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since school started....
me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months and things have been going great and since i can only see him once a month it has been hard. school has started and so has the girls hitting on him again and his ex tryin to be all over him. but any how for the past 3 days (school started on tusday for him) he has been spend A LOT of time at the mall or at the store doing soemthing. i dont know with who or anything just that when i call he says he will call me back and NEVER does so yesterday i called back and he said 7 words hi i will call you back later.. i was like ok bye and hung up on him yesterday i only talked to him for 30 minutes the day before that to. i am scared that he found soemone else and since i am not around him all the time idk what is happening?? i want to talk to him about it but idk what to say i love him and dont want to loose him.. any advice??
love always,
sad hearted girl
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Dear Sad Hearted Girl,
You and your boyfriend needs o sit down and have a one on one talk. If he's been messing around with someone else then its time to breakup. Seeing eachother once a month is hard to keep the relaitonship going. Tell him how you feel and ask him whats up with him ignoring you.
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you should definently talk to him about this b/c that is the best method-talking. Just say that you are concerned because you and him have not been spending a lot of time together and it's really starting to bother you because you know that people get disinterested when they are not around their spouse...they my start to get attracted to other people, even though they dont do it on purpose. then just say that u really want him to tell you if he feels this way b/c you two can work something out... Basically just try to win his trust and make him feel that you understand if he's seeing someone else and so on. But dont jump the gun, this doesnt automatically mean that he's cheating on you. So be prepared for any answer
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I saw your feedback slip. One thing I cannot find is how to hit reply. Anyways, I would guess you would see this. I would in fact lay off of him and let him go to the mall. For some people they have different things they do that rid them of stress. For him this is it and after getting home at 5 p.m. he just wants to be left alone and the mall does that for him.
What does this mean for you? Get a job at the damn mall ;) Kidding. What it means is just let him do this for a few days--let him call you- and it will be fine.
When he calls metnion to him you would like him to
devote most of his weekends to you and he can fall in love with the Best Buy mascot Monday to Friday.
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aww that sucks...try seeing him and hanging out with him more...the next time you call him and he says to call you back later, tell him that its important and that you really need to talk to him then tell him how you feel ask him if everythings okay and if he wants to tell you anything and if he asks why tell him because your relationship doesnt feel like it used to and hes always telling you to call him back ask him if theres anything wrong if he doesnt mention any girl but he makes it so obvious that there is one then tell him straight up what you think is going on but dont like, give him the impression that he cant trust you because that'll def. make him mad just mention it if you really really think theres another girl, other than that, its probably because hes busy all the time with school and whatever he does but yeah talk to him fist dont assume unless its really obvious hope i helped! good luck!
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Just be like hey I haven't seen much of ya lately, whatcha been up to? It could very well be that he's stressing over school. Try not to be accusing though, guys hate that Best of luck.
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