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Best friend / boyfriend trouble =\
Okay, this might be a question people get asked alot but, I was goin out with the perfect boy. I really loved him alot and he told me he did too. We were together 6 months and then one week he didnt talk to me much. He had my best friend dump me for him then he went to her and asked her out. She called herself my best friend but she said yes. Isnt there some "girl code" thing that says "dont go out with your best friends ex boyfriend"?? I love them both and its hard to be mad at her but what she did hurt me. I tryed talking to her about it but she just yelled at me. What do i do?
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If your so-called best friend really knows how much you liked him and that you were so hurt by the break up then she should never, ever gone out with him! If it was a guy that you were like... eh, whatever over, then he's fair game. That rule has applied to all my best girl friends through my whole life!
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I don't think she is worth it. I would dump her as a best friend. Its okay to still talk to her and stuff, just remember that she isn't a true friend. So I wouldn't depend on her or expect to much out of her.
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If my boyfriend broke up with me and asked my BFF out and she said yes, I would have talked to her too. But if she yelled at you (that's such a horrible feeling, I know) I would have been madder at her.
You should tell her (if your sorry): Our friendship is to strong to give up over a boy. We shouldn't be doing this. You are one of my closest friends, and I love you. I feel that your friendship is more important than any boy. Since (ex-boys name) and I have broken up, I support him and you 100%. I trust your judgement. I am sorry for overreacting, and being to sensative.
If you aren't sorry you shouldnt be sorry for something that you didn't do, and thats IS totally outta line for a friend to go out with an ex (unless youve been broken up for more than a year)
But really, you need to talk to your friend and the first thing you say is "Can I say something without you interupting?"
Good Luck,
xosamantha
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Wow, sry that happen to you. I have had that happen to. The exact thing actually. You can keep trying to talk to her. But also think, if he did this to you what makes you think he wont do it to her as well? I understand that you love/loved him but I am sure you will find better an they will respect you more. An your friend will come around.
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