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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for like, a while. The problem is that we're afraid to touch each other .. we can't hold hands, we don't bump each other when we walk, we don't hug, we don't hang on each other, ect. I want to get closer to him.But I don't know how, I can't just like one day, decide to hug him.. help?
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ask him for a hug one day. be like how come you never hug me? i know that your nervous but sometimes the girl has to make the first move . dont always wait for your guy
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The more you all get comfortable with each other and get to know each other more and more; the more you will want to do touchy things.
You have to take a relationship step by step. Right now may be the baby steps, but soon your relationship will get the walking. lol
It takes time and effort.
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hey! well your thinking on the right track: you need to start out touching slowly since you guys are sort of shy about it. start out by just like when you guys are sittin there and he says something funny or somethin like that just sort of nudge him a little bit playfully. soon enough he might start doing this to you too, and after this goes on a while you two will get more comfortable and it will be easier to start hugging and stuff! hope it helps:D
xoxo helpachick
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Sit and think about the reasons you are afraid to touch him, and talk to him and ask him why he is afraid to touch you. There could be a serious reason you two are afraid to touch each other or it could be minor. Something like maybe you two are just nervous. Just remember that you don't want to rush this. But you do need to find out WHY you two haven't touched each other and see if it is something you can resolve. This will probally not be easy so just do all you can to have patience and understanding.
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