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what does "knuck if you buck" mean? RATE FIVES! (link)
Fight if you got a lot to talk.

Buck is the slang for talking and Knuck is the slang word for fighting.

So basically it means back up your words with your actions.


Hey! Well, I am getting my cartilage (upper ear) pierced on my ears, and I was wondering if it hurt of if I should look out for anything or something like that. Thanks. (link)
My friend got hers done about 2 months ago so I asked her for you. She said that it stings. She said a good place to go is Claire's because they are really hygenic and they have a nice variety of earrings to choose from.


My mom workshift has changed, so she is no longer able to take me to school. So now I have to ride a bike to school. And I just feel so embarrased. People in the car when they drive by sometimes laugh and point. So I just want to know how does everyone else get to school. You know do you take the bus, ride, walk, bike, etc. (link)
My big brother takes me to school in his vehicle(my brother also goes to my school).


i need to no what to do? i have a girlfriend but she says she doesnt want anyone all in her business so no one really knows we are a couple. how should i handle this situation? (link)
Let her know how you feel about it. Let her see things from your point of view, but also try to see things from her point of view. Hopefully by talking you two will come to a compromise.


Ok, well my boyfriend and me met at camp in 2005 summer. So we've been going out since a few weeks ago. We never really talked to eachother but my friend knows him and goes to school with him and my friend would call me and tell me what he said. But we never talked face- to -face and he broke up with me because i told my friend Secrets and then she told him!! He broke up with me because the secrets were gross....

But i was wondering if anyone could help me get us back together that would be awesome!

I RATE 5'S! (link)
First, you should dump that girl who told your secrets as a friend. Anyone who is willing to do that isn't a true friend.

Second, I think you should get over him. If he is willing to believe the things that your "so called friend" tells him then he isn't worth it. Whether the things the girl told him were true or not he should have talked to you about it.


okay so theres this guy. . . (link)
I think you should try your best to get over him. Nobody deserves to have their heart played with. Since he likes another girl who is also your friend I think you should let it go.


what does it mean when during an entire duration of a conversation with a guy, he's staring straight at your lips and occasionally into your eyes? (link)
He definitely wants to kiss you or just find your lips fascinating.


Okay, this might be a question people get asked alot but, I was goin out with the perfect boy. I really loved him alot and he told me he did too. We were together 6 months and then one week he didnt talk to me much. He had my best friend dump me for him then he went to her and asked her out. She called herself my best friend but she said yes. Isnt there some "girl code" thing that says "dont go out with your best friends ex boyfriend"?? I love them both and its hard to be mad at her but what she did hurt me. I tryed talking to her about it but she just yelled at me. What do i do? (link)
I don't think she is worth it. I would dump her as a best friend. Its okay to still talk to her and stuff, just remember that she isn't a true friend. So I wouldn't depend on her or expect to much out of her.


I want to know if you and your boyfriend ever get into fights over flirting with other people. Because yesterday this girl was all over my guy at the mall. I know im not being paraniod because she works at the movies and she let him get in for free and made me pay AND THAT WAS THERE FIRST TIME MEETIN! On top of that she called me his sister when i know she new that i wasnt because before she saw us kissing. What really makes me mad is that I had to hit him for him to tell her that I wasnt. Then when we came out of the movies she said to him See you lata sexy and he said Bye Lisa (which is her name.) And now im am so pissed off at him because he should have done differently. So my question is can you tell me some times you had with your bf flirting with another girl or another girl flirting with him. (link)
I have definitely had some incidents to happen to me with my boyfriend also.

One time we went to Chickfila and the cashier left her name and number on the back of our receipt. I didn't get upset about it because I knew he wasn't interested in her. So he just threw it in the trash and told her that I was his girlfriend.

Another time was when we were at the skating rink. These girls kept waving at him and saying little negative comments about me. I was about to go over to them and speak my mind. But instead he stepped in and said that he would take care of it. So the next time they looked at us he gave me a kiss and told me that he loved me. After that they left us alone.

So my advice to you is if you have a faithful boyfriend then you shouldn't have to worry about any other girls taking him away from you with their tacky flirting ways.

You said that you are pissed off at him so I think you should talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Let him try to see it from your point of view and you should try to see it from his also.


I find myself having a crush on my older brother. I feel really bad about it but I can't stop fantasizing about being with him.

Is there any way to stop these feelings? I know it's wrong. (link)
That is so sick.

You need PROFESSIONAL help.



Mkayyy Soo
Im Chubby
Or Fat If Youd Like
But Yeah..Id Really Like To Not Be Fat/Chubby Anymore
Please Help?
Haha (link)
What's with the capitalizing every first letter of each word?

Learn how to type first, then ask a question.


mypyramid.gov




I am 19 and my girlfriend is in her mid-twenties with a 4-year degree and a new degree she's workign on. I am in community college with no job or direction. She has been with me for seven months, but now she has decided that she has to "give it a chance" with the guy she saw (not seriously) before me because he's more marriage material. Now she's spending all spring break with him and I am supposed to wait here as her plan B. What do I do? (link)
Definitely get over her. If she is willing to drop you like that then she isn't worth it.


well, i've known this one girl for a long time, and i think she's absolutely beautiful and i love her so much, but everytime i even say hi, she won't acknowledge me. i walk by her and see her everday at school about 30 times and i always say hi or something, and she just ignores me. we used to be really good friends until i asked her out last year and she won't even say a word to me now...i have always thought that she was a really nice girl, but nowaday's she's not...btw i'm 13 she's 13... plz help! i really love her but she doesn't even know i'm there almost...and i would love her to be my gf....she used to be one of my best friends till i asked her out last year, and now look what happend! she hates me! how does that just happen like that????

anyway,
THNX A LOT!
(I rate high for good answers!) (link)

She doesn't like you so get over her.

Since she won't even say hi to you then there isn't a way for you to let her know that you didn't want things to turn out the way they did unless you write her a note,e-mail,IM, etc.


how do i get backgrounds on my profile or make one 2 (link)
http://www.advicenators.com/backgrounds.php


I've been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months now. I feel really bad because in the beginning of our relationship I cheated on him. When I first started dating him I had already been dating another guy for about 3 weeks. When I realized how big of a stuck up liar my ex was and he broke up with me that was the end. And I was going to be completly honest. Time went on and nothing happened in our relationship. I get a feeling that he's playing a game with me and I don't matter to him. We've been dating for 4 months and I don't feel the way about him I've felt with all my other ex's after 4 months. I'm not sure if it is because I don't talk to him as much as I talked to my ex's or what...but I feel like somethings going on. Part of me wants to break up with him and the other part of me wants me to stay with him because he is one of the nicest person I've ever met. What should I do? I have no idea!


I'll rate high! (link)
You cheating on him proves that the feelings of you thinking something is wrong are real. I'm not saying something is wrong with him, because it is probably you(since YOU are the one who cheated) You wouldn't have cheated if you were happy, unless you just wanted to be stupid. Since you aren't happy I think you should break up with him.

Don't waste his or your time, so just end the relationship.


i have this guy friend, first we were just friends then we wnet out for like 2 days but he broke up w/ me but i still have feelings for him so now we are just friends. Now like 5 monthes later, i was over his house and he had last years yearbook and he didnt let me read it.the next week he was over my house and i let him read my journal so he'll let me see his yearbook. He read this part were i wrote JAMES FINALLY GAVE ME A HUG, yay! (the date was AFTER we broke up) so now he NEVER gives me hugs anymore after reading that :(, i miss that and i want hugs! help, i still like him, & the hugs were the only thing i had now, nothing (link)
He obviously doesn't like you, so get over him.

MOVE ON!

I know its easier said then done, but I don't think there is any use of sticking around and waiting for him when he doesn't even like you.


I need some ideas of love songs. like really romantic soppy stuff. Im making a video for my bf. ive got a few so far..

boys 2 men - i swear
celine dion - i want you to need me

but i need a few more ideas can any one help please? nothing rocky thanks :)

I RATE! (link)
We Belong Together-Mariah Carey
My Boo-Usher and Alecia Keys
One Wish-Ray J
Like You-Bow Wow feat. Ciara
Love-Keisha Cole
4 Minutes- Avant
Feel the Same Way-Destiny's Child
Cater 2 U- Destiny's Child


Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like, a while. The problem is that we're afraid to touch each other .. we can't hold hands, we don't bump each other when we walk, we don't hug, we don't hang on each other, ect. I want to get closer to him.But I don't know how, I can't just like one day, decide to hug him.. help? (link)
The more you all get comfortable with each other and get to know each other more and more; the more you will want to do touchy things.

You have to take a relationship step by step. Right now may be the baby steps, but soon your relationship will get the walking. lol

It takes time and effort.



im a 21/f and have been married for a year but with him for 7years. how do i ask if another women can come in the bedroom? (link)
I don't think you should at all.

It's all about your personal beliefs.

God made Adam and Eve. NOT Adam, Eve and another woman. It was one women and one man. That's the way it should be.

Genesis 2:21-25


i am a 15 year old female...ok so heres the thing my boyfriend was having a bad day....something to do with his parents and when i asked him wuts wrong he didnt answer me all he said was "nothing" then i said are you lieing he said yes ....does anyone know how to get a boyfriend to open up and tell me wuts up (link)
Don't pressure him.

If you open up to him with time he will open up to you also.




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