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there is this guy that i see everyday and i like him alot. he is really nice and funny. he also constantly looks at me.whenever i talk, he always smiles...there was this one time when his friend was talking to him and he was looking right at me, i donno why but it was actually wierd.is there anything i can do to get his attention? i mean he already knows i exist, but i want him to actually talk to me. i really want to hook up with him, but i dont know how to get his attention without looking stupid. please help!!
p.s. im a 16/f...if it makes a difference (link)
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If he is to ever date you at all you have to get over this fear of talking to him. Make it is and introduce yourself and press your number, e-mail etc. into his hand and tell him to call you. If he never does you will now know not to waste more time on it.
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whats a hymen?? am i totally clueless cause i dont know?does like, everybody know? (link)
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It is skin at the vaginal opening that stretches when intercourse is attempted for the first time. It will be located at the opening of the vagina. Hope that helps. If you ever heard the expression "popped cherry" it refers to this.
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how can you tell if a guy likes you...i swim on a swim team with mostly guys and all of them stare at me...especially this one guy...is there anything boys do when they like a girl, cause these guys really confuse me sometimes and id like to know what their thinking!!! help!!! (link)
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I like people who are bold. I would say "I see you have met some of me. The rest of me is up here guys." and walk away. This gets them to stop looking at you like you were meat. As far as finding out who genuinely likes you...You will. The person is usually the one and only guy to try and talk to you after you leave or later on. Good tactic and excellent way to find out who likes your body verus you and a whole.
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my dog was 10 yrs old n he died yesterday n i cant stop crying wut do i do to get over this? he ment so much to me! we were bffs (link)
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Sorry to hear of your loss. It is best to remember the great times you had and the love your gave him/her. That bond is a tough one to seemingly lose but it is indeed forever there in lessons learned and taught.
You may not feel you need or want another dog at this time. That is fair enough and a dog will never replace the one you had. I think when all is said and done even humans as well as dogs know that love should be continually applied and that another dog deserves to start of life in a new home. I think that is what should happen another dog needs a home and new tricks to learn but when you are ready for it. I am positive your other dog would not mind knowing someone else deserves attention now.
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i have this pain behind my eyes and its like a headache but behind my eyes. It comes and goes all the time like sometimes it can be twice a week and then other times i can get it twice a month. sometimes i have to be sick because its that bad and have to sleep it off. I have no idea what it can be but i have been told i have a tiny perscription to wear glasses but that its that slight i probably won't even notice. (link)
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It is not normal and do not be alarmed by that statement. See a doctor tonight and explain what is going on and see if they can pinpoint an issue. If it's headaches that hurt as bad as those and soreness in the eyes it qualifies as an emergency and not something to try and sleep off. If you have trouble in emergency at the hospital get an eye doctor optomologist not the other kind to take a look. It matters not what the prescription for glasses said as things can develop after all that.
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when i have a tampon in for 6-6 1/2 hours is there any possibility of a leek? (link)
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Back when I learned about this 3 hours was the maximum someone threw a Tampax box at my head and said 4-8. That is fine, I do check my resources, I thought with the info I had circa 1992 I answered correctly. Who knew stuff changed. I am also guilty of being a guy who would never buy these for his girlfriend no matter what the circumstance. So me knowing this much info is even too much into the guys should not know all this much dept. We know enough to sympathsize with you and that's us.
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Okay.. Some friends and I decided we wanted Tattoos. So we used a needle and Permanent Marker to do them. We scratched/poked the skin a few layers deep.. just enuff to make it almost bleed. Then put layers of marker over the design we carved into ourselves.
Will these Tattoos stay on .. and for how long will they be there? (link)
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It is amazing the stupid stuff guys will do together when three out of four of them know it is stupid but still partake to appease the first one who is the genuine fool. Think for a moment you are sitting around a room and someoe asks tell us a story about the biggest idiot for a friend you have. If you pause for more than a moment and cannot remember any names congrats, you are the idiot in this case.
The marker will fade eventually so your stupid drawings of Santa Claus or drunken artwork does not stay on. If a scar forms at least it is not an emotional or mental one for doing what a lot of drunk people (though most shops stop them) getting a tattoo or piercing do under the influence of drugs and booze. Thank your lucky stars it never amounted to the real thing you cannot easily erase.
Do yourself a favor visit a real Tattoo shop when nut busy and have them explain tattoos and how painful those are and piercings are to smarten yourselves up on the topic and educate one another.
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Last night my boyfriend fingered me. I really uncomfortable with it at first, but I just thought what the heck and was okay with it. At first he only did one finger, then he tried two. When it was only one finger it was alright, pleasurable in some ways, but when he got two fingers in it becaome quite uncomfortable. It hurt a whole lot. I started wincing and became all tense. I think that he got the wrong impression and though I was liking it, but I wasn't it hurt terribly. I don't know what to do because I know he'll try two fingers again next time. It's not supposed to be comfortable like that, is it? Why was it go painful? (link)
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The answers below are good ones. They leave out a critical part though that neither he nor you thought of. Just ramming one's fingers up there and expecting for pleaure is not going to happen. Trying just to put two fingers in a vagina that is not lubricated and wet is asking for pain. How else are they supposed to slip in comfortably and feel comfortable let alone pleasueable? Think about it and no wonder ouch would be a word of choice let alone the F sharp note.
Most females not all prefer clitorial stimulation then this as no pain is involved in that. Tell him how much certain things hurt or he will have no idea at all and keep doing them. He's not a woman or a girl so you better teach him about your body and what hurts fast or he will keep probing around and wonder why you are wincing and not enjoying yourself.
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We have been together for 6 months and had a good sex life, but lately I have to initiate sex and often get rejected. My partner did make the comment that he has issues with my weight, which hurt me, but his loss of libido has been an issue that he has had before with other partners so I'm trying not to take it personally. This is very hard and find myself often getting very upset that he doesn't fancy me.
He has type 1 diabetes but was masturbating regularly before so he doesn't seem to be suffering from a sexual dysfunction, it also hurts that he masturbates, but doesn't want to have sex with me. We are very affectionate and loving couple in other ways and love each other very much. I'm finding it very hard to bolster my self esteem in this situation though, which is exacerbating the problem. I sometimes feel like running away then sorting out the problems. I hate that I'm feeling rejected and needy of him.
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It is not you and it is not him. He has mental issues and a mindblock when it comes to sex period. For some reason he can love you etc. and be fine but actual sex is turning him off and or making him not want it. You both have to have him see someone and discuss this or it will ruin your relationship.
Masturbating and sex are totally different. While sexual acts it does not involve a partner and perhaps what his fear is of is a partner and not knowing how to respond sexually. He has a mental block there and it has to come out sooner or later why. Again, not your problem, do not run away, you can resolve it with honesty. None of this means he is gay but it could be the remote reason. Something is going on upstairs for him to have no interest.
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me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and things have been going great and since i can only see him once a month it has been hard. school has started and so has the girls hitting on him again and his ex tryin to be all over him. but any how for the past 3 days (school started on tusday for him) he has been spend A LOT of time at the mall or at the store doing soemthing. i dont know with who or anything just that when i call he says he will call me back and NEVER does so yesterday i called back and he said 7 words hi i will call you back later.. i was like ok bye and hung up on him yesterday i only talked to him for 30 minutes the day before that to. i am scared that he found soemone else and since i am not around him all the time idk what is happening?? i want to talk to him about it but idk what to say i love him and dont want to loose him.. any advice??
love always,
sad hearted girl (link)
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I saw your feedback slip. One thing I cannot find is how to hit reply. Anyways, I would guess you would see this. I would in fact lay off of him and let him go to the mall. For some people they have different things they do that rid them of stress. For him this is it and after getting home at 5 p.m. he just wants to be left alone and the mall does that for him.
What does this mean for you? Get a job at the damn mall ;) Kidding. What it means is just let him do this for a few days--let him call you- and it will be fine.
When he calls metnion to him you would like him to
devote most of his weekends to you and he can fall in love with the Best Buy mascot Monday to Friday.
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For my sweet sixteen im throwing a party and the theme is Willy Wonka/Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, I was wondering if anyone had some ideas for decorations thanks.....by the way its @ a hall so its kind of in a big place, and I dont want the stuff to big too expensive cuz im paying for the decorations myself....thanks again (link)
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Instead of blowing a ton of money on something like that why not use modest party favors and leave it at that. The money you were going to spend can be given to something related to the movie you never, ever thought of. Have some decorations like place settings and streamer set but try this.
Charlie and The Chocolate Factory has a ton of hidden messages and in my day job being a movie critic I know what some of them are. Tim Burton as are 80% of directors and actors are mentally ill with Bipolar Disorder. It is the precurser to brilliance and Tim knows it. Why was he attracted to directing this movie?
Willy Wonka himself is a metaphor for BiPolar people with manic delusion, mood swings, being unstable and maybe frightening to those who do not see his torment etc. Tons of mental illness riffs in this movie it is incredible. Why not donate money to the Mental Health Association as I hate to tell you 1 in 10 of your party guests will have to deal with BiPolar or something themselves on in family by 2010. See this here http://www.geocities.com/coverbridge2k/artsci/famous_people_depression.html
Not that you really care but I think it is better
to donate money wasted on decorations that get
thrown out anyways is better. The movie also has
a ton of religious undertones about good deeds,
purity, and think about it all but Charlie and Grandpa practice at least one of those biblical 7 deadly sins. Wait til Chronicles of Narnia comes out all the religious talk in it undertoned will
cause some kind of flap.
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so i have a birthmark on my penis, and its not huge or anything, but its noticeable. would girls get freaked out if they saw it? and how would you go about removing one at a doctor or something?
thanks
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I just heard from the person who wrote the original question. Why be self concious? Nobody looks like a Playboy model when it comes to women or in women's eyes a Playgirl model anyway. A small mark on your private parts will not kill you or her from embarassment. I will tell you she's 10-20 times more
worried than you about being all you ever wanted or be compared to someone else who looked better, did it better etc to give a shit!
Also, kidding sort of and hinting other area, having seen that damn mark and touch that area of your body more times then you are to count wouldn't you be used to this thing by now? Think about it. There's no reason to worry it's like glasses on someone's face. Why worry? You cannot fix it and cannot get it removed. Likely, it's a circumcision scar they
can look like that. If there's scrunched up skin that remains near the head or on the shaft that's where it was cut from with excess skin and birthmark kind of thing happening.
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ok so i just started cross country today and it is so hard. ive done track for 3 years but that was nothing compared to this. for 3 hours we just ran! we did about 5 miles. i came in 2nd to last/tied for last every time! ive never been fast but my track coach told me i should give cross country a try. it was SO inspiring and it makes me feel REALLY good but i felt like i was going to throw up the entire time and when we compete against other schools, theres just no way really! should i drop out now before its really a commitment and do winter and/or spring track or should i keep it up and hope/pray to get better?
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I believe you should never quit to a fault. When it comes to your health though and physical signs your body cannot take this or you are almost vomiting it is not right. What the hell is this coach thinking? Three hours of this and sweating in heat without drinks from what you tell me is not right and some parent ought to protest. I am serious, we hear of kids and teens collapsing and in some cases dying because of this 3 hour push for this and that bullcrap from coaches who do not see how dangerous this scenario is especially for lesser or non-conditioned folk.
My advice back out of this one and no matter what if you cannot take three hours flipping say so as should your friends and everyone QUIT ON HIM when tired and get drinks. Be vocal each one of you and you can actually tell a teacher, prof, coach NO when you feel you cannot do something and if an explanation is needed explain but nobody come detention or not can force you to push yourself or health to the breaking point for a stupid race or
athletic class. Either drop them as a course or drop them in public when you feel people have had enough and need water.
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Over the summer I lost about 10 lbs. And considering I was only 150 lbs to begin with, I'm now extreamly thin. I didn't lose the weight on purpose, I was just sick of like 3 weeks and I couldnt eat much at all. Well I really need to gain that weight back but the problem is that I'm a cheerleader so I'm constantly moving adn working out which obviously doesn't help with gaining weight. Does anyone know how I can gain it back? My coach just said that it will eventually come back on its own but I'm not sure if that's true. (link)
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Do not unless you have been told to buy a doctor drink anything meant to put weight on. Some of that stuff is far more dangerous than losing weight too rapidly. Your coach is right that with good eating and healthy habits you will gain it back. For now though there is a lot of things in the way of gaining strength let alone health back.
He won't like this and perhaps you will not either. Tell him you need three good weeks where there is no practice, no dancing, no workouts, no cheers to put weight on and get strength back. How the hell can you do all that with losing strength and that much weight. Put it on hold. Health comes first and see your doctor for what you ought to do.
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my bf just broke up wiht me, and i am throwing up cuz of it, and i also can't breath wen im crying. what can i do to help? (link)
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The definition of purge is to get rid of. You are getting rid of everything here and being forced to start over on a new chapter, lessons learned, new page, new book. You have the choice. Do I sit here crying over something I cannot fix? No! Then get up, dust yourself off and realize you have to move on. Why let this ruin your health with vomiting spells? Stop it and start thinking of other things worth your time than all of that--even if you did like this guy.
If you keep vomiting over this guess where you end up? Sitting in an emergency room, an IV in your arm, ultrasounds, ant-acids, scopes in your stomach--all to figure out the cause of why you are vomiting.
You need to know another secret all kids, adults, teens should be taught. ANGER, RESENTMENT, BITTERNESS IS POSION NOT TO THEM BUT YOU. YOU ARE POSIONING YOURSELF AND HEALTH WITH IT. ALL OF THOSE THINGS ARE LIKE DRINKING A BATHTUB SEVERAL TIMES DAILY OF BLEACH. IT WILL AFFECT YOU MENTALLY, PHYSICALLY, EMOTIONALLY AND CAN KILL. THE PERSON IT IS AIMED AT GETS OFF FREE--YOU HOWEVER SUFFER AS LONG AS YOU BLOODY WELL WANT UNTIL YOU REALIZE THE ABOVE.
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Hey!
A girl, who I thought was my best friend, just told me that she got drunk with this other girl who I dont like. I am totally against drinking and drugs and fooling around. This other girl who I dont like is named Brooke. Brooke and I used to be really good friends, but whenever Brooke hangs out with different people, besides me and Anne(the girl who got drunk,My "bestfriend") she is like a totally different person. Brooke has guys over and fools around, she steals make up and other items from stores. She cuses alot too. So does Anne. I also dont like cussing. The thing is, I still want to be friends with Anne for sure, but not so much Brooke, because we are all sophmores, but This has been going on with Brooke since the eighth grade. She is only my friend, and nice to me when it is convienent for her. Now Anne and I have known eachother for a long time, but then we were not friends during middle school. Anne is really a nice girl, but I dont like it that she likes to drink. And I am also concerned about what I tell my "bestfriend" because she could go and tell it to Brooke. What should I do about this? Im soo confused. I want to be friends with them both, but Im soo lost. I will NOT start to drink or fool around with guys. And I do not want to get into something that I cant get my self out of. I am totally happy with my boyfriend of over a year and 7months, and he does not drink or cuss either. we dont "fool around" either. What should I do?
If you need more info, please ask!
-Kelsey-
(I'll rate and leave feedback!!:) (link)
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The thing is if Anne wants to get wrecked and loaded every single night there is not a damn thing you can do to stop her with that or with drugs. You can talk all you want and get resented in the process. Instead, talk to a trusted adult, say I am concerned for Anne as I see her getting wasted all the time. etc. That may help force adult intervention. You however, cannot change addicts or those in over their heads like that.Regardless of who tries to help she either learns easily or learns harder.
Do you really want to be her friend or is this out of needing a friend period? If she does not want to be around you when it counts than forget it as it is too much effort on something one sided. If you want to be her friend tell her not to drink or be angry around you as that is not the person you want to be friends with and or friends with those who only want to be around when they want something. Put your foot down and leave it there.
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ok my boyfriend birthday is coming in 2 weeks he is turing 16. i have been with him for 3 months and i have an idea of what to get him but i dotn know if i should get more and which to get or both. i know he wants a hoodie which is 15 dollars at tillys (red) or either a 50 cent cd or tony yayo but i dont know if that is enough. i am also have a poem that i wrote and a picture of me to give to him.. do you guys think that would be enough?? and should i get the cd? if so which one? or the hoddie? thanks (link)
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I know full well a present is because you care and cannot always be near but you still miss the point. None of that stuff that is worth money will be remembered in the long run. Give him a poem if you wish and make a nice evening for him and yourself. That gets appreciated and remembered.
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Does toothpaste really work for your zits? If so, please, details would be appreciated. Thanks. (link)
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The pimple thing as I have never done may or may not be a myth. What is not a myth is the fact toothpaste can stop the itching from mosquito bites. Not knowing where you hail from I have no idea if you ever have seen or heard of black flies. These things if they are not in your area be thankful bite and take a piece of flesh out. I am not kidding. Toothpaste can to some extent make the pain go away.
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theres this guy name michael that i think is soo hot in my 4th block. we have talked a little before when we were put in groups but it wasnt one on one talking. i want to talk to him and get to know him more, but i odnt know how to just start talking. i would talk to him before class everyday but he doesnt get in until right when the bell is about to ring. any ideas? and what should i say? i dont want to look stupid just by walkin up and not having anything to say! lol (link)
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You need the comedic approach as it is memorable. Just remember the killer last line and pull it off when you walk away--it will work and make him remember oh Candace or Janet hmm--got this piece of paper from her. Be 27 I know this stuff works if
executed carefully.
"Hey, my name is Candace I see you alot in homeroom. "
Press into his hand your paper with phone number, address, e-mail address. Then shout the second line and walk away.
"Short of stalking me use those wisely, see ya around."
This guy will get the message, laugh in the right places, and call you up. A girl has to be bold and
memorable when vying for a boy's affection. At least you know with those lines he will ring you. A sly little grin after line 2 and get out of there unless he calls you back--in that case you're f--ked as I haven't got another line kid.
In that case, seriously just say call me later we will talk and get to no one another I am late for class that teacher is a real hardass.... and get out of there.
Good luck!
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My friend wants to become a model.Hes about 16-17 and male...living in Mechnicsville/Richmond Virginia.
If anyone could list any sites that have modeling agencies,or even better: modeling tryouts in Richmond,VA that would be great!
Thanks! ((I rate high for good answers)) (link)
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I answered this yesterday about acting. Web sites are for people they suck in and promise stuff to so you will pay and never get any calls. Never pay an acting, talent, or modelling agency anything. Do your home work here. Find the right agent by going through the Screen Actor's Guild and Unions for actors. They know who to hook up with for all of this. Avoid newspapers too and the pitch be a model, be in movies etc. Classic way to get scammed do not pay for headshots--anything. Too good to be true run away.
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