Ilove to help people with their problems, I uusally am good with female problems, but SOME men problems I can handle, like if it's a medical problem for males... I really can't help you in that category, but if it's like relation ship problems and stuff like that then I would be one of the best people to ask!
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Alright, so.. i have been going out with my boyfriend for almost 8 months now, and i still cant get over the fact of some of the girls that are his friends. They are much much more prettier than i am, and i just think they like him and they ALWAYS flirt with him and i get really pissed off and i want to like kill them (not literally i just feel that way). How can i stop being so jealous? (link)
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try and not think about it, ignore them, their just jealous of you for being his gf! ignore them, they'r trying to get your jealous enough so that it causes a fight between u and ur bf and you never see eachother again, that way they get a chance
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We have to do a project about three of our friends. At first I was thinking "Oh I know who to put", but then my teacher said one needs to be a boy. (im a girl FYI lol) So I have no friends that are guys. There is this one guy I talk to online but he lives in New Hamshire so I don't consider that a friend, plus people wouldn't know who he was. So this project is due in about a month. What do you think I should do for this situation? Any answers are good for me. THANK YOU :D (link)
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ask your teacher if online friends count. or write about a cousin that is a boy and how you hang out together it feels like a frindship. ask her all that is acceptable. and tell her you hae no guy friends
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i asked for advice before. but i only got one response... please some more?
okay.i am a 15 year old sophmore and i have this friend who is a guy. we are really basically best friends since kindergarden. in kindergarden i would kiss him everyday and i considered him my "boyfriend", lol. but ever since 8th grade i have had feelings for him that i would consider more than a friend feeling. i never said anything in 8th grade because one of my bestfriends liked him for a while. but then in freshman year she no longer liked him anymore. and towards the end of the school year he actually had the same feeling for me. but it turned out to not work out because he said it was like a week untill summer vacation and i wouldnt really see him that often and he didnt want to ruin our friendship because we have a great one. but this year i had the feeling that he still liked me because he would flirt with me all the time. but then he is now dating another girl who i really do not believe things will work out with. but my question is that do you think i should tell him my feelings toward him? im not sure because he is dating a girl who he seems to like but i really want to let him know how i feel. and the girl he is dating is one of my semi-good friends too so i wouldnt want to hurt her either. but i dont know. i just want to know if there is a chance of us ever being together. but i dont know how i would talk to him about this. i need advice on what i would say. or the fact that i should even say anything at all. im just so confused.
+ today he was flirting majorly with me.
it would be greatly apprciated if someone would give me some advice on this. it means alot to me.
thanks,
juliaaaa (link)
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you should tell him how you feel and that you REALLY want to be with him. and that you don't think the other girl is right for him. and that you are. and if it still doesn't work, get over him. there's many more fish in the sea.
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Okay who has read this.
Its coming out on a movie and I just ordered the book when I found this - 'These two make love in Chloe's apartment, Oscar's father's house, Bradley's house, and even on the 50-yard line of a football field, and they describe it all in graphic detail. ' Great, I sure hope my mom who BOUGHT the book doesn't want to read it or will ever see it. so yeah if you've read it can you please tell me how graphic is graphic? (link)
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being too grafic is describing the way they did it aand being VERY discriptive about it. a little graphic is saying "oh we made love and it was grate" that's ok. what is the book/movie rating? if it is rated MA then it would be a little too graphic, rated R is OK but it shows a little graphic but not as badly as MA.
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Should it be a red flag if your bf was calm one minute and then the next he was flying of the handle? My bf for no reason a couple of nights ago just yelled "you're not listening to me"! Another time he stuck his face in mine and yelled "I'm SO sorry". This is because I told him I wanted to leave a party that his friends were being jerks at. It kind of scares me how he can switch from charming to beast like that. He lately has been critzizing everything I do and making me feel like crap. In the beginning he was so polite and charming and sensitive that's what made me fall in love with him. But now I'm mostly seeing a monster. I've heard stories about how he treated some of his ex gf's. One said he was constantly calling her stupid and yelling at her too. What should I do? (link)
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I think you should suggest anger management courses to him, or tharipy, because his over reaction isn't normal. and if he yells at you about THAT you should break up with him. he isn't worth it
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i don't know why, but i get SO pissed off at my mom for just above anything. if she changes something on my computer i slam the door in her face and go to the bathroom and start crying. if she puts perfume on me and i didn't want to wear that perfume, i start crying and i feel like throwing and the perfume across the room and screaming to the top of my lungs. i don't know why. it's so incredibly stupid, but it gets me SO incredibly pissed off, it's not even funny. does anyone have anything to say that may be able to help me with this situation. i appreciate it and thank you (link)
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I'm not being mean but I think you should see a tharapist. because that isnt normal. or you can tell your mom what you don't like her doing that will get you angry. or start anger management
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hey i know it sounds stupid but wats moshing a frind of mines all like if ya cant dance lets just mosh(wer gunna go see a band) so can someone please pull me out the dark
as i have no ideawhat it is i put it in the closest catagory
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I think you should ask your friend what moshing is or ask someone to ask your friend for you if your too embarresed.
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14/f
ill just flat out say it. i cheated on my boyfriend. but here's the situation:
my boyfriend of 3 months and i are not allowed to see eachother at the moment. lets call him ian. he is 17 and i am 14. my mother doesnt approve, so we cant see eachother. before this mess started happening, we were having sex. dont prejudge us. back then we were both completely in love with eachother. now all we do is argue yet we're still together.
well i am in high school and he graduated last year. i met this one guy who i really liked. lets call him mike. mike and i kinda got caught up in the moment last night and had sex together.
right now i feel so bad about cheating on ian cuz i know he'll never forgive me. and i truely do love him. when we're together, its the best feeling in the world.
but my problem is, what should i do? i dont want to break up with ian and i dont want to tell him but i feel so bad. please dont call me a slut or a whore. please give me actual advice, i need it. (link)
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tell ian the truth and that you're extreemly sorry and didn't know what you were doing, tell him it will never happen again. tell mike that it was a mistake and that u 2 never should have done it. ian will find out sooner or later, better find out by you then by his friend or worse: mike
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im 13 female and i weigh 146 pounds. i really need help losing weight. im eating helthier but i dont know good workouts that work and burn the fat quickly plz help. (link)
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try the atkins diet, look it up on google. my dad went on it and he lost 60 pounds!!! try replacing soda and juice with water, try instead of brownies non fat chocolate pudding, instead of ice cream low fat frozen yogurt
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I just got my braces off three days ago and I've found that ever since, it really hurts my gums when I brush my teeth. I'm flossing now that I have no braces, and that doesn't hurt. But the brisles hurt very badly on my teeth. Why is this? What can I do to ease the pain? (link)
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it's tender at the moment, give it a few weeks, a month at the most and if it still sore then tell your mom
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help im only 14/m and like wen im like writing on white paper i see like strands of my hair on the paper and like if i shake my hair loads more hair will come out plz i think i mite go bald if it helps i use gel and fibre putty (together) my hairs not that long its like 7cm please tell me wat the problem is and how to make it go away :( (link)
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well here's an obvious hint: STOP USING THEM TOGETHER!!!! also it could be shedding, I shed hairs. sometimes you shed if ur stressed or your sick or nervous!
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Okey doke so I got a major sunburn on my whole face on saturday, and now it's peeling like crazy on my nose and forehead and it's really noticeable. And tomorrow is school picture day. Any ideas on how to stop the peeling, or at least make it better? And how to make it stop peeling quickly? Thankssss. (link)
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try aloe scrub!! the glear kind!!
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i like this guy but i just found out that my friend briana likes him 2 we already agreed that ewe would not fight over any boy but i need some advice 2 hook him i want 2 HOOK him and reel him in 2 me before he goes 2 her i want him > plez give advice (link)
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Tell him how you feel about him!!! tell him you really like him alot! it wouldn't hurt to tell him
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Theres this song that goes "You and I collide" and I think the name of it is "Collide," but who is the artist and where can I listen to the song, or watch the video if there is one? (link)
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go to youtube and type in "you and I collide music video" that should help
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17/f
alrighty so i was with this amazing guy like....amazing!! but i moved about 13 hours away *driving* and he said it can't work with us being so far away unless he comes out here for college or i go back there. i am completely hung up on him though! we've known eachother for 4 years and we were best friends too! he was my first kiss and real bf but it's so hard to try and make a long distance relationship work, even though we both care about each other a lot. *i'm nearly already part of his family. his parents are like my 2nd mom and dad, and his sis, who is 22, was already sayin i was her sis-in-law and stuff lol* i just don't know what to do and if there is any way that we can make things work!! help me please!! (link)
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usually long distance relationships don't work out. but if your that concerned about it ask if he'll try it for at least 3 weeks, and if it doesn't work out go your seperate ways. Remember if it doesn't work; you have to get over him, there are plenty more fish in the sea, you will find mr. perfect in no time!
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whats the song when the anne hathaway and her boyfriend are driving to east los angelos for the first time? its like a R&B song and i really want to know what it is...
and i cant look at the credits because i dont have the movie, i just saw it like once or twice.. (link)
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I would rent the movie and then look at the credits. what are the lyrics?
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http://profile.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=user.viewprofile&friendid=3605309
does anyone know how to get their hair like her waviness in her main picturee? (i know its private, sorry) THANKS SO MUCHH!! (link)
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haha, that would be a good question to ask your hair dresser!
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About 8 or 9 months ago, I revealed to a boy that I really like him...he said he didn't want to do anything to put our friendship at risk, so we didn't start a relationship...however, we eventually became intimate with eachother from time to time, (not the kind where I would lose my virginity, but still pretty intimate) so it's sort of evolved into a "friendship with bennefits" thing...I am still very much in love with this boy, and the more time I spend with him (intimate or not) I grow to love him even more. I'm not sure exactly how he feels about me, but I desperately want to move forward with him. I'm not sure what to do... (link)
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ask him how would this risk our friendship? make it clear that you really love him. tell him it would never ruin your friendship! you can still do things together while being an item, and if you break up you can still be friends, at least until after you've cooled down.
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I have been banned from a forum. Someone has reported me for something a friend and I didn't do and the adminstor won't talk to m or tel lme why he banned the both of us and all we did was go around asking people on myspace asking if a certain celebs myspace was legit meaning real. we done one bulltin about it and then I am hearing we were reported for things we didn't do to the forum administrator. which we are wondering what does that have to do with myspace? This is jist totally messaed up and we didn't do nothing, break any of the rules or anything and the administrator has been being a huge jerk to us lately. Is thre anyway I could report him and do something about him? Is thre anythign I could do to get back on the forum? I made some really cool friends on thre and there but I think all of them who I was friends with were the ones that reported us which sucks, but what does myspace have to do with this forum? The last post posted was about a friend being scammed and how she's getitng people to hackm etc and somee people wanted to know what scammers are. This was in the offtopic section. But there is no where in the rules saying that I can;'t say anyhing about scammers, etc. I haven't done anythign wrong though. Plus got booted from the actor's friends list that he runs which hes also being a jerk on to my friend and I. This sucks. Anyway Is there anying I can do about this? oh yeah. The forum mods tell me that I wasn't going to be banned and there was no news of me being banned. I was lied to by them. This really all sucks. thanks. (link)
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you could have been banned for harrassment. some people don't like to be bugged about stuff like that and by the drop of the hat they'll report you for harassing them. you might think its not but some people are so stubborn they really don't care.
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I'm homeschooled. Now, I'm in 9th grade. I have no homeschooled friends. Every single one of my friends are talking about going to homecoming. Is there a homecoming for homeschooled kids? What about prom?
I live in NC. Websites would help. Thanks! (link)
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yes, I believe there is. homeschool is different in many states! If you don't want to be homeschooled any longer then ask your mom,dad, gaurdian to please let you go back. before you do though think of 3 reasons it would help you to be in a regular school then in homeschool then insist on them letting you in regular school.
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