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Girlfriend can't commit
I am 19 and my girlfriend is in her mid-twenties with a 4-year degree and a new degree she's workign on. I am in community college with no job or direction. She has been with me for seven months, but now she has decided that she has to "give it a chance" with the guy she saw (not seriously) before me because he's more marriage material. Now she's spending all spring break with him and I am supposed to wait here as her plan B. What do I do?
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If she is already with you, and she is spending Spring Break with him, that is not normal. Talk to her about this and tell her that you want to spend time with her and even though it is not serious between them (hopefully) that you want to be with her and that it's weird that they are with each other that much.
♥ Kendall
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Never settle for second best. It shouldn't be a matter of who is more "marriage material", but who she feels more of a connection with. If she's willing to drop you & expect you to stick around, she's not worth your time. Find someone who will love & appreciate you as much as you do her.
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Honestly, I would never settle for being plan B. It sounds like this girl is looking for someone different than what you are. Rather than wait around hoping she'll change her mind or changing yourself to fit the person she wants, I would find someone who appreciates you for who you are. Someone who truly loves you will accept you as is.
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if she's not willing to stay with you, i'd say she's not worth your time. but that's up to you to decide.
i dont really know how you feel about her or how serious you guys are but either way that's not really right of her to do. if you guys were in a serious relationship i'd think she'd be willing to work it out. but since she isnt, maybe you need to make her your plan b too.
good luck!
♥ evy
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Definitely get over her. If she is willing to drop you like that then she isn't worth it.
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