i am a 15 year old female...ok so heres the thing my boyfriend was having a bad day....something to do with his parents and when i asked him wuts wrong he didnt answer me all he said was "nothing" then i said are you lieing he said yes ....does anyone know how to get a boyfriend to open up and tell me wuts up
cheerbabe22 answered Tuesday March 28 2006, 6:21 pm: It is hard for many guys to open up. Most guys don't want to be to emotional i guess. I think the best thing to do is give them time. Let him know that you will be there when he wants to talk about it and you that you will be the first person he comes to with a problem. If you keep asking him about it he might just get really annoyed. [ cheerbabe22's advice column | Ask cheerbabe22 A Question ]
gentlegiant answered Tuesday March 28 2006, 5:39 pm: I am the same way as your boyfriend and it used to drive my ex nuts. Guys like me have at times great difficulty opening up. Sometimes we think you might get mad at us. Sometimes we think we will sound stupid. Bottom line, low self esteem and confidence. How to get you boyfriend to open up? Sit him down and talk to him. Ensure him you are there for him. Tell him you will do anything to help him. Tell him you really care for him. Tell him you wont get upset angry and wont laugh at what he says. Tell him you love him very much. This is what guys crave and trust me he will begin to open up. Maybe not all at once but thats normal. Soon he will begin to tell you more and more. Take care [ gentlegiant's advice column | Ask gentlegiant A Question ]
Attention: NOTHING on this site may be reproduced in any fashion whatsoever without explicit consent (in writing) of the owner of said material, unless otherwise stated on the page where the content originated. Search engines are free to index and cache our content. Users who post their account names or personal information in their questions have no expectation of privacy beyond that point for anything they disclose. Questions are otherwise considered anonymous to the general public.