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(Me)14f almost 15 (Him)14
I have been dating this one boy for over 2years, and i love him more then anything else in the world we have been through so much. I'm so close to his mom and other in his family. Well about 5 months ago things started going down hill,he never called, he kind of cheated on me&he has been a complete jerk. He calls me really rude names&he always picks on me. I mean when it's just me&him, theres the personn i love, but when others are around he makes me feel like complete shit. I mean he was like my first everything, i lost my virginity to him and everything. We don't go out now but i guess were trying to work things out. When i talk to him on the computer and tell him how he makes me feel he says he feels the same and that he really does love me and he doesnt want to be with any one else but he just doesnt show it sometimes. I want to let go and move on but i just can't. He has beem lyingg to me so much and one thing he has lied to me about was chewing&i hate it. I just dont kno if i can trust him anymore i want to be w/ him forveer and i know this may sound stupid cuz iim only 14 but if you only felt how i felt. I mean things arnt always badd but latelyy more then not. I feel like dying because i miss him all the time. And sometimes i just want to kill myself because i dont want to live w/o him. I dont know what to do. not only was he my boy friend but my bestfriend and i feel like i have lost everything..And i mainly lost him over a gammee..Halo&&the girll he kinda cheated on me w/ was from haloo :( andd i love his mom so much 2 she is like my second mom..Ughh im soo lost..Some advicee would help :( :'(
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ok if he cheated on you he is a terrible bf, breakin it off was a good desicion, gettin over some on eis always gunna be hard, espaecialy your first, you will just have ot be strong and try to stay friends, cuz well some times things are just better that way.
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he cheated on you from halo??
EW.
move on.
and still be freinds.
because i had a bf.
and yeah.
were better of freinds.
he acted diffrent in front of other girls.
just move on hun.
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wow, this same freaking exact thing happened to me, my bf just broke up with me, except after 3 years...and wow he was my first with everything too...buttt...people are always telling me that i need to move on because i'm better then him and i deserve better. but i want to stick with him, its really really hard, you just need to follow your heart on this one, ask yourself what you would tell your friend if she was in this position, good luck and if you ever wanna talk about it more IM me on GLiiTT3R X GLAM or just comment me back on here. I also have xanga. whatever you need cuz i know how hard it is, good luck again. x0x allie x3
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you should just move on even if you like his mom. i know its going to be hard but i had to do the same thing with my exgirlfriend so just do it trust me just cut all connections and it will eventually work out.
its the same exact thing i had to do the same sictuation.
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OH MY GOD IS YOUR NAME DANIELLA LOPEZ!!
(actully thats my name.) but i say that because its wierd but i went thur the same thing!! i went out wit this guy for 2 years, and then boom!
the change happens. this change is really a test against time. look i was so in love that me and him knew how many kids we were gonna have what the names were gonna be even what color our fuckin bed sheets were gonna be! i know crazy!
but then this change happen. except i was the one that was doubting him. i felt like things werent the same. i knew i loved him but i needed to have space. then later he got intersted in another gurl and i got wit this dude 2 forget about my love.
it turns out that it back fired on me. if anything it made me miss my ex more. later i told him how i felt and he worte me an email sayin i was a hoe, a slut, the only thing i was good for was to fuck! ( when thank GOD we never got to that point!)what hurt the most was that even tho i didnt losi "it" to him. i was close to thinking i wanted to. not only that but before i broke up wit him. he hit me! come one hunnie that wasnt a relationship i wanted for my self! much less for the rest of my life!
he was my everything, my best friend, my body gaurd, my life, my dreams, my happiness...
but think. is that kind of relationship you want. were not only u get emotionally abused, but also maybe physically.
if he cheated on you hunnie he doesnt respect you. there is no reason a man or women should do that 2 a person they "love"
for me the hardest thing was leaving his family. his lil nephew who i adore still.
you have 2 forget all your songs you inside jokes and much more MEMORIES!!!
when i came home from vacation i met this guy(lets call him my pet name for him stitch)
and we started talking 2 him as a friend.
and so unexceptily i fell in love harder than ever!!! but believe me it took me 4 months 2 get over my ex.
now me and stitch have been together for like 4 months and oh my god he's everything i never had!
my ex will always have a special place in my heart, but thats it.
hunnie if you dont take care of your self nobody will.
what i did was balance every thing out, then make choices that would make ME happy...
its hard but believe me YOU WILL GET THUR IT!
i did and now i couldnt be happier. take it from this lost in love 16 year old ok?
i hope i could help you
let me knoe ok
bye God bless you
Always and Forever
Daniella
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