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♥ Hey!! My name is Allie Ribley.♥ I'm 15 years old turning 16 in April. And I live in Springfield, Illinois. It's pretty boring and theres not much to do. That is why I am so thankful for all my friends, they keep me busy and give me things to do! :) We like to go shopping,♥ some times go see a movie, but we like to rent them better, hang out at each others houses, and party! I love to party!!♥ Some people say I am wasting my life by just partying all the time, but my theory is that you only live once, so live it how you want!! And this is how I want it, so don't tell me to change it! :)
♥ I am not single anymore! I have been dating my boyfriend, Derek Betzer, he is also 15. We both go to Pleasant Plains High School.♥ And we have been together for 3 years. He has brown hair and blue eyes.
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♥ My family is not so great though. Both of my parents are alcoholics, I have an older sister [20 in February] I talk to her about some of it but I don't think she fully understands because she is not hardly ever home to know what I have to go through.♥ Their drinking problems really bother me. There's not much else to say about them.
♥ I have a lot of different sites. Here they are.
♥ CHECK THEM OUT!!
♥ Also, I can help you with any questions that you have! That's why I made this column. I hope you enjoy it, I try to get around to it every day! I have some other sites as well..If you want them, then you're gonna have to ask for them! =p.♥
♥ Hollister, Abercrombie, and American Eagle♥ are my life. I love pearls, and long necklaces.♥ Rings are a must. I'm a really nice person, unless you piss me off, I can be a total bitch! I speak what's on my mind. Some people don't like me for that, but whatever get over it. Don't be fake around me, cuz thats annoying. I hate bitches, but I love mine. I love glitter, ♥ and bracelets. Many other things as well. As long as your nice to me, I'll be nice back. Please don't ask me stupid questions. && we'll be okay. ♥
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Okay, I'm not going to say any names but i had a friend named bob. me and him have been best friends since the 6th grade and we are both in the 8th. well i have a best friend named SUSIE. Me and susie used to be the ONLLYYY ones he cared for, and we were the "loves" of his life. I know he meant it, and i know he loved us more than anything because he would ALWAYS show it. well anyways me and him were closer than him and susie were and well he cared about me SO MUCH that he would always be around me, sit next to me, worry about me, how my day was and etc; well i talked to him about it about 3 times and every time i did, his heart practically shattered. well anyways i TOTALLY understands where he's coming from because i know how it feels like to be lost. he found a new girl and i know her too. her name is JULIE. well her and julie were getting hella close, and i talked to him about how i felt ( in a note)and he came up from behind me when i was sitting down and he whispered in my ear" no one can EVER take your place" but yeah yeah he says all these things about he loves me so much and he wouldnt know what to do if he lost me, but im so confused because all his away messages say " i love you julie more than anything, your the only thing i care about" blah blah blah, then why does he tell me he still loves me? and im so confused because he always tells me " im the best" and yet i see his comments on myspace telling that to every other girl .., what i'm trying to say is i dont know if i should get closer to him like i was, or if i should get away from him and let him worry about me, or if i should just not talk to him until he talks to me. im hella confused and if you can help me, great. their is alot more to this story so please IM me, but still respond to this on his website!
my aim is : le internett
thanks so much guys!
hey, well of course stay close to him.
Things are changing, he now likes this other girl as a girlfriend. he likes you as a friend. There is nothing wrong with that.
You just have to accept the fact that you are not the only girl in his life now, sure you two will still be really good friends, but he will probably be hanging out with julie a lot more, and that shouldn't be a problem.
Sounds like you like him more than a friend, maybe try explaining to him how you feel.
Good Luck with everything, I hope I helped
♥ Allie x0x
Hey, no I wouldn't be offended, he means this in two different ways i'm sure. He probably thinks your awesome and knows that you will always be there for him and your a great friend and stuff, as to when he says it to her he probably just means it with a little more feeling sexually, if you know what i mean?
I have a unibrow..no doubt about it..but i started shaving for at least 5 months. Im not stupid and i new that it'd grow back darker and thicker. But i just thought i'd shave it all off before anyone could see. But now it's really dark and there are black dots.How do i get rid of it?
wax.
OK so ive been friends with this guy for 9 years. I like him, A LOT. I cant tell him, just for reasons that i have, but trust me telling him is not an option. I cant tell ANYONE i like him. Everytime he even leaves like a comment on my friend's myspace, i get jealous. I doubt he likes her, but im obsessing over probly nothing at all. How can i stop being like so insanee???
wow, those other people that answered your question were bitches so here you go babe, i think...
well i don't think the myspace thing is anything to worry about unless it says something flirty or suspicious or something like that..
and...welll try hanging out with other friends a lot more to keep your mind off of him or just keep busy so you hopefully wont think about him, well so much anyways. hehe.
I really do hope I helped cuz I hate people who give advice and they're just bitches to people, cuz why would you want to give advice if your just gonna be mean? grr w/e
Good Luck
Allie x0x
when someone goes "ill tap that!" or say "you know you'd tap that!" does it mean have sex basically? thanks in advance, I RATE HIGH for GOOD
yes, that is exactly what it means, i would have sex with him/her
DOes anyone know a website that lets you design pamplets for restraunts and site(its like a brochure)?
microsoft publisher does.
Is it true that if you crack your knuckles they get bigger? This seems totally fake to me...how can your bones grow because you move them around?
No, this is not true at all, its a myth
We need to come up with some shirts for our cheer squad. Does anyone have any ideas? Our mascot are the Bobcats and our school colors are maroon and white. Thanks alot!
sometimes we just go buy materials from a craft store and make them really cute. be creative! =]
you see....theres this boy that I absolutely adore. His name is Nick. I frequently hang around with his little sister, and he follows us around. I think that he may like me, but ya know.... I am not sure.... Is there anyways that would help him know that i like him? And what can i do to make him like me back??? P.s I am 13
Lost Lover
flirt with him and see what his reaction is.
I have a 4 yr old son with a guy that I am still trying to let go of. He has a girlfriend which I am still trying to accept. The hardest part is that he is constantly around to visit his son. When he comes around she calls his phones, he has come up here with hickeys on his neck. I have really tried to ignore it all despite how much it hurts. But 2 days ago I had enough and just stop speaking to him. I am still not speaking to him. I know it is childish but I don't know how else to handle it. He is no longer my boyfriend so he has the right, but what else can I do to make it stop hurting? How can I maintain a healthy friendship without letting my jealousy get in the way?
hey, well tell him how you feel first, tell him you think it is kind of disrespectful what he is doing to you, also get to know other guys, sooner or later you will find one that you like more than him, i know you will! also, hang out with your friends a lot and keep busy cuz that will keep your mind off of him, good luck, sorry about your situation, hope things work out, xox allie x3
ok, so the the 5th day of sckool my friend said that on friday eric (the kid i like) said he liked me a little, and was going to ask me out! & then my other friend said eric said he wanted to meet me after sckool where no one was because he had to ask me something, but then he said never mind, & then he told me he liked my friend britt, but wed. he told me he doesnt like her anymore and likes someone new.. then also wed. in music, my friend derick goes if eric asked you would you say yes, and i said no because eric was right behind him && he doesnt know i like him, and then derick goes eric she said no, but i dont know if he was just jokin or not.. then wed and thurs eric kept tryin to start a convo with me but randomely they were all either about sckool or sayin how desperate britt was..then fri. my friend alexis said eric wants to ask shayna out.. but then at lunch i was sitten across from him and alexis goes do you still want to go out with shayna, and i was listening and he acted confused like what are you talking about? and then sat. derick imed me and i was like does eric like shayna.. and hes like yea why? im like o becuz i didnt know and then he was like oo.. and then go how do you know and derick goes becuz eric told me (but i didnt even know they were still friends?)..and then today.. we got to sit anywhere in music and he sat behind me!! and then we worked in partners (he was my partner).. but i dont know if he likes me?.. im so confused..advice needed urgently.. thank you 13/f
ask him.
I have been dating this one boy for over 2years, and i love him more then anything else in the world we have been through so much. I'm so close to his mom and other in his family. Well about 5 months ago things started going down hill,he never called, he kind of cheated on me&he has been a complete jerk. He calls me really rude names&he always picks on me. I mean when it's just me&him, theres the personn i love, but when others are around he makes me feel like complete shit. I mean he was like my first everything, i lost my virginity to him and everything. We don't go out now but i guess were trying to work things out. When i talk to him on the computer and tell him how he makes me feel he says he feels the same and that he really does love me and he doesnt want to be with any one else but he just doesnt show it sometimes. I want to let go and move on but i just can't. He has beem lyingg to me so much and one thing he has lied to me about was chewing&i hate it. I just dont kno if i can trust him anymore i want to be w/ him forveer and i know this may sound stupid cuz iim only 14 but if you only felt how i felt. I mean things arnt always badd but latelyy more then not. I feel like dying because i miss him all the time. And sometimes i just want to kill myself because i dont want to live w/o him. I dont know what to do. not only was he my boy friend but my bestfriend and i feel like i have lost everything..And i mainly lost him over a gammee..Halo&&the girll he kinda cheated on me w/ was from haloo :( andd i love his mom so much 2 she is like my second mom..Ughh im soo lost..Some advicee would help :( :'(
wow, this same freaking exact thing happened to me, my bf just broke up with me, except after 3 years...and wow he was my first with everything too...buttt...people are always telling me that i need to move on because i'm better then him and i deserve better. but i want to stick with him, its really really hard, you just need to follow your heart on this one, ask yourself what you would tell your friend if she was in this position, good luck and if you ever wanna talk about it more IM me on GLiiTT3R X GLAM or just comment me back on here. I also have xanga. whatever you need cuz i know how hard it is, good luck again. x0x allie x3
For Thanksgiving tomorrow, we want to make Cranbery Plum Pudding, but we've lost the recipe. Does anyone here have a recipe for cranberry plum pudding? Or know where I can find one? Don't say "google it."
INGREDIENTS
2 cups raisins
1 cup prunes, chopped
3/4 cup currants
1/2 cup golden raisins
1 cup Guinness stout
1 cup unbleached white flour
1/2 cup firmly packed brown sugar
1/3 cup mixed candied citrus peel
1/4 cup finely chopped almonds
1/4 teaspoon freshly grated nutmeg
1/4 teaspoon cinnamon
1/4 teaspoon allspice
1/4 cup fine, dry bread crumbs
8 tablespoons butter
2 eggs, lightly beaten
Pinch of sea salt
1. In a ceramic bowl, combine the raisins, prunes, currants, golden raisins, and Guinness and allow the mixture to steep, covered, overnight.
2. Next morning, place the Guinness-fruit mixture in a large bowl and combine with the flour, brown sugar, citrus peel, chopped almonds, nutmeg, cinnamon, and allspice.
3. In a smaller bowl, combine the bread crumbs, butter, eggs, and sea salt. Add this mixture to the ingredients in the large bowl and mix well.
4. Generously butter a 1 1/2 quart pudding mold or a heat-proof bowl. Spoon the batter into the mold and cover with a lid or with buttered parchment or aluminum foil tied onto the bowl with string.
5. Place a rack in a deep soup pot with enough hot water to come halfway up the sides of the mod when it’s set on the rack. Bring water to a boil then reduce heat and steam pudding for 2 to 2 1/2 hours. Allow it to cool until just warm, then unmold.
6. Serve decorated with sifted confectioner’s sugar and a sprig of holly, or with a splash of warm brandy (light it for a fabulous flaming effect!), or with hard sauce, or surrounded by greens with a lit candle on top.
Serves 8.
That's all I could find, I don't know if that is the right recipe, i tried.. good luck finding it... x3 allie x0x
hey everyone me and my fiance' had sex with out a condom and we used the withdrawal method but i want to know what the chances are of getting pregnant and what i should do in the meantime when i dont no like before it kicks into making a baby i really dont want to confront my mom atall right now and im really confused and i dont no what to do for now should i just wait and see what happens or what i dont think i can get ne pills unless i tell my mom but yeah please help thanks bye
take a pregnancy test...
I'm bi and I decided to tell my mom but now I really regret it because I think she thinks I am weird now. She acts really different around me. What should I do?
wow. that's tough. you have to talk to her more about it, you can't let this ruin your guys' relationship. congratulations, i'm really sorry, i hope everything gets straightened out. x3 allie xox
i love my parents a lot.
but sometimes they're a bit overprotective. i'm the oldest and "theyre first baby" so they dont want to "let me go."
well, sorry mom and dad, but this is starting to make me upset and annoyed.
how can i get my parents to "let go" a bit??
thx - please HELPP - i rate high
Just talk to them about it, and tell them how you feel, I know it might be hard, but in the long run its the best thing you can do. Good Luck. Allie x3
what do you do when a guy you like tells you he likes you to and he doesnt just want you to "do stuff with" but then his freind tells your best freind hes just using you??
Well, I know as hard as it might be, you really just need to talk to this guy about it..try saying "you know _________ (his name) I heard from someone that you were just using me, I'm not accusing you of anything but I just want to know and get things straightened out." Most people do best talking to people online through AIM or something, if you don't have that, then maybe call him and talk to him on the phone, and if you are really brave then just go ahead, get him alone and talk to him about it. Good Luck, I really do hope I helped. x3 Allie x0x
How do you get your boyfriend whipped?
Like...
so that they do anything that you tell them to.
: )
whipping really isn't the way to go, if you really like eachother then you will want to make eachother happy, so you will do what will please them, not really...whipping. x3 Allie.
Hey does anybody have any good quotes about people who talk behind your back when they have no right to?
The only one I can think of right now is,
The mean looks, the jealous startes, the best part is, you think i care!
there is one, but www.firehotquotes.com has tons of quotes for all different things, so look there... =] Good Luck. x3 Allie x0x
ok im 13/f and usually have really good eyes.... but latly when i look up after reading and stuff every thing is all blurry! puleez help!
Tell your mom, and maybe she can help you, or even set up a eye doctor appt. hope they feel better.. x3 Allie x0x
theres this kid in my school and he's really a bad boy. he's turning 17 and is still a freshman, he smokes and drinks on top of other things. he doesnt do well in school. i think he's kind of a player but idk, maybe he just has a lot of friends. i know he's one i shouldnt like but he is kind of hoTt and really sweet and i wouldnt mind just being friends with him.
he liked me and i would talk to him all the time but i felt kind of uncomfortable with him at one point so i backed off and when he realized it he backed off too. now i dont see him as much anymore and he only walks me to class when he gets the chance.
how can i tell if he still likes me?
should i continue any kind of relationship with him? and if so, how should i go about it this time?
talk to him about it, let him no that you still might like him and ask him if he has any interest for you, i think you need to just talk to him about it. Good Luck, Hope I helped! xox Allie x3