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what does it mean if u dont have a period for more that a month or 2? u think its serius?

if you are just starting your period..
its normal.
if not..
it could be bc you are exercising alot (&sometimes that can casue skipped periods)
or you could be pregnent.

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i love my parents a lot.
but sometimes they're a bit overprotective. i'm the oldest and "theyre first baby" so they dont want to "let me go."

well, sorry mom and dad, but this is starting to make me upset and annoyed.
how can i get my parents to "let go" a bit??

thx - please HELPP - i rate high

honestly.
i have the same problem except im an only child.
you have to work on gaining their trust (wether they trust you already or not)
take more inititave around the house and pickup.
its not hard &theyll love it.
sooo.
next time that you ask them to do stuff they will be more inclined to let you do it.
&&
when you are out. check in with them.
its a simple task and theyll feel more secure when they hear from you and know that you are okay.

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Hey everyone im new to this but you*ll find i need alotta help.lol this ones kinda long...

So One problem that im having is that im caught up on this kid, who likes me back, but is older. As in im 14 and hes almost 19... yea i know what a drag... And he keeps talking about how he hates the fact that we only get to see each other once or twice every other week. And i keep telling him it's only because we just started hangin out more and the holidays are coming buthe keeps saying that he cares about me but hes not sure if he can handle it...

Well The other day his friend andy was on his s/n acting as if he was ben.. he was saying all these things like that he wanted to have sex with me and he wanted to be my first time and trying to pressure me into doing it w/ him. Meanwhile deep down in my heart i knew it cant be ben but in the back of my mind im doubting myself... as usual...

After i practically had an axiety attack he told me it was him, andy, and not ben.

Well i think he played another one of these (not so funny) "jokes" on me again today 11*23*05 saying that him and ben were up in waverly staying with his friend jackie, which i didnt mind i understand he has friends, but then andy was saying that ben was gunna go out w/ jackie andall this n i didnt believe him n he goes your too young just deal w/ it. and then when i was talking to ben later he said it wasnt true... but then after we talked about it more he started gettin hostile with me and toldme to fuck off... at that point i wasnt sure if it was ben or andy.. then he justsigned off on me, whoever it was.
Now im so confused as to what i should do and how i should handle it... i care about ben so much, i may even love him but i just dont know.

hes never pulled ne thing like this before and he always talks about how much he cares about me and wants to see me all the time.. maybe he got tired of not being able to see me whenever he wanted to.. but im not sure... please help me ... im a 14/F bens 18/M

honestly.
ditch him.
i mean..5 years is a huge age diffrence for people our age.
the only thing that is gunna come out of this is hurt.
either emotionally or physically.
&i know that you dont want that.
i can understand the attraction to this guy.
i mean. it seems all cool to have an older boyfriend.
but its not.
go for someone closer to your age& someone who wont fuck with you like ben& his friend did.

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