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more than a friend?


Question Posted Wednesday September 20 2006, 5:11 pm

i asked for advice before. but i only got one response... please some more?

okay.i am a 15 year old sophmore and i have this friend who is a guy. we are really basically best friends since kindergarden. in kindergarden i would kiss him everyday and i considered him my "boyfriend", lol. but ever since 8th grade i have had feelings for him that i would consider more than a friend feeling. i never said anything in 8th grade because one of my bestfriends liked him for a while. but then in freshman year she no longer liked him anymore. and towards the end of the school year he actually had the same feeling for me. but it turned out to not work out because he said it was like a week untill summer vacation and i wouldnt really see him that often and he didnt want to ruin our friendship because we have a great one. but this year i had the feeling that he still liked me because he would flirt with me all the time. but then he is now dating another girl who i really do not believe things will work out with. but my question is that do you think i should tell him my feelings toward him? im not sure because he is dating a girl who he seems to like but i really want to let him know how i feel. and the girl he is dating is one of my semi-good friends too so i wouldnt want to hurt her either. but i dont know. i just want to know if there is a chance of us ever being together. but i dont know how i would talk to him about this. i need advice on what i would say. or the fact that i should even say anything at all. im just so confused.

+ today he was flirting majorly with me.

it would be greatly apprciated if someone would give me some advice on this. it means alot to me.

thanks,
juliaaaa <3


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x0xqtpiex0 answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 11:50 pm:
i would tell him your feelings like the girl below me said
but dont say that you dont think his gf isnt good for him
that will make him feel like your trying to push her away from him
just tell him and be like
i just wanted you to hear it from me
and i dont wnt to mess up your love life at the moment
but i thought you had the right to no
hope i helped =]

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Geneva answered Wednesday September 20 2006, 11:16 pm:
you should tell him how you feel and that you REALLY want to be with him. and that you don't think the other girl is right for him. and that you are. and if it still doesn't work, get over him. there's many more fish in the sea.

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