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so my best friend isn't talking to me anymore.
and shes been asking her three best friends to do really nice stuff like go to a nice far away mall n horseback riding but she hasn't asked me to do anything with her((its spring break))i feel really left out cause she never does stuff wiht me anymore. why is she doing this to me?
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Call up your friend and talk to her. Obviously something is bothering her. If she won't talk to you wait a while and then maybe talk to her face to face. If you think that she is hurt because you did something give her some time, but if make sure you know if she's worth waiting for in the end.
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It does sound as though this may be a rather one sided friendship. Unfortunately, as you get older this will probably get to be more common as it's harder to keep friends the older you get.
I would suggest you could try talking to her about this but she seems to be making herself pretty clear and, depending on what sort of person she is generally, you might be better off just letting the whole thing go. I know that sounds harsh but she isn't behaving like a best friend or any kind of friend to you right now. Although you may have been good friends in the past, it sounds as though it's time to move on to someone who really knows what it means to be a friend.
Please don't think of this as your failure or that there was anything you could have done. You haven't behaved badly here. She has. If you don't want to be friends with someone any more, you should never just ignore them. You sound like a nice person and I have no doubts at all that you can make some good friends who will be much nicer to you in the future.
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Not to be mean but she probably just doesnt want to be your friend anymore. But insted of her telling you that, she is just tying to stop talking to you and hanging out with you so maybe you get the picture. Or maybe she just wants to be closer with her best friends, try to be friends with all her friends so you can all hangout together.
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She's obviously not your friend, let alone best friend. A friend of any kind would never, ever do that to you. She's not worth wasting your time on. Just ignore it, and make new friends. The best way to make new friends is to become better friends with the people you're already friendly with. If she really cares about you then she'll notice that you have new friends and if she really wants to be your "friend" again then she'll make it happen herself.
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maybe she just wants to be closer to her other friends. if you guys always hang out then maybe she just wants some space. or you could be doing something to get her mad. so ask her about it.
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There is no easy way to know the answer to this question except for talking to your friend about it. If you can't go to her house then call her or write her a letter. Just ask her what is going on and if something is wrong. Tell her that you feel left out and that you miss the company of her and her friendship. You can't force her to hang out with you or talk to you but you can tell her how you feel. Then all you can do is be patient for a response and hopefully she will come around. You might even remind her of things you two did together that you really miss. Reasons why you miss spending time with her and doing things with her. Let her know she is an important person in your life.
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