about

Hey everyone! My name is Michelle and I'm fifteen, sixteen in a month! I'm a junior in high school. I've been in too many relationships, and I'm finally taking a break from boys. I'm a dancer and bowler. Ask me anything :) Thats why I'm here.


xoxo, Michelle

advice

What exactly does talking mean?
My friends are always coming up to me and asking if I'm talking with this guy/s, because theyre guys I always hook up with on the weekends, and sometimes I like them, sometimes its just a one time make out.
So what exactly classifies talking?
Like right now, I would say I'm talking to this one guy deffinately, I really like him and all, but what if he doesn't think we're talking?! That would be so embarassing!
So what exactly classifies when two people are talking

Yeah, basically when your "talking" to someone, it means that your interested in them, and they are interested in you. Pretty much just finding out more about each other and possibly leading to dating? (:

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i didnt get my period last month, and so far not this month either ive had my period for like a year (the summer will be 2) but i had a lot of discharge last month. should i be worried, i know its normal to miss and the cycle to be messed up but ive never had anything like that happen to me its always been normal

It's perfectly normal. I've missed periods too. Don't worry, they'll come back. Lol. (:

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my boyfriend forgot my birthday. i expected not to get anything, i told him i didn't want anything. but i at least expected him to tell me "happy birthday." i really do love him, but i don't know what to do. this really hurt.

i'm definately going to confront him about it, but how harsh should i be? very harsh? just barely letting it go? should i give him another chance?

thanks in advance. (:

So he totally just forgot? I would be really upset too. Just tell him that you didn't really expect a present, but you really wanted him to at least say happy birthday and spend a little time with you. See what he says and take it from there. If he has a lame excuse, I'd let him go.

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What kind of pet can be a perfect pet for any person
what kind of pet do you like?

Pls. Answer the kind of pet and it's kind of breed
for example

Cat - Siamese Cat

Teddy Bear hamsters are perfect for any person that wants a pet. They are adorable and very playful. I would definitely suggest getting one. (:

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my boyfriend is obsessed with my tits. he always wants to go up my shirt and see them and everything. we love eachother so it's not like im uncomfortable with it and i honestly dont care, so i guess my question is..why do guys like boobs so much?

I have also questioned this for awhile. I guess because we've always had them we are so used to them just being there and to guys they are absolutely fascinating. Who really knows, boys are weird (:

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Hi :]

my boyfriends birthday is coming up on the 16th and i wanted to do something really special. this year we had a really bad homecoming, i was in a really bad mood etc, at one point i told him his tie was really ugly ( a lie) but he got upset bc he really liked it and he ended up returning it well the whole night sucked. so for his birthday i went out and bought the tie and im going to give it to him with a note saying meet me here at this time like a restaurant and have him dress up and wear the tie and ill get all dressed up and go out to eat. then i want to drive him somewhere and pull over but i dunno where to go. and have a playlist set up and roll all the windows down on my truck and have our own little homecoming. but i dunno where to go and some basics to make it cute not cheesey please help :]Thanks.

That sounds completely adorable! I think he will really love it. I agree with the person below. A pretty view of the stars or city would fit in great. I would also just make sure he knows you were sorry for that night, and hope you made up for it. Other than that I think its such a cute idea.

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So christmas is close :) HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE. I just wanted to get some advice on what to get my boyfriend. Buying for boys is such a stress to me, haha..but i just wanted some ideas :) Thnx.

Buying for boyfriend's is stressful. I know what your feeling. haha. But I've come up with a couple cute things for my boyfriend. I'm getting him tickets to his favorite college basketball team. I hate basketball, so it will mean a lot to him if i go. And I'm also going to get a dictionary, and highlight all the things that remind me of him. A gift thats more personal like that, will make him smile. And he'll be looking at it all the time to see what makes you think of him! Making a scrapbook is cute too. Those are just a few ideas, but I hope I helped!

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where'd she get this hoodie?

http://i16.tinypic.com/6p56mhz.jpg


(or)

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=6p56mhz&s=0


and another picture,

http://tinypic.com/view.php?pic=6p56mhz&s=0


(or if it doesnt work,)

http://i16.tinypic.com/6p56mhz.jpg


i love it so much, i just really want to know where she got it,if you've seen it or anytihng. :] thanks!

I'm pretty sure I've seen something like it at Delias. If you have that store near you, I would definitely take a look there. If they don't have that exact one, theres sure to be cute ones just like it! (:

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i don't know what do give one of my good friends for christmas. i want to get her something good cause she's been there for me 6 years, what should i get her?

15/f

Do you have a "Things Remembered" store near where you live? They personalize gifts and they have a lot of cute things there. You could get just about anything there personalized. I think its a very cute idea (:

Here's the website:
http://www.thingsremembered.com/

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im 15 and im really worried that my penis is too small its over 4 inches long erect is that normal or small? My gf hasnt seen my penis yet im too worried were not ready for sex but will i be able to please a girl?

It's totally normal. Your only 15, so I'm sure your not fully grown yet anyways. You will be able to please a girl no matter what, lol. Trust me, when your in love that kinda thing doesn't matter anyways (:

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im 15 and im gay ive always been keen on other guys ive been with this guy for 3 months ive known for over a year and we became really close and we really like each other we havent told any body i shouldnt be but im worried what my parents will think or other people im still unsure to say something what do you think?

Well you should definitely tell your parents if you think you are gay. They love you, and will except you with any decision you decide to make. And don't pay attention to what other people think. If you feel it and want to be with that person, don't let anyone stop you. People are going to have opinions, and you just gotta deal with them. Just be honest and accept the person you are (:

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This is for either girls or guys.

What are your standards for someone you would date?

Sometimes I think my standards are a little too high, so I was just wondering about other people's. Looks; type of personality; color hair; height; style; family; beliefs etc. Not really your ideal person, but rather (Put bluntly) what MUST they have or be?

Thanks

My standards for a guy are usually pretty high. A guy that I date has to have a good personality overall. It's important that that person can make you laugh, but also be serious when necessary. The guy also has to be cute. Looks do matter, but only to a point. If they have a cute personality, it totally can make up for it. And thats pretty much it. Just someone you can be yourself around and have fun with. Thats the most important (:

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Yes, I know Christmas is far away, but will be here soon well, what do you think I should get for my boyfriend? I was hoping to make him something..maybe?



What would you get for your boyfriend, when you've had a good past together.

Thanks!

This year I'm making my boyfriend a build-a-bear, getting tickets for a Syracuse game (his favorite team), and I'm gunna buy a dictionary and highlight everything that reminds me of him or us. I thought those were cute ideas :]

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Heey ,

I am going to get Proactive for my acne ... has anyone had any experiance with this product ? Good / bad or inbetween ? It would really be apreciated and I will rate if you help !!

xoxo
Stephii

My brother uses it, and it's worked really well for him. You just have to remember to use it every single day because if you stop you'll get a ton of zits.

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Ok. For starters, I am 14 (15 in a month), and female. I've been with my boyfriend for two months. So, my boyfriend is always kinda, I dunno, flirting maybe? with other girls. Like, they're our friends, but he'll go up behind them and grab their ass, or touch their boobs and stuff. He did this before we went out. But he does it when I'm right there. It really hurts. I'm not the kind to "confront" people. I just keep it to myself (bad, I know) and he wants to have sex. I'm not ready, but when I am, if I am, I'm afraid that he'll use me for it, or cheat on me or something, and I'll regret losing it to him. I'm terrified of that. He's moving in a few weeks, and we'll still be together. But, since he is how he is here, I'm worried about him doing it down there, and really cheating. What do I do?
Thank you so much.

Obviously, you don't trust him around other girls now, so imagine what he's going to do when moves away. And since you need trust in a relationship, it's not going to work. I would talk to him, and say that your not okay with him flirting and touching other girls. He shouldn't be doing that. If he wants to be with you, then he can't be flirting with anyone else. And if he can't accept that then he's not worth it. Dump him.

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heres what im making my boyfriendd
http://img89.imageshack.us/img89/6101/artwork2xn1.png
^^^as you can clearly see, im not done lol.
right now it currently says:
"ronny i love you"
its going to be a pillow.
now should the front of the pillow say anything
else with the extra space?
like "so much"?
or should i just do the rest black?

Thats turning out so adorable! I love those things. If you were to add anything, I wouldnt make it anything too big. Maybe a little heart or smiley? But thats a really cute idea. I think he'll love it!

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i heard that you have to sign up for something when you turn 18, otherwise you go to jail or something, what is it?

Your probably thinking about joining the army. Guys have to sign for it by the time they are 18, or they could get in trouble. It's just so that if we ever had a big war and we needed more men to fight, they would have to agree to go to war.

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My boyfriend and I are thinking about having sex. But before I act on this thought, I want to hear some personal experiences. Have you ever had sex? if the answer is no, then why haven't you? Is it because of religion, personal beliefs, morals, etc? But if you have, then What happened? Why did you decide to participate in sex? Do you regret it? I'm asking these questions because I want to know what everyday people think about this, because once its gone i can never get it back.

I've never had sex, and there's a lot of reasons why. Even though I'm really in love with my boyfriend, and we have been dating for almost 6 months, I know that I'm only fourteen and not ready. I'm not sure if I would end up regretting it or not, but I'm positive I don't want to have to deal with that situation right now. Theres times, just like your thinking about, where I really question if I want to or not. But after thinking about everything that could happen, we chose to wait. It's all up to you, but make sure he's the one you wanna give it up to.

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Hey, does anyone know any websites you can order clothes from online? I don't want it to be an actual stores website, because i'm tired of having the same clothes as everybody.


Thanks :)

alloy.com

(:

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I know alot of girls these days who shave there arms. Is that weird? there arms are so soft and i want to, but then again I don't. what would happen if i shaved my arms once, how long would it take to grow them back?


p.s., i shave my belly, and the next day its pokey but it's really soft(:
help, is this weird?
should i do it or not

I shave my arms. But once you start you can't stop, haha. It grows back fast, and prickly. So if you decide to, you'll have to be consistent with it. It's not weird to shave anything on your body. So shave whatever you wanna. lol (:

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