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I'm 15 year old girl. I dunno what I want anymore. I broke up with my boyfriend of 6 and a half months 2 weeks ago. And I cried 3 days afterwards. And my mom kept telling me that if I was so upset and depressed.. I should go call him and get him back.. Then I was talking to my best friend and she said she did that too when she broke up with her boyfriend.. But the thing is.. EVERYONE hates him. They think he's annoying. Sure, he says he's sorry way to much.. and repeats himself a billion times.. But when I was with him.. and no one else.. I was happy.. So happy.. :sighs: And then whenever we were at a party or something. We'd drift away and I'd go with my friends and him with his.. But then sometimes we'd see each other, exchange some "I love you"'s and stuff and we'd be set for another hour or 3.. Then there were times when I was kinda embarassed to be around him.. I'm more shy and timid but he's so loud and random.. I mean.. I'm random too.. When I'm hyper, but it's different somehow. And I saw him for the first time yesterday and I wanted to jump on him and cling to him or something. XD Because I miss him.. A lot. I don't wanna change him but I just want everyone to like him.. And it's so hard when your best friend and everyone else hates him.. What do I do. I'm so confused and whenever I talk to anyone about it.. They all hate him so it's like.. why bother.. ;.;
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You shouldn't care what other people think as long as your happy. I think you should go back out with him if that is what you want and that is what makes you happy. He don't have to make your friends happy. ALL he has to do is make you happy and that is all that matters. About the whole embarrassing stuff. Don't be embarrassed. It's not a big deal. If you love him then he's a part of you and your not embarrassed of yourself are you?
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By the sounds of it you both werent exactly ready for the relationship, or maybe your heart wasnt in it the whole time. And who cares if everyone hates him. Its what you think that matters. They obviously dont know him as well as you do and shouldnt judge him before they do. And I think that the fact that you guys wouldnt be together at partys and such says a lot .... and if you were embaressed to be around him you shouldnt have been going out. Maybe you should talk to him about his annoying habits... You obviously want him back but you cant expect him to change just so you can go back to a meaningless relationship. But if they really were your friends they would see how happy you are when your around him and wouldnt say those things to you.... This is a hard situation but MY opinon is that you shouldnt go back with him because if your friends opinons mean more to you then his feelings, and being around him, then its best if you take some time away from each other.
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I thinks its great that you broke up with him for your friends alwasy "bros before hoes" ((friends before guys)) but if you are really that upset then call him adn tlak to him.. theres no reason you guys cant be friends or maybe even more if you were that happy. give him a call and talk to him about it thats really all you can do
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