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okay i have this guy friend and see i dont know if i like him because i havnt seen him in a while and he gave me a hug today and i liked it and then he told me he got a girlfriend and i got mad does that mean i like him?

if you're jealous of his girlfriend, then there's a good chance that you like him...or did he ever like you? cuz maybe you don't like him but u still don't like the idea of him liking someone else instead of you

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i do have his s/n....what do you think i should say to him? i dont wanna freak him out thought by saying like oh i love you blah blah....

yeah that would be a little stalkerish sounding! lol start out with something that it wouldn't be weird for you to know ~ like if he plays a sport, ask him how practices are going and if he thinks the team is gonna do well this season...or if he plays an instrument, ask him how long he's been playing...then relate yourself into these things by saying what sport you play or if you've ever had ne musical talents lol then a conversation should get started and he'll see that you are more than just a pretty face!

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I really like this older guy.(im a freshman he's a senior:/)I mean ALOT! When I see him I seriously just melt. When I talk to him I don't know what to say....he just like makes me speechless. But he knows I like him and stuff. He always says that I don't talk & that I probably won't do more than kissing. (wRonG) but anyway, I just don't know what to do. I mean he jokes around all the time about hooking up and stuff and I really take all that stuff serious. I'm like obssessed w/ him! haha I need helP!

do u ever see him outside of school?? try getting his sn if you don't already have it and then im him, cuz this way you'll be able to think b4 u type so you won't sound stupid...or get his cell phone number and if you feel like you know him well enuf then text message him...that should evolve into talking on the phone which should evolve into hanging out!! good luck

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What if my boyfriend is embarrased to kiss me in front of his guy friends ? does that mean he does not like me or he is using me or somthing ?

some ppl just don't like PDA (public display of affection)

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uMm...i saw my friend make a move on my bf..what do i do ?

i'd bring the topic of cheating up and if she denies doing it be like I SAW YOU and see if she'll fess up to you then...if she does fess up then you guys can talk it out, and if she doesn't then screw her...either way, you definitely need to confront your bf and if i were you, i wouldn't let it go that easily

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whenever i sing or act in a large group of ppl i dont, i get so scared i wanna cry. how do i get over being scared?

imagine them in their underwear!! haha but seriously, i think the more you do it the more comfortable you'll get, even if you start out small...i used to have a similar problem ~ when i did gymnastics i used to do really good at practice and then at meets i'd get so nervous and shakey - so then my coach made me practice my beam routines with the whole gym watching and at the end of the season i stuck my routine and placed 2cd on beam at the regional meet! what a wonderful success story, my eyes are tearing up hahaha good luck

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My mom always complains about me never being home. She says that she thinks that i dont love her and only want to talk to her when i want something. (im sure everyone is gonna say that their mom is like that too), but are there any ways that i can 'hang out' or spend time with my mom with still being able to be as social and hang out with my friends as much as i do? please give me some ideas to have fun with my mom (i know that sounds lame) but i know it would help me to be able to do more stuff.

it think you should tell your mom some things about your life or ask her for advice so that she feels important and included in your life...things you can do together ~ see a movie, go out to lunch, go on a bikeride...hey, you can even offer to pay so she feels exxtra special! lol

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my room is soo boring! i have a dresser, a big desk for homework and all this other stuff, plus 2 twin beds and a small closet! the walls are white and the landlord wont let me paint them, how can i make my room look better? dont say whatever you want, say real stuff!!! thanks a bunch!

try hanging like string lights or some other sort of cool lighting up

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i started my period a few months ago...and my mom gave me pads....i want tampons soo i can go swimming etc....soo i decided to ask her...i cant get the guts up to ask her...how should i ask her?

i kno what you mean about being embarassed - maybe you can go to the food store with her next time you go shopping and if you pass that aisle be like oh! i just remembered i wanted to buy tampons so i could go swimming!...or if you know a friend who has a pool and you're gonna go over there, tell your mom that you are just goin to hang out but don't plan on swimming and she'll be all like why? lol

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i typed at the end of my answer...

i think it has something to do with the symbol before the 3 in the heart cuz i typed something earlier with that in it and it didn't show and i retyped it w/o it and the typing was there

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is it true that you can use a tampns during ur period and still swim??!?!?!

yes! lol i thought that was the whole purpose of them... the tampon absorbs blood so it doesn't leak out

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i have a bf but i'm not sure if he is really into me nemore we use 2 tlak bout everything bout now we barely talk.I call him sometimes n he doesn't really seem lyk he wants to talk he never calls me n he is always busy n cna never do nething. i talk to his brother on the IM n ask him but he doesn't really kno wut am i suppose 2 do...how do i find out if he really lykes me or not? plz help!

maybe you should bring up the idea of breaking up and see how he reacts - if he doesn't want to then tell him he needs to talk more with you or else it's not going to work

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um i have a question . . . I like this guy but hes kinda of what you would call a "nerd" and if i ever went out with him people would laugh at me.Should i go out with him or find someone else?

give it a try - maybe he's only a nerd cuz nobody else gave him a chance! you can always break it off

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i jus broke up wit this girl that lives in my home town that is rlly clos but things didnt go good and i jus waznt feelin her after i broke up wit her she still luvs me but i like sum1 else and this person lives 1 hour and 30 minutes away but she is rlly coo and idc what ppl think of her there sayin shit and they dont even know her but neways idk what to do cuz i lost a best friend cuz of it and i miss her alrdy and she wont talk cuz she said what i did waz wrong......???

tell her that going out changed your relationship and you want things to go back to the way you used to be bcuz you used to have so much fun together

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Ok, I know that this is a really dumb question, but I'm gonna ask anyways.

I went out with this guy for about 5 months. We broke up for a while (about 6 months), and now we are back together.

While we were broken up, I hooked up with a friend's friend from out of town. My boyfriend doesn't know him, and there is an outside chance that they will one day meet, but I'm not all that worried about that.

For some reason which I can't explain even to myself, I feel as if I should tell my boyfriend. I don't feel guilty about the hookup, because, well, we were apart. I guess I just feel that he should know. But I don't want to mess anything up in between us.

So... to tell or not to tell... that is the question? (Sorry for the cliche, I couldn't resist.)

i think you should tell him to build trust and so that you guys have a strong relationship since you kno each other so well...if it bothers him, then you guys can talk about it - he can't be mad since you were broken up at the time

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Im a 16 year old girl and i dated this boy for 2 years we broke up severeal times within then because I had trust issues. we finally broke up for i think good 5 months ago but he says he is still in love with me and beleives that me and him will get married and have kids, I do like him but its more just as a friend he is very nice but i have a g/f now i have been going out with for 3 months and i really like her so how do i let my ex b/f know that i dont really want a future with him as more then just a friend without hurting his feelings and losing his friendship?

if you have a girlfriend now, then aren't you a lesbian?? (Or bi??) well, if you are a lesbian just tell him THAT lol that's as good a reason as any...let him kno that you're happy now ~ you can't help who you fall for and he should be able to realize that!

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You see, whenever I fly on airplanes, I usually get airsick, and I begin to throw up. But just a few months ago, I didn't throw up, so I was pretty happy. But last week, I just found out that my bf's mom invited me to Las Vegas, so we're taking a plane. I'm really scared that I'll throw up. AND I don't wanna be ashamed. What should I do to keep me from puiking? It seems so uncool typing this on an advice column but no one knows who I am anyways.

there are things you can take to help with motion sickness - like dramamine

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What can i do to be more popular in school...i have soo many friends but i just wanna b a lil more poplular....and guys give ur true and honest answer dont give me a "full house" answer please.....help me out!

i hope you mean popular as in more ppl kno u and u kno more ppl and not as in everybody thinks i'm cool cuz that's just lameeeeeee...anyway, my advice is BE LOUD!!!! and dress well and do your hair and be nice to the kids you want to be friends with...also, a lot of times the "popular" ppl can be sarcastic so just play along and don't act offended

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Hey there everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and I am a virgin. I am in no way thinking of having sex or asking if i'm too young to or anything, this has to deal more with the future. I am going to wait to have sex until I find a special person, it doesn't really matter if I am married or not. But, I'm afraid that the longer I hold out, it's going to be harder and harder to find a guy that's a virgin also, because it seems like there are none left. So I was wondering if it's silly of me to think that there is a guy out there that is a virgin that I will find somewhere down the road as I get older. Or stop being silly about it and not care?

i don't think it's silly, but i'm just wondering why it matters to you that the guy would be a virgin?? in my opinion, as long as you're the most important thing to him, then why should you let what he's done in the past bother you?

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What does it mean when u wake up and find clear gel stuff on ur underwear (im a girl)

it's totally normal...i read somewhere that if you don't have your period yet, that it means you'll get it in a couple of months, but that wasn't true for me at all so don't worry - just be prepared ;)

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