your life, then it's not your fault, it's theirs. Don't be so hung up over "losing" them because then you're just hurting yourself. Don't be angry with them or anything, you've probably had a lot of good times, and those are the things you can look back on. :) But don't mourn over them like your dead puppy. It was their decision to leave.
"It's not that we're losing friends, it's just that now, we're finding out who our real friends are."
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do they have clubbing for teeagers? (link)
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Uhhh, they should.
We have clubs that dedicate their night to Teens.
"Teen Nights" if you will.
Just look some up around your area and see if you can find anyy.
Usually the ages conclude from 14-17.
GOOODDLUCCCCK
They can be tons of fun^_^
Just don't take drinks from strangers!
There's a difference from a 14yearoldboy and a 17yearold boy.
17 year old boys can get drugs easier and he may pop one in yo draaaank. =)
SO YAH.
Go with friends and don't be stupid!=)
[[dressing in clothes that only cover your poonani and boobs and dancing up on everyguy on the dance floor is just asking to be a target]]
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Ok Well a long time aog I knwo the sun was goign to go away and we would all die but that was goign to be way after I die so I guess it's ok but now there's news that we could all die in..i think 2012? Cuz of sun rays?
Now I'm scared and going crazy with WHAT IF..
Like the little children! So many of my relatives has little babies and now..omg I'm just so scared and going crazy.. and thinking stuff liek will it be a quick death or a slow death where we'll all burn?
Please help me I don't know how yet I can't even type all the things I'm feeling! (link)
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Wtf. God isn't your judge, lmao. If you believe in God, fine, but stop freaking preaching to everyone else about him.
I say relax and just party until 2012! WOO!
:))
Jk. I doubt we're gunna die, babe.
CHILLLLLLLLL the f out. =)
Go eat some baked hot cheetos
They make the world go 'round^_^
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heyy my friend has a problem
She is 15 & is crazy about her brothers best friend who is 16/17.
They have kissed at partys and her brother doesn't know about it but her brother knows that she likes him and has said that hes not letting them go out.
Her brothers best friend has said that he would go out with her if it wasnt for her brother but that her brothers friendship comes before any girl, so as long as her brother disapproves he will not go out with her, even though he has already kissed her behind his back.
She doesnt understand like where she stands and she cant get over him because she knows he feels something for her..
And her brother has sed that if they did go out he would hurt his friend.. i wont go into it but she would feel awful for ruining their friendship and getting him hurt..
She is getting really worked up about it and i dont know what to suggest.. any ideas??
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Well, think of it from the brother's point of view. Honestly, his best friend is going to be coming to his house not for the brother anymore, but for the 15 year old sister. Their friendship most probably WILL change. It's not so much that he would want it to change, it just will. Unless they TRY to keep the friendship solid.
But ask the brother if that's the situation. Maybe they can work something out, right? BLEH. Basically, just ask what's the brother's worry. And try to get the brother to look at his sister and bestfriend's point of view as well.
There are 2 sides to every story.
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what does it feel like to be in love? theres one kid who i cannot stop thinking about for anything and when i think about him sometimes i wanna throw up i feel literally sick to my stomach when im not with him and i cant stop smiling when im with him and hes such a sweetheart and idkkk i pretty much think i am but like is it possible to fall in love with someone within a 6 day spann? cause ive talked to him for like a month and ive always kinda liked him but we have been hanging out for the past 5 days straight and i realize how much i like him and when im away from him, all i wanna do is be with him i mean i think its pretty self-explanatory but does this sounds like love? (link)
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To me, it just sounds a major crush.
JUST a crush though.
A major one, at that.
It takes two to be actually IN love.
And so far, you haven't mentioned a thing about how he feels, if he has said anything or whatnot.
When you do fall in love though, you don't question it. You don't ask others if you are. You know when you're in love..And there's no way to explain it either. It's more than just words, they're feelings. Strong emotions that only you and your significant other can feel.
But honestly, 6 days isn't that long, babe.
Loll.. Just take it slow and hangout with him more. No need to rush the process, now!
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Ok I'm a guy and am about 15. I have a twin sister. Latley though i think she has been "watching me". In the shower, i would notice her head in the doorway, and i don't think she knew i saw her. Also whenever i change she always seems to be coming in my room. Also she knows i sleep naked and lock my door at night, but i woke up with her watching me!!! What do i do..should i tell my parents or confront her or just leave it alone? help me my sis is creeping me out (link)
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Okay, that IS very.. very.. VERY creepy as hell. O_o
Before going to the 'rents, confront your sister about it. Because it really doesn't sound like a coincedence. And see what's up, because waking up to her WATCHING you. Especially if you lock your door, how is that supposed to happen? O_o Uhh.. Yeah. Odd. After you talk to her about it, if she keeps doing it, THEN talk the parents and see whats up.
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So ive been with this amazing guy for almost 5 months. Our 5th month together, I'm going to go on vacation but when .. I come back he's going to make it up to me.
He basically said like.. I could give him all the blowjobs I want.. How is that a present for me? I mean I've gave him like 3 presents so far, and I've gotten nothing. Not a little card either. yes, i like giving blowjobs but ugh.. was that wrong for him to say that?
I was expecting a day out with him.. Something fun.. but.. no.. (link)
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Uhh, babe. From my point of view, it just seems like the boys using you for his pleasure and HIS needs. If you've already given him 3 presents, then WHAT ELSE SHOULD HE POSSIBLY WANT?
What a boyfriend.
He doesn't sound so "amazing" to me.
'Cause basically it sounds like ya'lls conversations go like this:
Girl: What do you want for our 5month, baby?
Boy: BJ'S! You can give me all that you want for free!
UHHHH.
I say stop shopping for your 5month and start shopping for a new boyfriend.
Sorry if that's not the answer you wanted, but it's the truth.
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my teeth are like yellow, & I brush them 4 times a day& floss& use whiting mouth wash, how can I make them white? (link)
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USE CREST WHITENING STRIPS.
But since you're doing ALL brushing/flossing/etc, then I suggest getting a professional.
Get them whitened at the dentist's.
It costs quite a bit, but I heard it works well =)
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Hi i was wondering how to go up to a girl like in the mall.like what to say.and how to find out if their single or not..please help me
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USE A NON-SEXUAL PICKUP LINE =)
One that compliments the girl in a cute way^_^
Who cares if its corny, its something that gives you a purpose to go up to teh girl and break the ice. I personally, woulda dated any guy who used a pickup line on me =) Not anymore due to the fact I have a boyfriend but yeahh.
DO IT DO IT!
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Is there any good way to deal with feelings of embarassment? When something embarassing happens to me, everytime I think about it even weeks after it happens it just kills me. I feel terrible about myself. (link)
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LOL, I used to be that way too!
Like if I said something stupid, I'd still think about it a week after.
Anyways, what I do is look at it from another person's point of view. For example, when someone else does something embarrasing, you forget about a couple seconds after, right? Same thing with other people and your embarrasing moment! They'll forget about it as soon as you change the subject.
Dont worry about it, babe!
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i want to be really skinny, and nothing will work! so i decided to be anorexic, how do i become anorexic? like, how do i start, i know that ussually it an illness but it just seems easey! please help! :D (link)
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Hahaha, what the fuck. Anorexia is when you starve yourself, basically. And that's fucking gross when all you see is skin and bone on a person, get a brain. You'll look nasty as hell and most guys I know tell me they wouldn't date a girl THAT skinny. O_o
And your statement, "and nothing will work!" is a false one.
JUST GET OFF YOUR ASS AND EXCERSISE.
EAT SOME FUCKING VEGGIES AND FRUITS.
AND DONT EAT JUNK.
ITS REALLY FUCKING SIMPLE.
Ohhhmmyyygodddd. Get a life. O_o
Sorry.
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polo shirts with aligators on them..what does it mean? where are they from? is the store expensive? (link)
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They're from Lacoste.
Yes, the store's expensive for most.
Unless you can afford $60+ dollar shirts everyday.
Over here, it's still kinda popular.
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Hi, I am david and i am from india, aged 25 years, i have a huge pain my butt from last 2 months, whenever i sit in my desk i feel a lot of pain in my butt cheeks and side of it,i feel like doing suicide, please help with this pain, i am very depressed. (link)
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Just go to a doctor and see what's going on.
As for the suicidal situation, fuck that.
Don't kill yourself over that.
That's the biggest piece of horseshit I've ever heard.
How would that look on a suicidal note, "I've decided to kill myself today because my butt cheeks hurt."
Yeahhhh. People will love to remember you by that.. >_>
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My best friend and I are going on a secret road trip this week. I am calling in sick to summer school and telling my parents I'm just hanging out at my friends house after school. I'm going to pick up my best friend and we're going to drive from San Diego to LA and we are going to do random stuff. I know it's not much of a road trip since it's 3 hours away but we have a lot of fun ideas. The point of this trip is just to get away from it all...and for one day, no one will know where we truly are. It's like an escape.
So...
please give me advice about making this foll-proof
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if you have any ideas of what fun random things we should do on our adventure, TELL ME!
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OHMYGODDDD, that sounds tight as hell :)
I don't really have any amazing advice for this, because it sounds like you already have it full-proof. Lol, but make sure to have your cell on you at ALL TIMES just in case your parents call. I know that sounds obvious, but take it from someone who knows O_O Lol
And Ive never been to LA, unfortunatly either.so no advice there but I really just wanted to say have a KICKKKKKASSSTIMEE!!!! and make sure not to worry too much about getting caught, because that will defently stop you from enjoying the ride/ having fun!
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