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i need to no what to do? i have a girlfriend but she says she doesnt want anyone all in her business so no one really knows we are a couple. how should i handle this situation?
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people talk a lot of crap thats why she probably doesnt want anyone to know. dont worry about it. its for the better. her friends probably know she probably just doesnt want everyone finding out because there are some really cruel people
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Let her know how you feel about it. Let her see things from your point of view, but also try to see things from her point of view. Hopefully by talking you two will come to a compromise.
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i think that you should just respect her opion. if you want to stay with her then just let everything go. if it bugs you a whole bunch then tell her about it. tell her that you really care for her and you dont see why it matters if people know about your realationship. hopefully she will understand. hope i helped <3
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tell her that no one can be in your guys buisness if you dont let them. and that you would like to make it known that your with her.
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First of all this question is very brief!!
If you are younger and you are her first boyfriend she might be scared about how her parents and friends will react, she may be worried about how long you will last also if you are her first boyfriend (or if she has had not many boyfriends/troubled relationships in the past) she might not want to tell people incase you leave her for someone 'better' which would obviously be embarrassing. If this is the case take it as a compliment, she thinks you have higher standards because you are a better guy than she could dream for..
Now for handling the situation, if you are close you should try talking to her more about it. Try not to ask to many questions just listen to what she has to say. In the end you need to decide if not telling people pleases her then maybe its the best thing as it will get out eventually but for now you should respect her wishes. OR end it, this is what i recommend if she refuses to tell people after a considerable amount of time. She would obviously have some issues and if she is not willing to let you help her through them the best thing is to leave her, she may just need some space and be regreting the relationship. I know it sounds harsh but you dont deserve to be treated like that. You need to make the descision, but dont give up unless it seems there is no point in the relationship at all.
Hope I helped :P
xordinarygirlx
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