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So ive been with this amazing guy for almost 5 months. Our 5th month together, I'm going to go on vacation but when .. I come back he's going to make it up to me.
He basically said like.. I could give him all the blowjobs I want.. How is that a present for me? I mean I've gave him like 3 presents so far, and I've gotten nothing. Not a little card either. yes, i like giving blowjobs but ugh.. was that wrong for him to say that?
I was expecting a day out with him.. Something fun.. but.. no..
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Don't date someone who considers that to be a present for you. It's clear that he's only using you for his own pleasure & is not emotionally involved in your relationship. I really wouldn't consider this guy to be "amazing." Have respect for yourself & find someone who treats you right. I can guarantee you that once you find that person, you will NEVER look at guys like that again. I hope you are smart young lady to realize that you deserve better.
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Uhh, babe. From my point of view, it just seems like the boys using you for his pleasure and HIS needs. If you've already given him 3 presents, then WHAT ELSE SHOULD HE POSSIBLY WANT?
What a boyfriend.
He doesn't sound so "amazing" to me.
'Cause basically it sounds like ya'lls conversations go like this:
Girl: What do you want for our 5month, baby?
Boy: BJ'S! You can give me all that you want for free!
UHHHH.
I say stop shopping for your 5month and start shopping for a new boyfriend.
Sorry if that's not the answer you wanted, but it's the truth.
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i know this really isn't what you want to hear but i agree with Jack. from what you said here, he seems like a jerk just using you for blowjobs. it's perfectly fine if you like giving blowjobs but most guys like it 10 times more than the girl, so he probably wants you to think he's doing it for you, but he's really doing it for himself. i think he's not worth your time and you should get rid of him and make him find someone else to give him blowjobs. sorry.
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He's obviously using you for blowjobs. He's a shallow guy that just wants you for pleasure. He's not in the relationship for the good feelings he should get from just being with you. And yes, that was very wrong of him to say. I suggest finding a better, less shallow boyfriend.
--Jack
(15/m)
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