Member Since: January 19, 2007
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I'm someone who thinks a lot and when I think a lot, I tend to think negative. A lot of people have told me to stop thinking too much and being negative but I just can't. I think the idea of thinking positive is stupid because it is like a kind of self-denial. I'm pessimistic because I wanna prepare myself for the worst should the worst hit me.
Say for example if I know I screwed up my test paper, I can't possibly tell myself oh ya I'm gonna do well. When I get a really bad haircut, I can't think of anything positive about it. When I pick my classes for school, I always think of the negative, like what if my classes suck? What if the teachers are gonna pile us with homework? I tried talking to my parents but they say they don't wanna talk to me because I keep thinking about things that are not going to happen or things that haven't even happen. I don't wanna bug my friends with this problem because I have told them about it b4.
I have no one to turn to. I really can't change my mode of thinking. I don't wanna delude myself of reality and yet I don't wanna live in self denial by being optimistic. Somebody help. (link)
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okay wut you need to do is think of somthing thats not on the negitive side. ex would be girlfriend/boyfriend or somthing cause ive had this problem and all i did was think about my girlfriend and know i have really good grades.
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im a 14 year old male and me and this girl started to talk. i liked er and i new she liked me. we would talk and play after scool. then one day i asked her out. she just grumbled and walked away. the next day i saw her but when she saw me she started to walk in the oppisate direcion. i know she is looking at me but when i look at her she quick look away. i asked her out about 3 months ago and thing still havent changed and i really miss talking to her. i was wondering if there are any girls out there who can help me get our relation back. (link)
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wut you could do is go and call or ask and see if any of your friends can figure out why shes not talking to you.
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Ok, im 13 years old and female and i have this "boy" friend that likes me and i like him to but the problem is he doesnt no i like him back. i hate using friends to tell people i like them for me because they always make me look stupid and we cant pass notes because the teachers have eyes in the back of their heads. How can i tell him i like him without running up to him and telling him straight up o and how can i get him to ask me out to? i really need to know before monday because after that i wont be able to get to a computer for 2 weeks!
thanx,
pennsylvania chic
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you could call him and tell him how you fell or you could go to the movies or somthing and tell him.
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how old do you have to be to work at chuck e cheeses? im just curious if they would hire a 14 year old. (link)
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you could call and ask the company or you could look it up an the chuck ee chese website.
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i am a 13 year old boy. i met this girl and we started to talk alot but then when i asked her out she just walked away. about aweek later i started talking to her but she will just run away and i dont know what to do. please help. (link)
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wut you could do is try calling her or like corner her and ask her why shes not talking to you.
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me and my friends (girls and boys) made this kind of crazy bet last week. i won't go into detail because the moderators might delete my question, but now one of the boys (we'll call him T) is starting to get a little too friendly for my liking. i mean, he's cute and all, but this problem has been happening to me for at least 5 years now. T just can't keep his hands off of me! he'll touch my butt & run, come up behind me & "accidentally" bump into me, or put his hands on my chest.& on top of that, he keeps callin me his girl! i guess it's my fault for letting him do it, but i do tell him to stop & try turn the other way when he reaches for my chest. i guess what i'm trying to ask is,how should i deal with this? i don't want to gget him in trouble by reporting him to the principal, because that seems like i'll be taking it a little too far. if anybody can give some suggestions, that would be great!!! (link)
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you could tell your parents and see i they could tell him too stop or you caould tell a teacher
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im planning on asking this guy to the sadie hawkins (barn dance) tomorrow. hes a sophomore im a freshman. but im scared. i know that nothing will happen unless i ask him but im scared of rejection. Any tips on what to do? Also do most guys say yes to these kind of things? cause hes my friend.. but he might wanna go with another sophomore. and idk then ill feel weird. so would most guys say yes?
Thanks! (link)
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If you come with more situwashines like this again dont be afraid ask him and be cool about it.
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i REALLY need advice and I don't know who to talk to about it. please givelike really good answers. Okay this might be long but please. So, I need advice on a couple things, one of which is like at school, people call me a lezbo- WHICH I AM TOTALLY NOT. Like people (even popular but not at much) say it sometimes to my face, behind my back, or like say something kinda like "So make out with any hot girls lately" or something like "Yeah, you would look really good with all your hair chopped off- like a dyke", pretty much something like that in a really wise ass way. mostly guys say it to my face and girls just talk shit about it. And I know from reading this you probably think I'm a total nerd, but I'm actually average. People are usually nice to my face but still, it really bugs me thats everyone once in a while people I don't even know, or do, talk about me and say stuff that they don't even know is true. I really would like for someone to help me GET OVER THIS and GET THIS TO STOP. It started last year so I really really want this to stop. I mean I would rather be known as a slut then a lezbo (no offense to anyone). I know I shouldn't care, but it's not something you can really not care about. I don't know maybe its because I never had a boyfriend (not like i don't want one, but that anyone who ever asks me out I don't want to go out with because either i don't know them, or they are one of my best friends) PLEASE! I really need advice, I get so upset about it. One more is, I really need help making new friends. Like I have about only three friends that I actually hang out with outside of school and act like myself around and then the other people are either from other towns or we only hang out once. I have like friends in school, but not the kind that you want to talk to on the computer or call or hang out with. I know its kind of pathetic, but I really do need to make new friends. I'm kid of shy at school and I know if I just acted like how I do around my normal friends (funny and like loud and around guys a total flirt) that I most likely could be in with the "popular kids". ha. yeah so all I want to do is have those rumors stop, and make a WHOLE new bunch of friends. One of my best friends,Casey, ALWAYS hangs out with me and kinda sorta follows me. Im pretty much her only friend because she NEVER talks in school. I really need to kinda of pull away from here because I'm spending all my time with her and not focusing on meeting new people&makin new friends. she isnt really into making new friends and kind of wants me and expects me to spend all my time with her. i need to make new friends and fast -serouisly.
Please help.!!!!
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if people call you a lezbo go up to the the people and say why do keep saying im a lezbo im not and ask them nicely to stop.
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