okay.. there is this guy who ive known for about two years.. and we have always just been friends.. and yea... so i asked him to ride the bus home with me today so that i wont be all alone and he did.. and when we were on there... he asked me.. "will you giv me a chance? " and i laughed and was like.. no!! because i thought he was joking.. but he wasnt and he got all sad.. and he got off at the next stop.. and it wasnt even his.. but yeah.. i feel bad.. and i dont know what to do.. i mean.. he is really nice and i would HATE to hurt him.. but yea.. what do you think i should do tomorrow when i see him?
sorry it was so long.. ill rate.. because i really need help!
Apologize?? Do you like him? Go out with him if you do.
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I'm 15 year old girl. I dunno what I want anymore. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 and a half months 2 weeks ago. And I cried 3 days afterwards. And my mom kept telling me that if I was so upset and depressed.. I should go call him and get him back.. Then I was talking to my best friend and she said she did that too when she broke up with her boyfriend.. But the thing is.. EVERYONE hates him. They think he's annoying. Sure, he says he's sorry way to much.. and repeats himself a billion times.. But when I was with him.. and no one else.. I was happy.. So happy.. :sighs: And then whenever we were at a party or something. We'd drift away and I'd go with my friends and him with his.. But then sometimes we'd see each other, exchange some "I love you"'s and stuff and we'd be set for another hour or 3.. Then there were times when I was kinda embarassed to be around him.. I'm more shy and timid but he's so loud and random.. I mean.. I'm random too.. When I'm hyper, but it's different somehow. And I saw him for the first time yesterday and I wanted to jump on him and cling to him or something. XD Because I miss him.. A lot. I don't wanna change him but I just want everyone to like him.. And it's so hard when your best friend and everyone else hates him.. What do I do. I'm so confused and whenever I talk to anyone about it.. They all hate him so it's like.. why bother.. ;.;
You shouldn't care what other people think as long as your happy. I think you should go back out with him if that is what you want and that is what makes you happy. He don't have to make your friends happy. ALL he has to do is make you happy and that is all that matters. About the whole embarrassing stuff. Don't be embarrassed. It's not a big deal. If you love him then he's a part of you and your not embarrassed of yourself are you?
Good luck
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Im not sure if my friends are tru friends they always say they are but then go behind my back and talk about me and sometimes they r really mean 2 me wut should i do?
THEIR NOT YOUR TRUE FRIENDS. If they were they wouldn't talk shit behind your back or be mean to you. A true friend is like a friend who would never even think about talking shit or being mean to you. Like if you got in trouble or something they would take the blame for it just so you wouldn't get in trouble. Honestly I think they are fakes. NO offense or anything.
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i was at my friends house with a bunch of other friends and we got drunk. the whole night i was hanging all over the kid i liked ( who happens to be a good friend) and i refused to talk to anyone besides him. i tried to kiss him when i was drunk but he wouldnt kiss me. does that mean anything besides he only likes me as a friend?
I would say he only likes you as a friend or he didn't kiss you because he might have felt that he was taking advantage of you? Why don't you try asking him? It will get it off your mind.
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I am on a team that I don't want to be on. Which really sucks all my friends are on the same team but not me. I need a good excuse for the guidance counsleor on why I need to switch and not just because of friends. I need the advice by tonight. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE HELP ME!!!
Just tell them you want to be with your friends or tell them you don't get along with one of the kids on that team and make up a big story about how you can't stand them and you'll beat them in the head if they look at you wrong LOLOL.
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HELP!! A few summers ago I grew a few inches and gained a significant amount of weight, and now I have so many stretch marks, and they're making me SO Self concious!! My boyfriend of 6 months always wants to run his hands up my shirt to tickle me, and I always make him stop and blame it on tickeling.. but it's really I just don't want him to see my stretch marks!! They're on the front of my stomache, my sides, even on the sides of my breasts.. and I don't know what to do to get rid of them. I've read about them and they're caused from the lack of cologen or something like that, when your skin stretches, so it makes the marks. Does anyone have any home remedies or products that work efficiantly and aren't that expensive??? PLEASE HELP ME!
Avon makes some cream. I'm not sure how much it costs but I heard it worked. My friend used to use it.
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ok...hope u can help me. I went over 2 my best guy frends house 2 pick him up cuz we were goin 2 the park n i met his really hot frend. I flirted with him a lot and i put my # in his cell...neways...he called me that nite n then a week l8er he asked me out n i said yes. Then about 2 weeks l8er i kalled him n broke up with him sayin that we needed more time 2 get 2 kno each other cuz we didnt really kno each other... its been a lil while now n ive been finding out that 2 of my frends (not really close but we kno each other) kinda like him n i like him agen 2 n i think he still really likes me 2...i kinda wanna go out with him agen but i dont kno what 2 do! plez help me! thank you!
ASK him out before those girls do!
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i met this boy a long time ago. he was going with one of my friends.. and i helped him alot through his relatonships and cared alot bout him! to me he was the older brother i always needed! he was always there for me and cared for me.. and i think im absoulutley in love with him! hes always on my mind and i cant ever stop thinkin bout all the good times weve had! were always there for eachother and i know him like myself and he knows me too well, i talked to some friends and they totally agree that i found love.. but i cant help wondering if i made these feelings up.. i know this is kinda dumb.. but how do i know when ive really found the love and trust i want and need?!
Give it time. When you really truely love him you will know yourself. No one can tell you if your in love with him or not. Its just one of those things that comes to you. It's naturally. Its kind of different for everyone.
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hey i am like a punk kid. and i really dont like preps very much. but my mom is like anti-punk and loves preps. and she is really into the "preppy" clothes and attitude and all that good stuff. lol. ok well thats NOT me but how do i tell her without her freaking out. i mean i want to get my tongue pierced and my ears pierced a lot. but my mom is just not understanding for my personality. people tell me "Be yourself who cares what others think" but how can you be yourself when your mother is making you another. how do i try to show my mom that i am not like her?
Well you can't really show her. But just calmly go up to her and say we need to talk to something and be like mom "were different. Were 2 different people and I'm not into that prep stuff and I don't want to be into that prep stuff and it seems like your not excepting me as a punk kid and all that mambo jumbo crap. lol. but dont cop any attitude to her or anything so she will go physco. I don't blam you about the whole prep shit. I don't like em either or there style. But just try to explain how you feel to ur mom nicely.
Hope she understands.
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what is a good product to use to make your hair less frizzy?..i am kinda looking for something that i can rub into my hair when its when they blowdry it and not have to take as much time to straighten it..i guess something that blocks against humidity and frizzies if that makes sense
Biosilk
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I'm not very physcially fit, I dont exercise a lot and well i started skool few days ago and i have gym..my teacher is crazy and makes us run a lap, run up stairs, run down a hill, do 20 crunches, 10 pushups, and then do it one more time! Before that we have to run acrross the football field doing things like skipping, jumping,jogging whatever. And thats all for the warmup! is there anything i can do to less the pain i feel after we have our warmup??? my legs are so sore i can barley walk! thanks i rate!
your body's not used to it. Just make sure you stretch before you do all that stuff and afterwards when your home or something relax until you get adjusted to the exercising. And drink plenty of water.
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ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!
Why don't you give him a try and if hes into sex tell him you want to wait and your not into that stuff yet. But if he keeps pressuring you to do something you don't want to do then dump him.
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Okay, here's my issue. I'm 18 and I've been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 months and we're starting to get really serious. The only problem is that his brother is incredibly rude to me all the time. I've known both guys for a long time, and his brother used to be quite nice to me. Its just since we started dating that he's begun treating me like dirt. I've asked him what his problem is and he won't admit to having one. My boyfriend claims that he's just "not a people person", but he is much ruder to me than my boyfriend realises. Help please!
His brother probably likes you and is mad at you for going out with his brother. He'll get over it.
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Do you all know any acne face washes that work really well? (I don't really have sensitive skin)
- Flawed Face
PROACTIV!!!!!!!!
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This is kinda complicated. I have known this one guy since like 1st grade and in like 5th I switched schools. Now im in 8th and the guy is at my school he's new and I like him again this year but I don't know if he likes me and I can't even get up the nerve to talk to him. I don't know what to say. He's always around his jock friends and I feel like if I say somethin to him around his friends I'll just look like an idiot plz help me thanx bye!
Just go up to him and be like hey didn't you used to go to blah blah blah and if he says yes be like do you remember me and start up a dumb convo like that.
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Ok.. I'm 18/f and my b/f of 2 and a half years moved to Georgia 5 weeks ago. He said he was doing it to ''grow up'' and to make sure his feelings for me were real. Well, he tells me he still loves me and wants to be with me, but when I try to get him to come back home..he won't. Do you think it's cause he is testing me, or because he wants me to leave him alone? Thanks!!
I think he is testing himself and maybe you. Just give it time and see whats going on first.
Good luck.
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my boyfriend... who i HAVENT talked to in like 3 weeks... seems to be ignoring me becuz he knoes im wantin to dump him... so what do i do sinc ei can never get in touch with him? Do i call and leave him a message breaking up with him?
FACE TO FACE? Find him and just tell him to his face so he can't run away from you.
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Ok does anyone think this is wierd..my dad goes in the kitchen cabinet and its like 4 boxes of cereal n he looks at my favorite box and he tellls my mom not to buy them cuz HE DOESNT LIKE THEM..wtf is that?I like the freakin cereal y cat i keep it?...plz tell me if u think thats realli retarded
YES! I think that is REALLY retarded. Tell him to get a life.:-p
:]Brit
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I'm a 19 year old girl and I can't stand my dad. I move out in a year and a half to go to get my BS, but I don't think I can make it.
He's a slob! He leaves open cans of cat food out on the counter, reaches to the bottom of the bread loaf and crumples all the other slices, leaves sharp and dangerous things where my baby can get them, never closes the cabinets, never takes off his shoes in the baby's play area, etc.
He comes home from work and plays a video game. He has played the same video game every day for the past two and a half years. He never helps my mom or me. My mom is so stressed because of him, and so am I.
He thinks he's always right. If I prove him wrong, I get sent to my room! He yells at me, belittles me, laughs at me, and calls me names.
I just need some advice on how to cope until I can move out, or I'll take any other suggestions.
Your 19 why do you put up with his crap. I understand how hard it is I've delt with some of that crap to just a little different. Stay away from him. But don't back down from him. When you back down from him it just makes him feel better about himself. Try playing some of these games to him.
But if your not doing this because he might kick you out or something just ignore him. You go your way and he goes his. Hang out with some friends. Take your baby out for a walk. Try just getting out of the house.
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ok. My sister has behavioural problems which make her argue and shout all the time, we are supposed to be seeing a family counciller soon because it's a REALREAL problem but my parents keep forgetting about me and giving my sister loads of attention because they say she's 'got problems' they keep explaining it to me and saying they understand how i feel but they just DON'T what do i do?
Give them some behavioural problems. And if they get pissed off tell them how you feel.
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