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Hey, I'm Jen. I basically get on here when I'm really bored and I promise to be honest when answering your questions. :)

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Can someone help me in a nice way like not to hate everything?

Like I didn't have a heart break with boys or anything, I just like hate everything and these days I feel like my heart or something insde is burning so bad when I have this hate feeling that I'm going to die or have a heart attack or something.

Like one time my friend went up to me and all of a sudden started bragging about how she found this singer and starts obsessing over the songs and stuff but i already new the singer long time ago. She doesn't even techniquely know and like this singer or band because she knows nothing about them, doesn't know what are all the band member's name, etc she just searches their songs and it pisses me off.

See? there I'm at it again! I feel liek im going to die soon for hating so much

you are stressed. very stressed. dont worry this is normal, i have my days that no one can talk to me because i get so pissed off by everything. you need to find a way that you can calm down. quiet place that you can think to yourself, you time. what makes me calm down is sleeping. i wake up and i am suddenly stress free. maybe its singing, exercising, i dont know, experiment with it and find something that will make you relaxed. btw summer is almost here! you need a vacation lol we all do.

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what is a reasonable curfew for a responsible sixteen year old?

i agree that it does depend on wat they are doing. If it is a party, 11-12 would be good and if its the mall or the movies or anywhere else then like up to 9 the longest. The streets are very dangerous at night so you cant leave them out there for too long. Also make sure of where they are going because they might go to an unsafe location. I know a lot of 16 years olds that go to places to smoke or do drugs. Remember to give them freedom , but not too much freedom.

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Does anyone know any songs about a friendship that you want to take farther? (relationship)

jesse mccartney- why dont u kiss her...actually almost all of his songs...hope i helped!

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ok, so im 13 & my mom said that i could finally wear make up! im like really excited.. but im not sure what exacatly i should wear, cuz i dont want to look slutty or like really over do it ya know, cuz i dont think that i will wear make up every day... but my mom wont let me wear a lot of it, so it needs to be suttle, but nocitable, if you get what i mean...
I have redish blond hair, and im fairly tan but a little pale.. i have freckles across my cheeks and nose and i have hazel eyes..
anything will help!!
many many thanks in advance!!!!~

ok try brown eyeliner and then wear a little bit of mascara...dont wear too much. if you want, you can try light pink, or brown (anything natural) eyeshadow...i recommend using MAC or Avon. to finish it off, apply some lipgloss and there you go!!! :))

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my best friend is dating my crush of three years-- she knows that i like him. infact we almost dated last year but some things happened and it didnt work out. ive never liked someone as much as i liked him, she knows that. she acts like she forgot. what should i do? do i want someone like that in my life?

ignore her and pretend that it doesnt bother you. she is probably dating him to bother you so by acting like its cool, u will bother her. and no you do not need that friend. actually that isnt a friend at all. so you shouldnt even call her that. flirt with him and try to win him back. therefore, you can date him and bother her. if she knew that you liked him, and even flirted with him then she is not a friend, she is a hypocrite.

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take a look at this picture i took of myself (may not be clear)

http://img170.imageshack.us/img170/9720/mewscrunchedhairiq9.jpg

I've never scrunched my hair... so this would be my first time.
Can someone tell me if my hair is scrunched? and what i need to do to fix it?

this is what i did-

took a shower
then put moose in my hair and scrunched it up ( held it from the bottom and pushed it up on my head)
then I put gel in it and did the same thing while blow drying my hair
then I put it in a messy bun and left it like that for 10 minutes
took it out and then done.

did i do that right?
thnx

i think it looks pretty good...u have straight hair rite? Well i have curly hair and wat i do is scrunch them up with alot of gel. Then i let it airdry loose.

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i have a pad on now but it is just for discharge when do i change pads?

change it when there is either too much blood, or every 4-6 hours.... hope i helped!!!

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Ok i have a digital kodak camera. I am a wrestler. My mom video tapes all my matches. I want to make like a highlight reel of my matches. Like be able to cut certain parts out of each video and put em all together in a video and put some music in the background. any1 know a program, or free trial program i can download? FAST
rate 5

i think every computer comes with that program. its called windows movie maker...thats wat i use... its really easy!!!

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Like ive never made out with anyone, but i have a feeling or something i might soon at the movies.
Can someone explain to me how to

.. how to start
what to do
and how to end


like im not sure
and please dont just tell me to follow the other persons lead.
thank you
xoxox

go here...it explains EVERYTHING lol

http://www.links2love.com/kissing_teens_perfect_kiss.htm

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I have been coughing horribly for 3 straight months! I went to my doctor and he said it was allergies mixed with acid reflex. He gave me medicine for both, and my acid reflex has gotten A LOT better but I'm coughing even more now! It sounds worse too, and I cough up mucus every time(yes, I know it's gross). Does this mean it's getting better or what? I can't go to the doctor again because my step dad thinks I'm a hypocondriac.

i think you have acute bronchidus, so do i. Go to the doctor again and ask. If you do, then take inhalers and some pills that he will give you. Here are some websites...
http://www.medicinenet.com/bronchitis/article.htm

http://www.emedicinehealth.com/bronchitis/article_em.htm

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13/f

I want to be a film director and need to know whether you need to take drama as an option to do it. I thought maybe you could just take media and then go on to study specifically tv and film media, but you might need to take drama.

So, do you know?

i suggest you to take drama, and television production (this is making the morning news, you can film it if you want to be the camera person) i have it, lots of fun!!!!

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For a long time I have not been the typical friend happy wild and crazy party person a lot of people are I am quite boring at times actually but I am a good friend and I can be fun with the right person doing the right things. It is just that sometimes I think that I don't want a lot of friends any way because a lot of times they can cause drama or it's just another person that knows dirt about you that you have to be reminded of everytime you look at them Right now I have associates but no close friends and sometimes I feel lonely. Is it okay to be a loner or not?

you should get some friends, they are there for you when you are lonely, and to just have some fun! But know that its hard to get a good friend and i know this from experiece. But when you get that one good friend, your life changes, and you wont be lonely anymore. You will have someone to depend on. There are pros and cons on having friends, but i suggest you just think of the pros. Hope i helped...
xoxo
jennifer

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Is there a site that would provide html codes for me to change the font in things such a bullitens on Myspace? I don't want the basic fonts. I was looking for things like cursive..Thank you.

yes this is the one i use !!! :)

http://www.whateverlife.com/myspacebasics2.php

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When I get home from school, all I do is eat. But I want to stop doing that because I want to lose 10 pounds. So what are some HEALTHY snacks that are still good to eat? Thanks. :]

You SHOULD eat after school!!!! But eat healthy!!!! www.mypyramid.gov is a great website about eating healthy. Maybe you can eat sliced apples with peanut butter?(check oon the back of the peanut butter, it should not have corn syrup because that is fatning.) Try eating tuna or grilled things. But before you eat anything, you should look in the back for how many calories it has. On an average, a girl should eat 2000 calories a day and a boy 2500! But on that website there is a calculator that calculates how many calories you should eat a day according to the amount of exercise you do, how old u are, etc...
xoxo
jennifer

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i have no idea what to get my boy for valentines day! please help!

Try to get him his favorite colonge or just a nice shirt that he'll like. Also, you can burn him a cd of all his and yours favorite love songs, (songs that have history with you guys, or that describes your relationship). If not, it would be nice for you to take him out somewhere instead of him taking you...!!! Hope you have fun on Valentine's Day!!!!
xoxo
jennifer

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im a 14 year old male and me and this girl started to talk. i liked er and i new she liked me. we would talk and play after scool. then one day i asked her out. she just grumbled and walked away. the next day i saw her but when she saw me she started to walk in the oppisate direcion. i know she is looking at me but when i look at her she quick look away. i asked her out about 3 months ago and thing still havent changed and i really miss talking to her. i was wondering if there are any girls out there who can help me get our relation back.

awwwwwwww thats sooo cute! its sooo hard to find a guy that actually like the girl for who she is. well my advice is to call her and tell her that you really miss having her as a friend. That its ok if she doesnt want to be more than friends. Talk to her, and tell her what you are feeling, girls love that! If you want, bring her a valentine gift, like roses or a box of chocolate. And if she still ignores you, then she is totally not worth it! She will later on realize what she lost and you will move on to someone better. If you want, bring her a valentine gift, like roses or a box of chocolate.
xoxo
jennifer

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ok,well my favorite brand of all time is pacsun

well its not that hard... you can try a skirt with any shirt, (casual or trendy). Also, jeans go with everything!!!!!

here is an outfit:
shorts:(the brown one)http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_308892_-1_12752_12635

shirt:(the ivory one)
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&productId=47776&parentCategoryId=10002&categoryId=25917&pageNumber=1&sortBy=0#


outfit two:
skirt:
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_281546_-1_12595_12552

top:(the pink one)
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&productId=47389&parentCategoryId=10002&categoryId=24168&pageNumber=1&sortBy=0

outfit 3:
jeans:
http://shop.pacsun.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/ProductDisplay?storeId=10001&catalogId=10001&langId=-1&productId=48753&parentCategoryId=10002&categoryId=10963&pageNumber=1&sortBy=0

top:(the orange one)...or any they are match
http://www.hollisterco.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10251_10201_319435_-1_12628_12552


Hope i helped. if you need more help just message me! my msn is jennyjany2009@yahoo.com


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Hello to all. I'm a 14/f. I'm in the 9th grade. I have a serious problem. It's ruining my life. I've been noticing lately that people are using me. And I mean EVERYONE. When they need an answer (on a test, or a quiz w/e) they ask me. I, being a pushover, give them the answer and try to help them to the best of my ability. However, when *I* need something, like help, or advice, they shun me out. They ignore me and make up some lame excuse to not have to deal with me and my questions and problems. I used to think I can rely on a group of people, but now it turns out they're just using me. On the weekends, they NEVER call. They NEVER want to talk. However, when they need something, they always come to me. (This is probably because I get straight A's...) I feel like an object...a piece of gum, that has been chewed up and spit out. I'm coming to the point where my favorite band and my own cat are my best friends. I can't rely on anyone because I know they will use me. I help them truthfully...and they end up backstabbing me. Like an example of a situation: I finished an exam online (it's worth a grade) and I got a 60. My friend asked me to give her some answers to cheat since it won't affect my 60 anyways...so I gave her 7 answers...and she got a 79. While I was upset, she started asking me if I think the teacher will pull the grade up to an 80 -_-. I then asked her for help and she rejected. I'm so confused.

You have the same problem i once had...you need to learn to say "no". When they ask you forsomething, make an excuse, and they WILL eventually get the point and leave you alone. that used to be me in 6thgrade(im now in 10th). Leave that group of "friends" and find new ones. find true friends, smart friends, friends that you will still know in 10 years. Dont befriend the "popular" girls because most of them arent smart and just pretend to be friends with you for the answers of work. They are hypocrites. Just find smart, nice, normal friends...they are the best.

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The kid I like is a horny, horny boy. And who can blame him? He hit puberty. He probably just wants action.
But my idea is that if I gave him a blowjob, he'd like it. If i told him that I'd keep doing it if he asked me out, we'd be together.

What does everyone think of this plan?

-Jordan

HORRIBLE PLAN!!! dont come to him!!! let him come to you. If you tell him that then it seems as if you are a desperate girl, which im sure you are not! Just dress sexier infront of him and flirt flirt flirt!!! Dont give him what he wants right away or it will never last. People will think that you are a slut and you will have a bad reputation for the rest of you school life. And guys dont like sluts! So dont go with that plan!!!!
xoxo
jennifer

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My friend and I went to the movies the other day and the whole movie she was making out with her boyfriend.

I found this weird because no one in my grade really does this. But I kept seeing her like rub his private parts over his pants.. and I know this sounds weird but I could hear him like moaning.

But question is, is this normal? Is this just like giving a hand job?

I know this question seems stupid, I'm just really uneducated.

Thanks in advance.

That is not a stupid question! He was just enjoying himself...alot lol! well i think it was rude to do it in public, if you are going to make out, do it in privacy!!!! It is normal, and alot of kids in my school do it!!!! hope i helped!

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