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parents.
i love my parents a lot.
but sometimes they're a bit overprotective. i'm the oldest and "theyre first baby" so they dont want to "let me go."
well, sorry mom and dad, but this is starting to make me upset and annoyed.
how can i get my parents to "let go" a bit??
thx - please HELPP - i rate high
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Well the best thing for you to do is to let them know that you are growing up try to take more responisiblity that should open there eyes
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If you're going somewhere then tell them where you're going, what you're doing, who will be there, and what time you will be home. Let them know that you are maturing and that you need some more privileges. If you tell them that in an adult manner, and not like pleading or begging or getting really mad, they will see that you ARE growing up. They will most likley learn that you're not a baby.
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If you're going somewhere then tell them where you're going, what you're doing, who will be there, and what time you will be home. Let them know that you are maturing and that you need some more privileges. If you tell them that in an adult manner, and not like pleading or begging or getting really mad, they will see that you ARE growing up. They will most likley learn that you're not a baby.
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Maybe you should just tell them.
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You should talk to them. pull both of them aside and explain to them that your not the little baby they used to hold in their arms. say it nicesly but get the point through. maybe you guys could talk and set up boundries- kirfus- or anything else. I wish you the best.
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i am in the same boat...talk to them calmly about how you dont feel you have enough freedom tell them that you can be trusted and that you wont screw up ...it took me forever for my parents to let me get dropped off at the movies i didnt get to go till 7th grade my sis went in 6th go figure being the oldest can def. suck but it has its advantages
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Just tell them your growing up and you'll always be their baby but a big baby lol just sit down and explain to them how ya feel
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honestly.
i have the same problem except im an only child.
you have to work on gaining their trust (wether they trust you already or not)
take more inititave around the house and pickup.
its not hard &theyll love it.
sooo.
next time that you ask them to do stuff they will be more inclined to let you do it.
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when you are out. check in with them.
its a simple task and theyll feel more secure when they hear from you and know that you are okay.
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Talking to them about it first would be the thing to do.. If that doesn`t work maybe lieing and doing stuff you want anyways is probably something you`ll have to do.. If you get caught i think they`d get the hint..sorry if that wasn`t a good answer.. ♥ Dez
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ask them to do new things. earn their trust. call when you go out. check in. have them meet all of your friends. that kinda stuff.*-- x0x♥
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Just talk to them about it, and tell them how you feel, I know it might be hard, but in the long run its the best thing you can do. Good Luck. Allie x3
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Just explain to them that you are not a little kid anymore and you want to have more freedoms. They`ll understand. You are older and dont wanna be their little child anymore. Explain that to them. They`ll understand.
x3 Jordan
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