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Could I be pregnant...at 13? AH!!!!
Wow, Right, I am 13 years old...this is going to sound terrible but i have had sex wit this boy. GR. Me and that boy are no longer together :( My period was suppose to come on the 14th of March...did it? NO.. But then on the 1st of April.. I began to bleed. I thought it was my period. But now im starting to think differntly because the blood comes out on the tampon..but not the pad. I have been very depressed lately trying to figure out wat to do. I am very scared. I dont want to tell my mom cuz i dont know what she'd do. My friend said he'd give me money for an abortion if i am pregnant but i think abortion is murder and completely wrong...what should i do?
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Try to get a pregnancy test ans stay clam, worring about it is not going to change the fact that you may or may not be pregnant. If you google "pregnant at 13"or something you might find somthing helpfull. There is also plenty of organzations you can turn to. Also look in magazies they usally have helpful stuff, I know in a SEVENTEEN artical it said a # you could call I couldn't find it though, but keep a look out. And don't worry chances are it just your period and your only 13 so its normal for your period to be irregular. Hope I helped. Best of luck!
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OK,first of all i suggest seeing your doctor to find out if you are definatly pregnant because periods at that age can be a bit unpredictable and irregular any way. If you are pregnant i suggest teling your mum, she may be angry you have had sex but in the long run it is best she finds out while something can be done about it. I am not suggesting you have an abortion if you do not agree with them but you could always put the child up for adoption, I am sure there are hundreds of childless couples that would be delighted to have a newborn baby, and that means you would still be able to see the child grow up as many adoptive parents encourage the real mothers (fathers) to have some contact with the child. I also suggest telling the boy if you are pregnant, it may not be what he wants to hear but he may be able to help support you even if you have broken up. I would never suggest getting an abortion if it is against what you believe but you must consider it as an option and not be too critical if you feel you could not deal with giving the child away. I also recommend not having any more sexual relationships until you are older, it will ensure you are not in this position again until you are much more capable of dealing with it and talking to adults about this will be easier.
I hope I helped :P
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First of all, you shouldn't even be having sex. You're 13 years old. And you knew you wouldn't be with that person forever. So that's your mistake. Anyways, if you're really all that scared, go take a pregnancy test. But don't get an abortion, 'cause you like you said, that's murder, and I'm totally against it.
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You started your period later sweeite becuase you has sex && because you had sex it has caused you to bleed heavier..
Get a pregnancy test to make sure..
&& defiantly don`t get an abortion maybe adoption//
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When you are really stressed out about something you may not get your period. Lots of things can cause you to skip a period especially since you must have gotten it for the first time pretty recently. It tends to be irregular until your 20's. What you need to do is go to a store and buy, or have your friend buy, a home pregnancy test. Then you'll know. It's as easy as that. There's no need to start thinking about abortions if you don't even know you are pregnant yet. I hope that this whole ordeal is a wake up call for you. Sex is not a good idea especially if it is unprotected. The consequences are huge. Next time stick to manual (hand jobs) or oral sex. It's not that different. Good luck!
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It sounds like your period, but also this month it could be because your going light. Since your young as it is. You start of slow and it doesn't regulate until your about 17 or so. Mine still does it. But if you that worried or think other wise consult your doctor what you tell them stays between you. An if you tell them it's confidential they are not aloud to say a word to the parents. Good luck!
P.s I know thats hard because I have almost been there. It's very scary!
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