DancinCutie08's advice column

My name is Devin Lindsey or Vinny as my sister calls me! I am 17 years old and go to Bethel Park High school. I loooove swimming along with dancing, singing, and playing softball. I also run varsity track with is alright i supose too.

My favorite colors are orange, pink, and blue. I love to be crazy and have a good time

I've had a job working for 15+ monthes so I can answer alot about that

and I know alot about relationships in general so I can be helpful with that sometimes

especially with parent child relationships

I am a very observant person and tend to know more and care about more than most my age

and I really believe in volunteering to help animals especially at shelters. Usually its not their fault that they have to live their and its usually horrible cercimstances that bring them there and I feel terrible that they can't speak for themselves and people are too caught up in spending like $500 on this cute little pure breed puppy from a breeder just into getting rich instead of giving one of these dogs another chance at life (there are usually a handful of dogs under a year old so the i want a puppy excuse doesn't work with me)

My baby is named Lainey Mae... we got her from a shelter about 2 hours away from us when she was 7 weeks old. she is now 2 years old and the center of our family. unfortunately someone was cruel enough to go down and drug up and shoot (but luckly not kill) most of the dogs plus rob the owner (just like someone did at the shelter where I volunteer) and its now shut down

advice

A guy friend of mine just moved into his first house (that he owns and doesnt rent) in another state with his wife. His wife and him have a very rocky marriage and I was a little surprised when he told me this. They had to move up there for a job.
Well the last time I talked to him I asked him how he felt about the move. He didnt sound excited at all (which suprised me because in his email he made it sound like a big deal that it was their first home together). He sounded really depressed and all he said was "it's beautiful up there", but he didnt sound like he meant it.
I told him how well I was doing and how happy I was with my life and my new job. He didnt sound happy for me at all. We were talking on the phone and then he snapped "I have to go, and don't phone me on my cell anymore unless it's after 6".
Well that was over 6 weeks ago and he hasnt phoned me or emailed me since. I was pretty choked he would do that to me, I mean it's not my fault that he's unhappy for whatever reason.
So my question is, why would he take anything out on me and not his wife? I've been a really good friend to him and I don't think it's fair. Also, why would he sound so depressed if he was moving to his first real home?

maybe he didnt want to move and he liked where he was at. and when people get upset they take it out on people that are helping them because it makes him feel better that your not happy too. i would just let him go for a little while a let him vent his anger. maybe try sending him a nice card for the holidays and then wait till after the holidays are over before you call him again. its pretty stressful moving esspecially around this time of year and everyone seams to get in bad moods.