im a 14 year old male and me and this girl started to talk. i liked er and i new she liked me. we would talk and play after scool. then one day i asked her out. she just grumbled and walked away. the next day i saw her but when she saw me she started to walk in the oppisate direcion. i know she is looking at me but when i look at her she quick look away. i asked her out about 3 months ago and thing still havent changed and i really miss talking to her. i was wondering if there are any girls out there who can help me get our relation back.
Sydnie_I_can_Try answered Thursday January 18 2007, 10:15 pm: Well, I know it would be hard, but try your best to get to talk to her alone. Ask her why she is treating you so different now. And tell her you are sorry for springing that on her. I for one, am not the type to treat someoen different casue they asked me out. That is the best I could come up with in this situation.
Elle19 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:24 pm: hey,
Maybe she wasn't ready for an actual boyfriend/ grilfriend realtionship... maybe she just wanted to be friends. Maybe she is annoyed by previous events of being friends with a guy then being asked out maybe she feel she just can't be friends with a guy! Maybe she doesn't believe you like her! I think you need to sit down adn talk to her, if not in person via text, over the interent or write her a letter!
holadoodle33 answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:23 pm: You've probably heard this before, but you should just tell her that. Tell her that it's fine if she doesn't want to date you and you won't hold it agaisnt her, but you miss hanging out with her. Then smile and tell her something funny to make her laugh.
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xxlilreddivaxx answered Thursday January 18 2007, 6:23 pm: awwwwwwww thats sooo cute! its sooo hard to find a guy that actually like the girl for who she is. well my advice is to call her and tell her that you really miss having her as a friend. That its ok if she doesnt want to be more than friends. Talk to her, and tell her what you are feeling, girls love that! If you want, bring her a valentine gift, like roses or a box of chocolate. And if she still ignores you, then she is totally not worth it! She will later on realize what she lost and you will move on to someone better. If you want, bring her a valentine gift, like roses or a box of chocolate.
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