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a girl wont talk to me
i am a 13 year old boy. i met this girl and we started to talk alot but then when i asked her out she just walked away. about aweek later i started talking to her but she will just run away and i dont know what to do. please help.
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mayb she is nervous around you??? but another possibilty is that she does not want to hurt your feelings b/c she does not like you. well i suggest you have talk with her saying why are you avoiding me or like you should say i like you but if you do not like me could we still be friends, and ask do you like me back.. idk to tell you the truth i never been in a situation like this and idk what realtionship you have with this gal, well it's up to you i hope the advice i gave you works out well:)
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wut you could do is try calling her or like corner her and ask her why shes not talking to you.
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There could be two possiblities here.
1. She really does like you, but she's afraid to tell you or admit that she does like you. Reason being, because she may be scared of getting her heart broken.
2. Honestly, she may not like you in that way and does not want to hurt your feelings. So she finds it easier to run away from it, and not talk to you than to deal with it and be honest with you, and remain friends.
Either way, if this is really bothering you -- I'm assuming it does or you wouldn't have posted this question. I recommend trying to talk to her again, go to her house, send her a letter or note, etc. One of those things, and just let her know that it's okay for her to be honest with you, no matter how she feels. And you can handle you two being friends only (if you can.)
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girls can be weird like that sometimes.. maybe she likes you but shes just shy. she never really said no but she never said yes either. make sure that when youre talking to her you guys are alone so then shes not influenced by her friends or anything.
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okay..trust me i know what shes going through!
theres 2 possibilities
A) She actually does like you but she was just caught in the rush and said no because that was the first thing that came to mind. or maybe one of her friends likes you. It also could be that since she likes you she gets nervouse around you and she may think that it feeld akward..could u possibily write her a note? aim?e-mail? there are lots of different ways if u cant talk to her in person without her running away.
B) she may not like you and doesnt want to hurt your feelings so she just avoids you
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oh lord. the people below me are weird. no offense; i'm just talking about they're response.
i'm sorry to be the bringer of bad news but .. it doesn't sound like she likes you. =[
this is the second question i've answered like this & i'm sorry, but that's what it sounds like.
i think she just doesn't want to deny you because she likes you as a friend & doesn't want to say no to upset you or anything & want to keep the friendship.
in a few months though, she'll probably end up liking you or something like alot of girls do. you never know ..
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well maybe she is stunned or upset that you asked her out, maybe she had problems with relationships in the past.
It could be a long list of things why she runs away from you but it is not you I am postive
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Omg like it sounds like she likes you! She's probably like in denial, maybe she thinks you're kidding or not serious, or doing it as a joke. Just try to talk to her and like ask her what's up, and tell her you only wanna be "friends" but like ya, just say that for now and maybe something will happen later. kk ~Regina
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well see if you can find out any other info maybe from her friends, to find out why she isn't talking to you. sometimes rumors spred like that you wanted to do it with her or something like that, so maybe thats why she isn't talking to you. there is a lot of possibilities but i think that you should walk up to her and ask her why she isn't talking to you, tell her that you are hurt, and you want to fix the problem. Since you don't know why she isn't talking to you, try telling her that. If she runs away again ask her friends for help!
hope things turn out ok!!!~
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