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I cant tell him ...!
OK so ive been friends with this guy for 9 years. I like him, A LOT. I cant tell him, just for reasons that i have, but trust me telling him is not an option. I cant tell ANYONE i like him. Everytime he even leaves like a comment on my friend's myspace, i get jealous. I doubt he likes her, but im obsessing over probly nothing at all. How can i stop being like so insanee???
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Well it's since you like him so much, it's only natural that you'll get a little jealous over nothing at all. But just because you like him alot doesnt mean you have to be insane. I totally undersand about the whole not being able to tell anyone thing. but honestly, if u were able to tell someone, it would make you a whole lot more sane. think of anyone- a pen pal, a friend who's moved away, a distant cousin, even a random person on myspace!
also, a another good way to let out everything would be to write in a journal. write about why you like him. what's so great about him. why you can't tell anyone. what you would say to be if you could. etc. just write out your feelings.
and when you feel yourself getting a tad obsessed or jealous, simply remind yourself that he isn't "yours" it's fine to like him- obviously your heart controls that, but help your brain keep your heart in check by reminding it that it's ok for him to leave comments for, or talk to other girls!
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wow, those other people that answered your question were bitches so here you go babe, i think...
well i don't think the myspace thing is anything to worry about unless it says something flirty or suspicious or something like that..
and...welll try hanging out with other friends a lot more to keep your mind off of him or just keep busy so you hopefully wont think about him, well so much anyways. hehe.
I really do hope I helped cuz I hate people who give advice and they're just bitches to people, cuz why would you want to give advice if your just gonna be mean? grr w/e
Good Luck
Allie x0x
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like... get over it? if you can't tell him then what else can you do? not exactly sure why you're even asking..
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Get a new hobby.
-Andrew(the best)
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