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hi ok so i am 16 female and i notice sometimes that it starts to smell down there. even when i am just like sitting on the couch or something. also, i cum a lot..like it leaves stains! it feels like i am on my period sometimes. its really sick. any ideas for both of these issues? oh and i dont want to have to buy things for this, just any ideas of things to do at home.? ok thank u (link)
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When you say you cum alot...and it feels like you are on your period...i think you mean you have a lot of discharge, not cum. You CAN talk to a doctor about that, but since I doubt you can just jump up and go to a doctor, i would try various products by the Summers Eve line, they have special soaps for down there, and powders to keep it dry, made especially for the vaginal area. You can find them at virtually any grocery store, or stores of the sort.
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I could have sworn that I took my pill yesterday night. I'm pretty sure I forgot to take wednesday's pill & took it on thursday. [Not sure, but since thursday's pill was in there.. i'm thinking that's what happened]So I took yesterdays pill & tonights.
[I've been on the pill for over 6 months] & my period is supposed to come sunday.. but since the pill shortens it.. it comes a few days later in the week..
Could I be pregnant? I had sex multiple times and used a different condom each time. He held onto it as he pulled out.
Naturally, i'm a worry wart :[ (link)
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I would say you are fine. If it would make you less nervous about the possibility that the condom failed (after reading an answer someone else gave) a good idea is to take the used condom and fill it up with water, like a water balloon. It sounds funny, but it's a good way to make sure there was no leak or hole. I do it after every one I use. :)
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Everytime I shave "down there", I get bad itchy razor burn. Even when I use a ton of shaving cream! Sometimes I'll shave and everything's okay for the first half hour, then the razor burn appears. I don't want my boyfriend to be grossed out! What's a good way to prevent razor burn? Or a fast way to make it go away faster? (link)
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Well, i don't know your usual routine...but i will state one anyway...
Make sure you are using real warm, or relatively hot water and let it run on you for a good amount of time while you are in the shower before you shave. the longer you wait, the better. then, make sure you use a good shaving cream. one with a built in moisturizer is best. then proceed to shave with a razor that has a lotion strip on it. that works very well. also, afterwards, put a cream or lotion that is safe to use down there. i hope this helps.
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hi i was wondering if its necessary to learn 6 string guitar before starting on bass guitar?
like i already know basic stuff like plucking and a few chords?
what do you think? (link)
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No it is not necessary, but it would help. But again, not necessary.
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when people say things about me ; i let it slip and slide. im not that person who starts the drama nor am i that person who takes things to seriously. but i let people get to me sometimes. for example;
my two best friends in the whoolle eentire warrld take advantage of me. i cant stand it. i dont say anything.
like they'll say some jokes about me and say there 'kidding' but , dude. deep inside it hurts. i meen its jokes they say over and over again . i just laugh with it and go on with my day.
i mean im that kind of person. usually things dont affect me. because im that kind of person who really doesnt care what ppl say about me. BUT. this is the first time that it hit me. Am i being too nice to let people to stomp on me? Am i not being taken seriously anymore? i need help! i need a way to stop this. and i know it wont do if i just say ; stop it hurts my feelings; because i alreday did that .
GR. its aggrivating me.
id appreciate it for the help!!
depressed deana (link)
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I think what you need to do is stand up for yourself more. Since it seems that you have been passive for a long time, people probably got the impression that it's okay for them to say whatever they want to you, because they know you won't say anything back or do anything in return. Who would know this about you better than your best friends? I think you need to seriously tell them how you feel. Tell them that it is enough. That you don't like being the butt of the jokes ALL the time. Once in a while it's okay to poke fun at ourselves and our friends, but you need to make it clear to them that it is too much for you.
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hi,can you still have sex if the condom dose not fit..cause i got some to day and its my first time puting one on..so can you have sex if it dose not fit??thanks (link)
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If the condom is too big, it can slip off very easily. If it is too small, it can break VERY easily. My best bet is to not use those at all, for safety reasons.
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Every time i use eyeliner after like 1-3 hours it smears horribly. What specific eyeliner do you use that doesnt smear at all?
brand name?
type?
i want one that i can buy from rite aid or cvs.( so it can't be sephora brands)
Please only give me eyeliner types that you have used. =]
Thanks in advance (link)
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That's a tough one, because i have used Smashbox cream eyeliner, stays on for hours without smearing, but you can't get it from rite aid or cvs. :/ I would say try Covergirl Queen Collection eyeliner.
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when is it considered not being a " virgan " r u still a virgan if only the girl has an orgasim and not the boy ? do both people have to finnish to have sex ? or is it if one person does ur both not virgans haha im confused :/ please help me figure out if i am still a virgan haha :] (link)
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It has nothing to do with having orgasms. Both of you could have sex and now achieve an orgasm and still not be considered virgins. If his penis has penetrated your vagina then you are no longer a virgin. Now, if you have only had oral sex..whether or not you are a virgin is up to you, depending on whether or not you see oral sex as 'sex'.
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I got my hair done today and I love it! I came home and my dad said I looked like a gorrilla! Now i feel horrible what if the kids at school think that too? (link)
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Don't mind your dad. Sometimes parents have a hard time seeing things eye to eye with their kids, especially when it comes to something like a hairstyle. it's all about personal taste! EVERYONE may not love it as much as you...but if you like it, thats all that should matter!
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how come when you finally get close to your friends they ended up leaving our in lives? because it happens to me all the time when i get attach to them they always have to move and stuff it makes me feel like i dont wanna get close to anyone what do you guys think? =/
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This has happened to me a LOT! But i learned to think of it this way...I'd rather have these really cool friends in my life for however long I have than to have none at all. I don't know how it helps...but it wont ALWAYS happen. No reason to give up on potentially great friendships.
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17 yr. female..
my good friend..i just became good friends with her this year and like everytime she is around people she acts differently and tries to impress people too much! and she tries to be friends with everyone and anyone..its not a bad thing but sometimes its just too much...and she always flirts with my good friend nick(keep in mind i have liked him for about a year and a half) but he has a girlfriend and she always is like yeah take a picture with me..ahh he is so hot..she always like sits on top of him and slaps his butt and stuff..she doesnt know i like him but she still shouldnt be doing that with someone who has a girlfriend!! and everytime that me him and her hangout she totally ignores me and just talks to him..im like ookay?! cool....dont talk to me then...and she tries to tell everyone that they are such good friends and I AM THE ONE that is best friends with him...and she has her myspace pic of him and her...and like everyone commented it saying ooh who is that ;) and its just so annoying! i dont really wanna talk to her about it cuz i dont want everyone to know that i like him (nobody does know ) but how can i just calm her down..make her different...have her not try so hard to impress people..ive always made comments to let her know how i feel about stuff but it never changes.. (link)
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What it really seems like, is she just wants attention...badly. She seems like she changes her attitude to fit the people around her so they like her better. It's annoying, but a lot of girls are this way, I hve noticed. Just ask her when you are alone, why it seems like she changes herself whenever certain people come around. If she asks, what are you talking about, bring up these examples. How you bring it up will matter the most.
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17/f
soo here's the deal...ive never had a boyfriend
and havent done like anything with a guy before
except madeout..and ive only done that with 2
guys and the last one was last year..
im always scared to do things with guys like
everyone thinks im soo gorgeous and they're always shocked when they heard ive never had a boyfriend or anything..but everytime a guy wants to makeout with me or something im always like no..or i'll try to avoid doing it because im scared im not going to be good at it..i mean a year..thats a long time!! and i'll be embarassed..and ive gotten asked or like i know guys have wanted to do stuff with me but its just that im scared..and there like the really hot guys and if im not good at doing something..i'll make a fool of myself! i just dont know what to do?! i feel like a prude..and i dont want to be ...im going into 12th grade..i think its kinda sad that ive only madeout with 2 guys..one going into 10th grade and one last yr..i never want to put my self in a situation that i think a guy is going to try to put a move on me either..like watching a movie or being alone with a guy...i mean i dont think im ugly but im not conceited..its just everyone thinks im pretty and is like WOW..cant believe you havent had a boyfriend or havent done much with a guy..its not that i dont want to..its that im scared! and im shy SOMETIMES..soo its like i dont wanna talk to the guy either and be like well i might be kinda bad..thats not like me!!
any ideas? thank you! (link)
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Just because you have only made out with two guys and you haven't had a boyfriend, doesn't make you a prude. And it's not that big of a deal really. It's normal to be nervous, but the only way to get over it, is when you do it. I am not saying you have to, but its okay, you will get through it. If you dont want to be in a situation that you feel is uncomfortable for you, then don't. When you feel ready, and get over your nerves, things will work out fine for you. Just don't think you have to make out with guys, or do other things, because it seems like other people are doing it. In reality, they probably really aren't. Though it may shock other people, you being pretty has nothing to do with this situation.
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i'm NOT planning on giving "head" ANYTIME soon but i was just wondering, my friends were talking about how they gave their boyfriends head in their rooms, but they all "spat". did they like.. leave the room and go to the toilet?
wouldn't that look stupid? (link)
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They could have gotten up and left the room to do it. Or they could have used a towel. People sometimes have one around when they know they will be doing sexual things of that sort. It doesn't look stupid. The girls just don't want to swallow, so they spit. No biggie really.
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okay so i love attention. so is it weird that i want to be a slut? i mean, ive done kind of sluttish things before but not to get the reputation of being one but i want to? is that normal or totally strange? and if not then what can i do to get it? (15/f btw.) (link)
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A lot of people love attention. Being a slut really won't get you much. You will get used more than attention. It would most likely be negative attention at that. Why would you want that? I does sound quite strange, defidently not normal. That question made me sad just reading it. :/
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I really like this guy and right now we are just texting each other, well I am going to watch him race saturday. I havent heard from him since monday. Should I be worried or not? I mean he could be busy working or just tired am I losing my mind? (link)
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It sounds like you might be a little nervous, so you might be over analyzing things. I don't think it is anything to worry about at all. But you are def. not losing your mind lol
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how do you siong with vibrato? i really want that vibratesound in my coive but i cant achieve it!! help please! dont tell me to go to a vacal coach cuz i cant afford
i reall wanna lern so bad im thirteen and everytime i try bibrato it doesnt work (link)
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It is unusual for a singer not to have any natural vibrato in the voice and may indicate bad singing habits, incorrect breathing or posture problems.
If you are having problems achieving vibrato whilst singing here are a few tips to practice:-
Ensure your breathing is correct
Improve your posture
Hang your head and completely relax your neck, throat, facial muscles & mouth
In this position sing a gentle Ooooooooaaaaah
Practice your vowels & constonants
Practice yawning whilst singing a note
Practice holding a long note
Practice singing 'trills' (a note performed in rapid alteration with the note above it)
If you try to "make" vibrato, it will end up being an ugly warble--if not right away, then eventually. Vibrato is the natural product of singing without undue tension. Every part of your body, including your throat, neck, jaw, forehead, and shoulders should feel tension-free when you sing. (The exception is your diaphragm and perhaps your behind muscles.) This will give you a long-lasting, and more beautiful, voice. When you achieve this, vibrato will come naturally. That said, you probably already sing with some vibrato. Very few people sing with a pure "straight" tone, unless they do so on purpose. You might tape yourself singing (a hand held cassette recorder works fine for this) and then listen back to the recording. You will almost certainly detect some vibrato, although it may be very gentle and unobtrusive.
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Hi, I really hope you can help; i've gotten mixed responses from others...
Basically, my BF discovered that in my senior year of college (I graduated last year) I had taken two semesters worth of judo classes and he thought this was really funny b/c I don't look like, I guess, a "typical" jock chick--that is i'm not muscular or buff or whatever...i'm your stereotypical "girly girl" in appearance--tall, skinny, blond hair, blah blah blah and I'm like 125 lbs....so he's laughing at me, calling me "judogirl", etc., and I was fine w/all that, if a little annoyed, but then he made a mistake: he challenged me to a wrestling match...and I beat him.
He outweighs me by like 40 lbs. and is pretty strong but he didn't understand that my judo skills would use his strength against him and he just couldn't believe I won. I figured it was a one-time deal, but he was so bent out of shape that he's challenged me several times since then, and I've defeated him every time. It would be OK if he didn't take it so seriously, but he just becomes this mean pouty jerk when he loses and keeps challenging me and now i've refused to wrestle him b/c it's no fun and I hate his sexist attitude as well. But refusing to wrestle just makes him angrier and he says stuff like "you're just afraid i'll figure out your 'tricks' and win...it's so annoying!
I've considered just faking it and letting him win but I don't REALLY want to do that b/c I'm proud of my skills, and just wish he would be too...plus when he baits me w/all this "you're just a girl" crap, it gets my goat and i'm more than happy to throw him to the floor and pin him when he gets too tired to fight me off...
Have you ever beaten a boy at something athletic--whether martial arts or sports--or know a girl who has? B/c maybe if I can tell him he's not the only one he won't feel so bad... (link)
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First off, thanks for the compliment! lol Second...my bf and I wrestle all the time, and I have won PLENTY of times! My legs are very strong, and I am way more flexible, those two combined have helped me win a lot. Who says girls can't be more athletic than guys? Just because we are girls, doesn't mean we can't beat a guys but every once and a while, no matter how big or small we are!
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Normally I use baby oil for masterbating but its hard to clean up when im done. Any ideas on something else to use that wipes off easily? (link)
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i'd say vaseline
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can you have an std after having sex with someone who hasn't got an std? i know this is a weird question. i mean how did the first person ever get one? they aren't just invented!! (link)
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If your parents have it. Or by other things like sharing needles, etc
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Would your boyfriend pick music over you? (link)
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I think it depends. The way I see it, if something comes along (an offer or what have you) where he would get the chance to do what he's always wanted to do. I mean that as, if there is that opprotunity, and I happen to "be in the way" (one way or another) I think that he should. But I dont necessarily know if he WOULD do it. But I would 100% honestly want him to. Just because I think it would be such an awesome experience for him, and he's been wanting it so long. I mean, i'd always be here waiting for him, whenever he'd be able, or want, to return. But yes, i think music is more important. Because I had that feeling once...
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